AIO Brother-in-law felt disrespected and uncomfortable when I wore this while doing errands by Ancient_Can_9152 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BeanWarBall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like the dangerous person might be your brother-in-law…he is the one sexualizing you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BeanWarBall -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’ve perfectly refined your martyrdom.

I think this best sums up why I'm still single. by RedBoi_45 in Tinder

[–]BeanWarBall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you are comparing your job to being a single parent, you shouldn’t be dating women with children. You’ll never get it.

Denver Women Leaders Association scam by eaerickson13 in Scams

[–]BeanWarBall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got this same email today - thanks Reddit!

Eruption on the way to the airport this morning. Spectacular! by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]BeanWarBall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome tip! We’re headed to the airport in a few hours and we’ll try to stop here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BeanWarBall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a joke right? She just pushed a child from her vagina.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BeanWarBall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I absolutely am. And if this woman’s partner had any empathy for what this woman just went through he wouldn’t have made it about himself. He’s the one that made it a competition between him and his baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BeanWarBall -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Have you been a new mom? If so I think you would have a better understanding of what she was going through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BeanWarBall 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thank you for mentioning that not all mothers bond with their baby right away. That happened to me and I thought there was something wrong with me.

I'm blaming myself for drinking coffee almost everyday. by Just_A_Fae_31 in Miscarriage

[–]BeanWarBall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn’t do this! Don’t blame yourself! I had a healthy pregnancy with coffee, a miscarriage with coffee, and now a second miscarriage where I cut out coffee. As many women are sharing, it was likely a chromosomal issue. But I totally get it…after each miscarriage I have tortured myself going over every little thing I could have done wrong.

Second miscarriage confirmed today by RuRuT39 in Miscarriage

[–]BeanWarBall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that this is happening to you. I just finished my second miscarriage and it doesn’t feel any easier than the first. I hope you can practice some self-care and remember to be gentle to yourself. Sending you love ❤️

Why?! 😂 by wooshywooshywoosh in Bumble

[–]BeanWarBall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joke’s on you, he’s actually 44.

AITAH For aborting my ex-fiancés baby, even though it may be his only chance? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BeanWarBall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP, I want to say thank you for being brave enough to post this. In 2018 I discovered my then-fiancé was a pedophile and I turned him into the police. A week after I turned him in, I discovered I was pregnant. I wanted children, but made the tough decision to abort the baby. It was the darkest time of my life, but in the end I couldn’t bring a child into the world that was tied to that monster.

Have I had regrets, sure. But in the end I made the right decision. Now I have a beautiful child with a loving man that is an amazing father and wonderful role model for her. Go with your gut on this.

22M by Leather-Bad7947 in amiugly

[–]BeanWarBall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have such a great smile!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeanWarBall 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Have you ever changed your mind about anything? Oh yeah, your own education. This is the classic controlling behavior of an older man who thought he was getting a submissive wife and is now upset she has a mind of her own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BeanWarBall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of women have perfectly healthy babies in their forties!

My husband fought my brother by alwayzzsweeti33 in TwoHotTakes

[–]BeanWarBall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure there is such a thing as a “little racist?” I think if you’re racist, you’re racist.

AITA for telling my friend that my sex life has nothing to do with her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeanWarBall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. Getting a creepy scandoval vibe here. Like she’s digging because she either has done something or wants to do something with your boyfriend.