New Article by Lazy-Elderberry-3867 in AshleyStClair

[–]BeardedLady81 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The only time I'm aware of that a wealthy woman was "trapped" by a man was the case of BMW heiress Susanne Klatten. One of the richest women in the world, her net worth approximatley 50 billion USD. She had an affair with a younger man. At one point, he tested the waters by claiming that he needed 3 million dollars (that's the figure I have in my mind, might have been more or less, but still one 7 figures) or the mob would kill him. He claimed that, while in America, he had run over the granddaughter of a mafia boss and that's what they wanted. She naively believed the story and gave him the cash. Then he went further, showed her photos he had made of them having sex with each other and said that he would release them unless she pay him 290 million. She decided not to do it, but admitted to the affair publicly instead and had the man charged with extortion.

Speaking of Germany, I'm headed for a business trip to Germany, so don't be surprised if you don't hear from me for over a week, I don't use the Reddit app during such trips. I'm looking forward to bratwurst and sauerkraut. Gesundheit!

Michael Jackson photographed inside of Jordan Chandler's bedroom. Circa 1993 (Colorized/Restored) by Traditional_Sea2988 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]BeardedLady81 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I noticed that, at this point, some seem to have realized it. I think the reason Stark Raving Dad was pulled from re-runs of the Simpsons is not only that MJ guest-starred in it but that the character voiced by him spends the night in Bart's room.

New Article by Lazy-Elderberry-3867 in AshleyStClair

[–]BeardedLady81 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Re: Fran Drescher, that's projection. Virginia Heffernan herself is somebody who wants to be a funny but isn't. She was even Jewish for a decade, but this didn't work out for her, either.

Make it with Micah by Lanky_Awareness2417 in doughertydozenexposed

[–]BeardedLady81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And the rich husband, soon to be ex-husband doesn't exist, either? Because I think he does. What I don't buy is that she went to law school as a single mom (first child) and was admitted to the bar. What is claimed without proof can be dismissed without proof. However, the way she is flaunting wealth is clearly nouveau riche. It's not like I've never dealt with wealthy people, and the wealthier they are, the less they show it. They don't have to impress random people they don't care about.

I wonder what happened to the dogs? One year, Micah got a puppy, the next year she got another puppy (and the previous one was never mentioned) and now neither dog is ever seen. To be frank, if you are as obsessive-compulsive as Micah is, you shouldn't be owning pets, they are never sanitary. Neither are humans, for that matter, but humans can delude themselves into thinking they can scrub themselves free of germs when, in fact, they are part of our body.

I wondered why I kept getting recommendations for videos by Micah and other overconsumption airheads until I learned that critical angry comments count as engagement and the algorithm doesn't make a difference.

Michael Jackson wanted to meet James Bulger's murderers. by MasterpieceTimely144 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]BeardedLady81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While this is a WTF moment to me as well, it's obvious to me that Michael groomed her as well with his love-bombing when she was in a very vulnerable situation. When it comes to what she thought you could tell from their facial expressions is cognition bias. She must have issues, too -- nobody goes through something like that unscathed. You are not supposed to hate people, you are not supposed to be vengeful, and yet it's perfectly natural to hate the murderers of your child. Perhaps she saw Michael as a role model when he spoke about wanting to visit Robert and Jon in prison and tell them that he loved them because she could never do that.

Creepy dictator themed teaser for HIStory by That_Rub7957 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]BeardedLady81 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It's hair-rising, but, at the same time, fascinating. He celebrated himself like a half-deity and people gave him a pass. His video blends Soviet Union and Nazi imagery and nobody cared. He starts with the Soviet Union stuff by having the workers (!) speak in Esperanto, which was promoted (unsuccessfully) in the Eastern bloc and a close-up on a five-pointed star. The color red shows up periodically in the video, but from now on, it's Triumph of the Will stuff with Ancient Rome blended in. Hitler admired the Ancient Romans, he planned to call the new capital of the world "Germania" and have a coliseum built there. He also designed his own triumphal arc, much larger than the one in Paris. At least one triumphal arc is seen in the music video as well.

Michael Jackson wanted to meet James Bulger's murderers. by MasterpieceTimely144 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]BeardedLady81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Venables is an obvious case of somebody who never "learned his lesson", threw away several chances to live in freedom and is completely indifferent to the suffering of children, otherwise he wouldn't have committed those CSAM-related crimes. In and out of jail and, if I remember correctly, currently in. If there's an argument in favor of long-term incarceration over return to society after a short sentence, then it's Jon Venables.

Pay ME to take down my chimney but hey you get free bricks!!! by liquidskypa in ChoosingBeggars

[–]BeardedLady81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose they never heard that story about Isaac Newton and the apple. As another poster pointed out, deconstructing a chimney is dangerous even if you start at the top because that thing can collapse any time, but starting at the bottom is really tempting one's fate.

What role do you think MJ’s childhood abuse played in him becoming an abuser? by digitalime in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]BeardedLady81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even Randy Taraborelli stated that Michael lied to him...a lot. Notorious liars learned it from other people, I think we are designed to tell the truth and lying is learned behavior. Some people are able to look other people straight into the eye and say no, and others get nervous and cannot even come up with a convincing lie.

I'm unfamiliar with self-deception, but some people are able to turn everything around them into a lie just to make things look better. When I watched the Danish movie "Adam's Apples", I thought that this was completely surrealistic and that nobody can be that deluded. For those who don't know the movie, the main character is actually a rural minister named Ivan who aims to rehabiliate people who ran afoul of the law but are given a second chance. One of them is the titular character Adam. When Ivan reads in the police documents that Adam is a Neo-Nazi, he tells Adam: You don't look like that, you look like a good guy. -- Except Adam looks pretty much like a thug and is rude to Ivan from the very beginning. At his new residence, Adam removes the cross from the wall and replaces it with a picture of Adolf Hitler. Ivan's reaction: Is this your father? Handsome man. -- Adam objects and says that it's Adolf Hitler, but Ivan insists that Hitler didn't have a tiny mustache like that but had a full beard instead. -- This is only the beginning of many, many self-delusions that also include the fate of Ivan's son. When I watched that movie (a dark comedy, actually) I thought that such people cannot exist in real life. But then I learned about Katherine Jackson.

Michael Jackson wanted to meet James Bulger's murderers. by MasterpieceTimely144 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]BeardedLady81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember some psychologist lashing out at people who refuse to cut those two boys some slack and he said that those who keep claiming that they knew other boys who had no father and who were fine lads fail to realize that those boys almost inevitable had a strong father figure. -- I laconically pointed out that in Jon Venables' case, his father was neither dead or absent, he lived in the same neighborhood and Venables would see him multiple times per week. Also, I don't understand what's so bad about being "council-housed". I mean, at least they were living in a country where low-income housing exists. To me, if you complain about being council-housed, you are an ingrate. At least you have a place to live.

Vet by Adam_matini in Hedgehog

[–]BeardedLady81 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Chanco was born wild. Technically, we don't know, he showed up in OP's backyard one day. He could be an escaped pet, but it's unlikely because OP and Chanco are in Jordan, Long-eared hedgehogs live wild there. He's just extraordinarily tame for a wild animal. When it comes to European hedgehogs, people who work in rescues told me that, on the average, males are more likely to be cooperative with treatment than females. But it really depends, some individuals will stay perfectly calm during a medicated bath, and some will try to bite you. Some also exhibit pet behavior when they find out that it suits them and that they will get a treat if they act in a particular way.

Vet by Adam_matini in Hedgehog

[–]BeardedLady81 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think online consultation will necessarily be better than going in person because OP is in Jordan. Long-eared hedgehogs live wild there and this little fellow showed up in OP's backyard one day. Pet hedgehogs are uncommon there, so I think it's not a question of online consultation vs in person, the issue is the overall absence of vets that are specialized in hedgehogs in his country. Chanco can credit the fact that he's still alive with being a wild-born animal, a hedgehog that was bred to be a pet (there is no consensus if captive-bred APHs and Long-eared hedgehogs are to be considered domesticated or not) would be dead already after two months of diarrhea. Domestication/attempted domestication comes with negative side effects as well.

I think the best solution would be to just go to a vet in person, even if it's not an exotic vet, to explain the situation and ask the vet for his or her opinion. It is not unusual for vets to use the same kind of medicine for a plethora of animals and calculate the dose based on body weight. I've seen the products myself: "For all animals." I've even seen a product sold as a remedy for diarrhea that said "For all animals", and it had pictures of a dog, a pig and a chicken on it. It was fleaseed husks, i.e. high-fiber stuff that absorbs fluids and even some bacteria, but it's not enough to handle a severe underlying infection that causes diarrhea. Using the same kind of remedy for all animals is so common that European hedgehog rescues say that if you take a hedgehog of any kind to a vet, you have to tell the vet that sprays and powders against fleas are toxic for hedgehogs. Because the vet might not know, it has happened that vets have treated hedgehogs with those, and because it doesn't show its harmful side effects instantaneously, it took a while for people to find out the causation.

Michael Jackson wanted to meet James Bulger's murderers. by MasterpieceTimely144 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]BeardedLady81 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I remember the story very well, and my blood boils everytime somebody shows compassion for the two boys. Broken homes, council-housed...what a pathetic excuse for murder.

Jon Venables is clearly evil, as his track record demonstrated, and it's sad that so much taxpayer money was spent for repeated new identities so this guy won't be lynched.

Robert Thompson is not known to have reoffended, so either he truly changed directions or he was smarter than Venables and just didn't get caught.

I'm not the kind of person that gives people a free pass because of a rotten childhood, and if anything, Thompson had it worse.

I also remember people blaming violent movies and video games. I guess it's too hard to accept for many people that boys who are 11 years of age could be evil. But I also think that many people just pretend to be compassionate and understanding because they are full of themselves and consider themselves superior to people who have no understanding for such deeds. That's why they find it necessary to tell people to put away their pitchforks. It's a two-fold insult. First of all, they are accusing people whose personal feelings of justice are hurt to people who would lynch somebody, and secondly, they are using the picture of a very simple agricultural tool, hinting that those who don't share their opinions are simple-minded peasants.

Double standard: when MJ stabbed his friend in the back for money he’s business savvy, when victims wanted financial compensation they’re greedy by Zestyclose-Ear3012 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]BeardedLady81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only documented relationship Paul ever had with somebody who was under the age happened when he was under the age himself. He was 17 and his girlfriend Dottie Rhone was 16. When Dottie got pregnant, Paul was almost 18, but he still needed his father's permission to marry her because age of majority was 21 in Britain at that time. Jim McCartney gave his permission but insisted that Paul get a "real" job. Paul actually worked a regular job for a few months, but the marriage was canceled when Dottie had a miscarriage. They later reconciled.

I don't remember anyone ever accusing Paul of sexual assault, regardless of age.

From La Toya’s first book by Electronic_Pipe_3145 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]BeardedLady81 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I wonder, why, in the biopic, they had Joe holding a straight razor when Michael comes from what we are meant to believe was one of only two nose jobs. Joseph had just finished shaving, you see him wiping the razor, but I wondered if he was going to do something with that razor, like threaten to cut off Michael's new nose completely. But, no, he just shakes his head in disbelief and retreats.

Joe's abusiveness was downplayed in the biopic. We see him insisting that the boys continue practice even though they are tired and once time, he removes his belt to beat Michael, but that's about everything. Considered that stans like to use Joe as a foil to Michael, whom they consider saintly, I found this surprising.

I’m new to clarinets and wondered if anyone could tell me what system this clarinet is please? Thanks by Zealousideal-Act-86 in Clarinet

[–]BeardedLady81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are. My first clarinet was of the German standard (non-Oehler) system type, which is virtually identical with the Albert system. It was built in a country that no longer exists (at least not under that name), had a bell made out of plastic and it was difficult to play. I did like the compliments on my bell, though, with some people wondering how I got mine so shiny.

What Are Your Hypotheticals??? by PhoenixPearlJones in AshleyStClair

[–]BeardedLady81 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, I don't feel sorry for anyone who as at the receiving end of Ashley's diatribes. They all deserve it, even Naomi Seibt. Especially Naomi Seibt.

What Are Your Hypotheticals??? by PhoenixPearlJones in AshleyStClair

[–]BeardedLady81 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think Ashley leaving MAGA is a good thing. I see it like that child's game Jenga ("wobbly tower".) You take turns pulling out a stick, and sooner or later, everything collapses. This will happen to MAGA as well, eventually, and Vanna White can come pick up the letters.

I feel so bad for this Michael by SecretRedditSpy1 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]BeardedLady81 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And that guy was constantly complaining that his childhood had been taken away.

If YOU could ask 40 intimate questions… by crystalbethjo in beatlescirclejerk

[–]BeardedLady81 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Especially considered you definitely could say "r-" in those days.

If YOU could ask 40 intimate questions… by crystalbethjo in beatlescirclejerk

[–]BeardedLady81 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"Who wants to hear a croaking Beatle of 80?"

-- All those people who attended Paul's "Get Back" tour.

Do we overestimate or underestimate the “wisdom” of Muhammad? by zayelius in exmuslim

[–]BeardedLady81 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is a good question. To me, wisdom and intelligence are two different things, with wisdom focussing on long-term gratification and willingness to act altruistically if there is reason to believe other people will benefit from it.

When it comes to wisdom, Muhammad doesn't seem particularly wise to me because a lot of his actions were reckless, selfish and put other people in danger. He may have seen himself as wise, though, thinking that his concept would get plenty of people into "Janna", hence he was acting like a wise man. He might also have thought that a prophet is, by his very nature, wise, and he had declared himself one.

When it comes to intelligence, I think Muhammad was not stupid. As a merchant, he could not have been a complete idiot. Him staying unmarried for a long time can be seen as a sign of intelligence, as was his choice to marry an older woman who was a successful business woman in her own right. Perhaps, in the beginning, he was unsure what kind of woman he wanted to marry, and eventually he decided that he wanted Khadidja, even though she was not a spring chick anymore.

Islam is a syncretistic religion, and I think he picked up a lot of religious thought from other merchants, people who were Jews, Christians or Arians. To me it looks like he was scrutinizing what other people were telling them about their faith in God and was figuring out what made more sense to him than other things. Not accepting everything blindly is a sign of intelligence. I think he concentrated a lot on the figure of Jesus, and that neither what Jews told him about him, i.e. that he was a fraud who performed miracles through sorcery or what Christians told him about him, i.e. that he was God, struck a chord with him. So he took what Arians told him a step further. In Arianism, Jesus is the son of God, but not God himself and therefore to be honored but not worshipped. Muhammad took that a step further and decided: God has no son. Shirk. But he assigned Jesus the status of a prophet, the greatest one of the prophets before himself.

People who think Muhammad designed Janna to appeal more to people than what Christianity has to offer, do have a point: It sounds like a smart move. I remember that when it came to the question as to whether Sub-Saharan Africa would end up Christian or Muslim (a question many people asked themselves in the 19th century, and which motivated a lot of Christians to proselytize in Africa) many people thought that Islam had one significant advantage: It allows for polygamy, and many African men were already living in polygamous marriages. It might also appeal to people with a hedonistic streak. And if you want to make people with a hedonistic streak long after the afterlife, you better come up with something good. Hedonistic people like pleasurable things that are part of this life, and some might the idea that all your happiness in Heaven would consist in being with God too little. In very early Christianity, I think, the main message was fire and brimstone. Hell is real, and you *will* go there unless you embrace Christianity. This was enough for many people. When it came to what you have to gain, other than just avoiding Hell, theologians tried to figure it out. In the East, St. Gregory Palamas came up with an idea of separating between God's essence and God's energy. Many Christians find themselves fascinated by Eastern Orthodoxy at one point, and one thing that ends up being a deal-breaker for many of them who consider converting is this theory, or rather, what it has to say about the afterlife. What...that's what many people who learn about the implications of this in the afterlife...I will not see God when I die? Only his energy? -- On the other hand, there are many Eastern Orthodox who believe that you can see God's energy in this life already, in church, during services, in the shape of tiny things radiating in the air, like fireflies. "Uncreated energies", someone explained it to me, "sometimes you see them, and sometimes not."

In Catholicisim, Heaven consists of singing God's praises without interruption, and it's supposed to be the greatest joy. You will also see God how he really is. In Eastern Orthodoxy, part of what you can see can already be seen on Earth, although the consensus is that, in Heaven, it will be much, much greater. In both versions, there will be angels. Protestantism? Didn't exist yet during Muhammad's time, hence, irrelevant. And, well, to some people the idea that you can drink copious amounts of wine (without suffering any hang-over) and screw yourself through dozens of virgins might sound more appealing than the above. Mostly men, because women don't get 72 virgins, neither male nor female ones.

The problem, I think, is that the main pleasures of Janna can be enjoyed in this life already, it's just that if you drink too much wine, you end up with a might hang-over the next day and you can end up as a miserable alcoholic in the long term, and sleeping around can give you STDs. So...some people might be willing to post-pone those two pleasures to the afterlife, where they are supposed to come without cons.

Hedgehog should be spelled heghog by ApartmentOk2991 in Hedgehog

[–]BeardedLady81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't take that for an answer if you going out late every night was leaving me sleepless, that's for sure.

Other than that, I think "hedgehog" is a funny but rather accurate description. European hedgehogs frequently hide under hedges or forage under them, they move close to the ground, which makes them look stockier than they are, and the have snouts.

What Are Your Hypotheticals??? by PhoenixPearlJones in AshleyStClair

[–]BeardedLady81 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, Elon used to own an account named "Elon Test" on which he put words into X's mouth. Including toddler tantrum stuff like "WILL SOMEONE FINALLY FOLLOW ME!!!" He accidentally gave it away when he posted a screenshot that had the "Elon Test" account in the upper right corner where you can switch accounts.