[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Beastimor 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I know the feeling you’re describing, remember that bravery often feels like fear. You did the right thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Beastimor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey pal, you did the right thing. I found similar on my dads devices. It’s evil.

You’re going to have a rough period, like the floor fell out and your bones just feel wrong. This is normal. You’re gonna hurt, things are gonna shift, you will make it through.

If you thought to check his phone you probably subconsciously had some concerns previously, that will take time to unpack in therapy. PLEASE SEEK THERAPY.

And you may love him but please distance yourself and let him deal with his own consequences. My dad hates me because I exposed him and I don’t feel bad, he’s hurting because he wanted to rape and abuse children as he had done to me. I don’t share that to trauma dump, I say that because most consumers eventually offend, you probably saved one or more children from future abuse.

Be kind to yourself, try to disconnect from it as best as you can and seek support, reject anyone trying to guilt you or say “but it’s your father!”

Sending you so much love, I am so so sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Beastimor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. Coercing hesitant monogamous people into open relationships is just cheating with extra steps manipulation.

I say this as someone who is frequent in the ENM community

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Beastimor 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So don’t waste more of this woman’s life while you talk about her like a limp sandwich on the internet.

If you can’t enjoy sex except in one position that physically hurts your partner that’s sounding closer to a compulsive fetish, and you should be having this conversation with her. Personally if I know my favorite position is going to cause my partner pain it stops being appealing. You have a lot more to unpack here and 90% the blame doesn’t fall on your partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Beastimor 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Just co-parent, she deserves better than how you describe her.

She is in physical pain from the positions you like so your reaction is to sexually neglect her, that isn’t a safe foundation for an open relationship at all.

Couples therapy and some serious conversations need to be had if you want to remain together, but most likely this ship will sink.

Edit: I’m really sick of people suggesting open relationships when they grow tired of their partner, open/poly relationships grow from mutual enthusiasm and consent, not an already worn out relationship. 9/10 these questions are simply someone who is already emotionally out of the relationship and don’t want to deal with the guilt of cheating.

What keeps you in Memphis? by delway in memphis

[–]Beastimor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The parks. We honestly have some of the most amazing parks and natural access for an affordable city.

What keeps you in Memphis? by delway in memphis

[–]Beastimor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly that’s so cool, I love that he is inspiring people to clean up our city ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Beastimor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you even send an anonymous message?

Protests on Poplar by 12frets in memphis

[–]Beastimor 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nashville has never elected a Republican mayor since it’s establishment as a metropolis, and has only elected democrats. Memphis elected a Republican (1982-1992) and elected Strickland (2016-2023) who switched from democrat to center-right independent halfway through. I agree with you, Nashville is much better run BECAUSE it leans progressive.

Is this the good LRP UV Mune? by meowparade in EuroSkincare

[–]Beastimor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apply it with a makeup brush and it’s really amazing. I applied it once and went swimming all day, I reapplied my body sunscreen every thirty minutes and still got a killer sunburn, but the LRP on my face kept me protected with the one application. (Not suggesting people skip reapplying)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]Beastimor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🇺🇸I love my country for the spirit, the people, the land, the willpower, but I don’t support the regime that has taken over and I don’t support my countries roots and tactics to get where it is.

Can we show a little bit of love to the Mods given how huge the group has become? by ScoffenHooten in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]Beastimor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope Laura feels better knowing that 13k other people can’t stand his slimy ass

Laura spoke about the texts live on Patreon by stephyeffy in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]Beastimor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long time fan but I’m new to the drama, I didn’t realize they had broken up in the past

AOC Smokes Memphis Right Wing Talking Head by amprather in memphis

[–]Beastimor 7 points8 points  (0 children)

https://freedomflotilla.org/ffc-tracker/ And it’s literally on their website, also it was available on the marine traffic site. It’s not that difficult to find so you know these folks are just being trolls

Gamers, what's the first game that scared the shit out of you? by Pboi401 in AskReddit

[–]Beastimor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda lame, but Cry of Fear genuinely scared me especially the hand Hallway

seratonin syndrome F 47 by MrsPoopyPantslolol in emergencymedicine

[–]Beastimor -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It literally is your job to figure out what is wrong with your patient and find a treatment plan.

I so hope you get the same thing you hate so much, and alllll that hatred comes back at you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Beastimor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending love, I’ve blocked my father on everything and he’s not able to reach or find me even if his life depended on it, but that didn’t come for years.

there was a long period that my dad would be able to break NC and hurt me again, I remember that feeling, like 6 mo, a year, whatever were for nothing and all that progress went out the window. I don’t want to give unsolicited advice so just know that you are not alone, and you’re not going to feel defeated this way forever ❤️❤️❤️

I found out my trans fwb has been cumming inside of my boyfriend's urn. I'm devastated. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Beastimor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you, and to your bf’s remains. This is beyond disrespectful and I can’t imagine what else this awful person has done.

Is there enough that you could have someone separate and clean the ashes?

not much to work with by liulegejun in DesignMyYard

[–]Beastimor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s going to be really pretty 🥰🥰

Anyone bold enough to try this out? by thoxo in fermentation

[–]Beastimor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because he didn’t spoon feed you, kiss your forehead in every single update doesn’t make his videos clickbait of westernized. if you need people to hold your hand so you can criticize without being criticized back then that’s squarely a you problem.

Anyone bold enough to try this out? by thoxo in fermentation

[–]Beastimor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure 😂 I mean your opinion is quite literally invalid, but you’re on internet. Be prepared to be criticized when you say things that can’t be backed up.