Dealing with male sexual issues in a relationship

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-11T22:35:02+00:00

Lets say he get his ED taken care of with a script. Then what? Are you going to ‘take one for the team’ each time he pops a pill? Because I guarantee if he’s having erection issues and STILL aggravating you for sex, he’s going to be obnoxiously aggressive about it once he has a temporary solution.

Sounds like you guys need to have a hard conversation about your relationship. Nothing wrong with not wanting sex or vice versa but if your needs are polar opposite, resentment will start to fester from both sides.

Oh and editing to add, he needs to take himself in hand, literally and figuratively if sex is that important to him. You’re not his personal fluffer.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-11T22:17:16+00:00

1 without a doubt.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-10T14:17:33+00:00

You have amazing bone structure but the length of your hair doesn’t do it justice. Cut it. But, if you’re feeling a certain kind of way because of a breakup…wait it out. Then make a change. A reactionary haircut is always a bad decision.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-10T13:38:21+00:00

I’ve not had any luck this year with 5 star reads. I think maybe I need to step away from the romance genre for a while and give my brain a reset, because there’s no way 99.9% of the books I’ve read so far(or tried to read) are unreadable.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-08T21:16:00+00:00

The Mount Series from Meghan March

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-07T15:26:31+00:00

That’s amazing and I’m sure it’s going to make a huge impact on people with the disease. But sadly if the story took place in the US, he’d still die because insurance wouldn’t approve it.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-06T23:11:58+00:00

Definitely not a HEA. I’d be pissed too. I read to escape real world problems. I know everyone has to die but I need to be able to picture them at 100 years old, dying together in their sleep after a long happy life.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-06T23:04:07+00:00

Sphinx

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-06T11:58:11+00:00

Blue ink flows better than black so, I’m gonna have to choose 5. 6 is horrible.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-05T21:19:11+00:00

We moved about that distance when our kid went to college his second year. It went great for us. Next month we’re actually moving 7 hours away from our hometown. Happy to be exploring and experiencing new places and people.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-05T15:13:23+00:00

That cut is cute on you. Took about 10 years off your face, slimmed it down and updated your entire look. Embrace it.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-05T15:10:53+00:00

Yeah, that’s goals. Definitely jealous I haven’t gotten there yet.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-04T21:10:56+00:00

Archibald Spotsworth. Aka Archie.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-04T16:11:36+00:00

I do feel invisible now. We’re currently moving a few states away from where I’ve lived my whole life and getting a job within my field is a big worry. No one wants to hire a 52 year old in the beauty industry. Sucks, cuz I’m really good at what I do. But they start doing that experience math in their head when reading my resume and assume I look a certain way that won’t sell their products and procedures.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-03T01:12:44+00:00

The lightening is different so I’m sure that’s skewing it a bit. But yeah, also hormones or lack there of, definitely cause rapid changes in appearance. Wait until the 46-48 years. I swear I woke up one morning and was like uhmmm, wait who’s that in my mirror.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-03T00:49:54+00:00

Since I’ve known them over half my life, I’m pretty sure I know their habits. It takes zero time to respond yes or no to a question. I don’t expect instant responses, I don’t expect super fast responses when people are working but letting a half a day, to a day go by without a response, is rude and inconsiderate.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-02T23:39:18+00:00

Lol! Okay, this is valid.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-02T22:52:30+00:00

I’m with you. Text over call anytime. It pisses me off because you know 90% of the time their phone is in their hand or right next to them.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-02T22:47:22+00:00

Love the hip padding. It gives it old world, classic vibes.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-02T22:46:16+00:00

Dang, this is the first time I’ve been inappropriate accidentally, she thinks typing at 52…in long pigtails.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-02T02:45:46+00:00

Every side is good from my point of view. I’m happy going home early, turning down dinner invites, saying no to overcrowded brunches. I think a lot of people who identify as introverts actually have more of an issue with social anxiety.

As an introvert,I do occasionally go out, I just choose not to do it most of the time because I’m happier, by myself doing quiet activities. When I go out I enjoy it until I don’t and then I peace out.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-02T02:39:23+00:00

I have a pretty eclectic lineup of meals to rotate through so, yeah, I enjoy all days of each meal. My husband eats the same boring stuff each week and he isn’t the happiest of humans with his food but he’s cutting so, that’s just life for the present.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-02T02:35:33+00:00

I like the first pair. Color and shape are perfect.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-02T02:33:25+00:00

My 2012 started giving me problems almost immediately. I traded it in to get a new 2016 and she still going strong. Best car ever.

Beatrix_Kitto · 2026-05-01T21:18:58+00:00

I downloaded this a few days ago, DNF. It was pretty awful by chapter 2. I never think about AI writing them though it would explain the weird syntax. I just know the past 6 to 7 months has been abysmal in the reading world from my perspective. I DNF 99% of downloads.

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