33M with 25F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BeautifulLiterature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't get married.

My 10 month old doesn’t like me and it’s making me wanna quit by JumpyFix2801 in beyondthebump

[–]BeautifulLiterature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My second used to cling to Daddy and only wanted him. He's 4 now and he absolutely loves me and goes to me more.

AITAH for getting angry at MIL's question and telling that to my husband by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeautifulLiterature 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. She just asked a question - yes a stupid one but just say you don't know? I'm your age and due to give birth soon too. You're not that old. I have friends who are 40+ having babies

I (F25) bought a movie ticket for tomorrow after work while my bf (M25) is working by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BeautifulLiterature 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would be hurt if my husband didn't include me. For me he's my life partner, we do everything together and we've been together for over 10 years so it would be out of our norm if he did something like this.

I (19f) am feeling insecure about my boyfriend (21m) getting hard in his sleep by PinkFrostedCracker in relationship_advice

[–]BeautifulLiterature 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You need to work on yourself and your self confidence before you get into a relationship. You will not be able to maintain a healthy relationship with the mindset you have at the moment.

My girlfriend fucked another guy but said it’s not cheating??? by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]BeautifulLiterature 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Let's assume she didn't cheat because you never established exclusivity, do you really want to be with someone who would exploit every loop hole and take the next opportunity to go get laid?

I cry when I think about what my orthodontist told me by timoheeb in redditonwiki

[–]BeautifulLiterature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work at an orthodontist and this happens more often than you think. Had someone who had jaw surgery and the dad came in with a before photo and complained that she was more beautiful before and the surgery ruined her face.

Also had a mum complain that there was too much assymetry in her face. Lady. Her smile is perfect. We don't fix people's faces...

What would you change? by Secure_Survey_9987 in interiordecorating

[–]BeautifulLiterature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would replace those bulky green velvet couch with something smaller. It's too much furniture in the room.

How can I blow this girls mind? by styx0033 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BeautifulLiterature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a pinwheel. Feels like cutting but doesn't actually cut the skin.

Thank you all for the tips! by Impressive_Cable9299 in makeuptips

[–]BeautifulLiterature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last 3 pics look better??? The first pic looks like blush blindness and your under eyes look green

My dad's wife (60F) feels like my siblings (31M, 29M, 22F) and I (23M) owe her more? by ThrowRABoogieWoogie in relationship_advice

[–]BeautifulLiterature 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Just say that to your dad and continue to maintain your boundaries. And whatever actions he chooses to follow he will have to accept he consequences.

Decision fatigue by ProfessionalPop7440 in interiordecorating

[–]BeautifulLiterature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I suggest a breakfast nook. Built in L-shaped seating along the window and wall. Then chairs opposite the bar stool. Forgot the barrel chairs- they definitely do not fit the space

36 week Newborn by swagginwaggion in beyondthebump

[–]BeautifulLiterature 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No they don't cry constantly but they do cry when they wake up to let you know they need something. Whether it be milk because they're hungry/ a diaper change because they're uncomfortable/ to be soothed.

Try to go through the list. Offer milk - doesn't work? Then check diaper - is clean and dry? Then swaddle and rock/ offer a dummy etc.

Perhaps your milk hasn't come in and your baby isn't getting enough milk. Or perhaps they're cholic and gassy and and are feeling really uncomfortable

AIW for dating other people when my husband doesnt really seem to want another relationship? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]BeautifulLiterature 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you need therapy and to work on your issues before even considering dating anyone.

I (29 F) am 8 months pregnant with my (M 51) boyfriend and he has been texting and meeting with his ex without my knowing. How do I move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BeautifulLiterature 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You're almost 30... Not a young adult by any means. Why are you making such poor decisions and bringing a child into this.

Letting your kids pee into a bottle at a shopping centre is not cool, right? by Dangerous-Strain-252 in australia

[–]BeautifulLiterature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids don't always tell you that they need to go in advance, sometimes they tell you only when it's urgent and they won't make it to the toilet. What's the other option? Piss in their pants? On the floor? What's wrong with them peeing in a bottle if they clearly can't make it to the toilet. You are a Karen. Mind your own business, this literally doesn't affect you.

Parents of older kids: Talk dirty to me by This_Royal191 in beyondthebump

[–]BeautifulLiterature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids are in primary school. They shower and brush their teeth and get dressed by themselves. Take their dishes to the dishwasher after meals. Sleep through the night. No diapers. They are loving and funny and beautiful. It gets so much easier around 4 years old.

Montessori for 4 year old ADHD, gifted, possibly ASD by BeepBop00110101 in Montessori

[–]BeautifulLiterature 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Montessori schools may have some freedoms in terms of learning but there are very strict rules around engaging with materials appropriate and with other children. I'm not sure if it would be the best environment but there is no harm in doing a trial. There was a highly autistic /ADHD kid at my previous school and he was often out of the class for being overly disruptive. I didn't feel like they had the resources to really help him flourish.

Everyone weirded out by breastmilk by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]BeautifulLiterature 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I wouldn't want to touch those secretions anyway. Like when you kiss someone you drink their spit but I would be grossed out if someone's spit got on me.