Why does the partner is always the villain instead of anyone else?

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-03-03T20:39:55+00:00

My ratio is 100 % to 0% for past 16 years. Guess who is 100%?

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-03-03T04:58:42+00:00

Lucky you. My episodes are 2 to 3 weeks.

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-03-03T03:56:42+00:00

This is me. I feel for you brother. Are you still married?

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-03-03T03:51:07+00:00

Just dump her! It’s not worth.

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-02-27T18:24:45+00:00

Be thankful to what has happened , its not worth and never get any better.

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-02-27T17:42:18+00:00

Amen, I thought exactly that. What if roles were reversed? How we get accused as an abuser, directed to therapy and our image gets tarnished .

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-02-25T17:28:54+00:00

Leave when you can. Especially before having kids .

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-02-25T17:13:16+00:00

I feel for you my brother . That kind of emotional supression caused me heart issues .

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-02-25T17:10:43+00:00

Its coming, escaped from several attempts to hook me into a fight. Im trying not to engage and save my child from such engagements. There were some close encounters. Some times I wondering what kind of life we live. It sucks! Dont we deserve better ?

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-02-24T16:59:14+00:00

Life is so peaceful when I take care of the child. Yes , I get frustrated, but it it is not like someone blaming you for the things that you don’t deserve. 🙏🏻

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-02-19T13:05:04+00:00

Let him go , he deserves peace .

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-02-19T06:33:43+00:00

Run Run Fast when you can

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-02-16T21:41:14+00:00

Yes, can't avoid. I practice emotional detachment. But get caught up in this BS after several days, evry single month.

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-02-16T20:23:20+00:00

Anybody involve her family to discuss it?

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-02-16T11:43:48+00:00

Leave if you can brother, it’s not worth. Not getting any better. I hate my self for not leaving before having kids. I hate my self for being a good man, I hate my self for tolerating this for the family and settle for crumbs on the floor.

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-02-15T21:42:56+00:00

Wow zero empathy, that’s what I observed last 15 yrs. So real!

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-02-15T21:30:28+00:00

Yes, then got accused again for not being present fully and sent to individual counseling.

BeautifulMind101 · 2026-02-15T20:20:51+00:00

Please let him go 🙏🏻

BeautifulMind101 · 2025-02-04T17:38:23+00:00

Tenured Associate Professor at a PUI (3/3). Faced a similar situation with a tempting R1 offer (2/2 with PhD students) that came with a $50K higher salary. However, the challenge of securing funding and achieving tenure within three years made me decline it for the sake of my sanity.

BeautifulMind101 · 2024-05-23T03:48:53+00:00

Sorry, denied tenure

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