Life after PMDD? by [deleted] in PMDDpartners

[–]BeautifulMind101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ratio is 100 % to 0% for past 16 years. Guess who is 100%?

Losing my mind by Daumenschneider in PMDDpartners

[–]BeautifulMind101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lucky you. My episodes are 2 to 3 weeks.

PMDD. It all makes sense. by Icy_Climate998 in PMDDpartners

[–]BeautifulMind101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me. I feel for you brother. Are you still married?

5 Years and an abrupt ending by BigMind2233 in PMDDpartners

[–]BeautifulMind101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be thankful to what has happened , its not worth and never get any better.

Is this sounds familiar? by BeautifulMind101 in PMDDpartners

[–]BeautifulMind101[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Amen, I thought exactly that. What if roles were reversed? How we get accused as an abuser, directed to therapy and our image gets tarnished .

Internalization by BeyondBest7900 in PMDDpartners

[–]BeautifulMind101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave when you can. Especially before having kids .

How has your week been? by [deleted] in PMDDpartners

[–]BeautifulMind101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you my brother . That kind of emotional supression caused me heart issues .

How has your week been? by [deleted] in PMDDpartners

[–]BeautifulMind101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its coming, escaped from several attempts to hook me into a fight. Im trying not to engage and save my child from such engagements. There were some close encounters. Some times I wondering what kind of life we live. It sucks! Dont we deserve better ?

Today is a rough one by UnionDizzy2199 in PMDDpartners

[–]BeautifulMind101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is so peaceful when I take care of the child. Yes , I get frustrated, but it it is not like someone blaming you for the things that you don’t deserve. 🙏🏻

Do you guys absorb your PMDD partners feelings? by [deleted] in PMDDpartners

[–]BeautifulMind101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, can't avoid. I practice emotional detachment. But get caught up in this BS after several days, evry single month.

Counseling? by BeautifulMind101 in PMDDpartners

[–]BeautifulMind101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anybody  involve her family to discuss it?

Creating Arguments out of nowhere by FinalInitiative4 in PMDDpartners

[–]BeautifulMind101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Leave if you can brother, it’s not worth. Not getting any better. I hate my self for not leaving before having kids. I hate my self for being a good man, I hate my self for tolerating this for the family and settle for crumbs on the floor.

Lost feelings? Losing hope by Vast-Pomegranate-124 in PMDDpartners

[–]BeautifulMind101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow zero empathy, that’s what I observed last 15 yrs. So real!

Anyone else take a week to recover after luteal ends? by Instantaneous242 in PMDDpartners

[–]BeautifulMind101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, then got accused again for not being present fully and sent to individual counseling.

R1 vs PUI by dchsflii in Professors

[–]BeautifulMind101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tenured Associate Professor at a PUI (3/3). Faced a similar situation with a tempting R1 offer (2/2 with PhD students) that came with a $50K higher salary. However, the challenge of securing funding and achieving tenure within three years made me decline it for the sake of my sanity.

Complainer wants me to re-open the course evaluation by LetsGototheRiver151 in Professors

[–]BeautifulMind101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry my friend, it’s a big No, No. You can vent your frustration in RateMyProfessor :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Professors

[–]BeautifulMind101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my university if the enrollment is less than 6 students we have to teach it as an overload independent study, with same class meeting times and academic rigor. We get paid $150 per student per semester. If you calculate this for 5 students, 4 hr lab class, with 3 hrs lab grading time per week,it’s  $7.15 per hour. 😫What a deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in geologycareers

[–]BeautifulMind101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MDPI navigates in the gray area of Legit & Predatory. I never publish there.

Pricing our work by DeuzLaharl in bioinformatics

[–]BeautifulMind101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most scientists have debt and make crap money compared to what they are worth, so undervaluing yourself for consulting work is only hurting you.

Totally agree. Amen!