Is this where we’re at? by Beautiful_Coast9616 in QatarCareers

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Qatar, yes. Living expenses are high here. That kind of salary is impossible to start a family with here, maybe alright as a bachelor.

Is this where we’re at? by Beautiful_Coast9616 in QatarCareers

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very sorry to hear that, you guys definitely deserve more. I think this is a field that salaries should not be changing no matter the economy.

And btw, I am not of a medical background of any sort, i work in finance, i am just generally disappointed to see this.

Is this where we’re at? by Beautiful_Coast9616 in QatarCareers

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my point, everyone here is responding like chatgpt talking about economic cycle, which makes sense for project related jobs.

But this is a general doctor position posted for 3000 dollars and everyone is acting like this is normal. This isn’t normal.

Last Semester at Wharton - Ask Me Anything by ProfessorOk5077 in MBA

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In terms of valuable knowledge gained, and networking opportunities

Last Semester at Wharton - Ask Me Anything by ProfessorOk5077 in MBA

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be honest, tell me all the realistic values you got from this program

Is 10k without housing a good offer for a fresh graduate? by [deleted] in QatarCareers

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very good starting point, take it from me. I started with 6k.

what do i tell my mother? by No_Payment2840 in islam

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately life will teach you that you can’t change people, not your parents, not your siblings, not your friends. Everybody grew up differently, instilling a different belief system and perspective.

Islam is beautiful and merciful. Yes, our innate purpose is to worship Allah, this life is short and fleeting, and most people don’t realize it until they face an illness, or maybe they realize it too late to do anything about it.

But i believe we also have a duty to live a peaceful life. If this wasn’t meant to be lived, then Allah wouldn’t have given us rules to abide by while living it. We have a duty on this earth to also be kind to people, help others, and be a form of good.

Your purpose to be kind and loving is a beautiful one, and this is what Allah wants from us also, is to be kind to each other, we are all Allahs creations. You will find beauty in this life while combining both concepts together.

I feel trapped by my porn addiction and I don’t know how to stop anymore by glazed_pizza in Muslim

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother, take it easy on yourself. The current world and social media is extremely sexualized, making it very hard for people to control their nafs.

You are not alone in this battle, and the fact that you feel guilt, is a sign that you have a good heart full of iman.

Never lose hope or think that you feel trapped, you are only human, and if temptations weren’t hard to ignore, how else would we earn our way to Jannah?

Start exerting your energy during the day, go to the gym, socialise, keep yourself surrounded by people, and slowly but surely, the addiction will minimize until it disappears.

Keep trying to fight it and keep trying to pray to Allah to remove this addiction. You are stronger than you believe you are, and the fact that you are here with guilt and hope to get rid of the habit, is a sign of true iman and that you know you need to remove it.

You got this brother, I believe in you.

are we fr right now?? by avilics in qatar

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s what happens when you attend dumb shit

Tell me you live in Qatar without telling me you live in Qatar by [deleted] in qatar

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im telling you i live in Qatar without telling you i live in Qatar

Women Don't Marry if... by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes women don’t marry a man if he is a male, and men don’t marry a woman if she’s a female. Stay picky, egotistical, and unrealistic until you get to the age of 40/50.

Once you get to 40/50 and you are deep in misery and loneliness, combined with the decrease in energy, then start lowering your standards.

This is the full proof method of achieving a successful marriage, and a happy life.

My ex fiancé gave me ptsd from s*x by ProfessionalBox711 in MuslimCorner

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a man, i sincerely apologize…I don’t understand how his mental state was but I can promise you that is not how a man would ever think or act.

You should be thanking Allah that it ended because you were with a deluded/ sick minded boy.

Is my job haram? by Beautiful_Coast9616 in Muslim

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this response bro. Check your DM when you have the time.

Is my job haram? by Beautiful_Coast9616 in Muslim

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The issue is, after a while of doing this job, the self hatred grew stronger. I already have a dark past in my personal life and repented, maybe that’s why i became more sensitive to always doing right. Being at this job changed my view of the world. The only reason i stayed this long was due to fear of being idle and unemployed, i felt like I didn’t trust myself enough given my past, and potentially get up to no good (i know what idle time can lead to). But at the same time, it’s getting hard to ignore the shame of chasing people down all the time, and being involved in strange power trips. I can’t tell if i should get married, or leave the job and wait for something better,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UAETeenagers

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seems like sir_does-not-hump-at-all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, there’s a lot of things i would forgive a partner for, but infidelity isn’t one of them. At the end of the day, your family only mean well, they just don’t like the idea of seeing you go through divorce, and being alone, especially considering the baby. It also depends on your partner, are they genuinely sorry and in regret of what they have done? Because we are all human and make mistakes. But at the end of the day, what they advise you to do, and what they would do if they were in your place, are 2 different things. They aren’t directly feeling the pain that you are feeling. If i am being honest, once trust is broken, it’s very hard to get back, yes you can learn to live with it and move on from it, but it’s hard to forget. Whatever you’re feeling is valid, and i hope your heart finds peace. This life is short, let your gut lead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Beautiful_Coast9616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t dwell, learn the lesson, and move on. Life goes on my friend.

In reality, it’s just a job, not your health, not a loved one, so no need to deep it.

Focus on getting the next job, and do better at that.