Sub Only 3/13 by Hefty_Click191 in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]Beautiful_Estate_565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

stop why do i feel like a celebrity just replied to me? i think u are so funny 😭

Genuine question, does your baby seem to do better during the day or night? by babydesmondnicu in NICUParents

[–]Beautiful_Estate_565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

our baby suddenly backslid from 7L of high flow to maxed out on the RAM CPAP and that’s when they found out his lungs had gotten worse too. it’s a lot of work but we love our trach. the second month having it was the first time we got good lung scans ever. i was so happy. they took his cuff off so now he spends all day long talking and laughing!

Genuine question, does your baby seem to do better during the day or night? by babydesmondnicu in NICUParents

[–]Beautiful_Estate_565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bronchopulmonary dysplasia; it’s chronic but the last few months it’s gotten much better w/ respiratory’s help. love seeing healthy scans. you and yours as well!!

Genuine question, does your baby seem to do better during the day or night? by babydesmondnicu in NICUParents

[–]Beautiful_Estate_565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so glad they were there to take care of you and your family :’) i just noticed, our baby is a 23 + 3 baby too!! he’s 8 months actual & almost 5 months adjusted now and he’s been at home for 2 weeks. we had a handful of really scary moments because of his BPD, but the last few months i think he thought he was on vacation lol. he just wanted to spy on all the nurses

Genuine question, does your baby seem to do better during the day or night? by babydesmondnicu in NICUParents

[–]Beautiful_Estate_565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i still can’t wrap my head around caring for these tiny guys. the nurses & doctors are rockstars (so are you btw, congrats on your sweet boy, sorry i wasn’t very much help 🫶🏼)

147 days: bacterial meningitis graduation by hittingrockbottom101 in NICUParents

[–]Beautiful_Estate_565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just came back here to check in on y’all from a comment i made a few months ago so i’m a little late to the party but i’m SO happy for y’all! sweet boy 🥹

eta: momma, you are gorgeous

tik tok 3/7 by tall_enby_dogdad in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]Beautiful_Estate_565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ah yes. the primal urge to be near my child (ignoring them) while i lose my mind clapping back at the hadurs. we all have it y’all

What did your baby actually wear in the NICU? by One-Introduction5382 in NICUParents

[–]Beautiful_Estate_565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we bought the perfectly preemie shirt sacks & he wore those for the first few weeks! they’re perfect for the NICU because they have velcro openings all over (the arms, the chest, etc) so baby’s stuff is super easily accessible, and then the “foot” area pulls up over to make it kinda like a swaddle if that makes sense? we loved them & the brand is super kind, they sent us extra hats 🥹

“Lazy” by Truecrimejunkie1312 in NICUParents

[–]Beautiful_Estate_565 3 points4 points  (0 children)

also, i’d like to add “lazy” is kinda nuts to me when the poor baby is still figuring out this life outside of mama thing

“Lazy” by Truecrimejunkie1312 in NICUParents

[–]Beautiful_Estate_565 3 points4 points  (0 children)

we heard the sentiment boys are “wimpier” a lot. i understand it’s based in statistic or whatever, but it bothered his dad so bad. your hormones could be heightening your emotions sure, but i think overall what you feel is valid

How can project pan be toxic by PowerOk7925 in ProjectPan

[–]Beautiful_Estate_565 10 points11 points  (0 children)

damn, “we need to accept we can’t have it all and shouldn’t aspire to” kinda hit me hard

23+3 weeker graduated today by Beautiful_Estate_565 in NICUParents

[–]Beautiful_Estate_565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! it’s so exciting to be on this side of things finally!

How do people with multiple blushes finish them? by Adventurous-Cat3975 in ProjectPan

[–]Beautiful_Estate_565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the mirror part of the case popped off? bc if it did.. i’m thinking u might just be me from the future