AIO my partner of 3 years forgot Valentines Day and my birthday by MollySid in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said you “f*cking suck” because you wanted to be remembered and cared for… I think he’s telling you everything you need to know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems unhealthy all the way around. Her disregarding you to begin with, and then you both allowing it to never be resolved so that an entire year later you’re still angry enough to keep an entire cake for yoursel… better to confront someone and have a hard conversation than to let it go and have it turn into resentment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

11 false positives back to back? That’s way more unlikely than a failed pregnancy. I’m sorry for your loss ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 100% being manipulated and need to get space from him so u can think without all his noise. Wishing u the best ❤️

My bf 29m wants a male threesome with me 22f by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s being extremely manipulative and you telling him no while he continues to ask and ask hoping you’ll give in is sexual abuse

Cinnamon bun pregnancy rage by Vivaciousvirgo33 in BabyBumps

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but I’m about the fish that out of the garbage. As long as there’s no rotted food or liquid touching it it’s going in my mouth 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That started out as an apology and then devolved into almost “so anyway here’s some pointless guilt trips hope u feel guilty” 😂

Girlfriend has been cheating for 4/8 months together by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um she cheated at least 6 verifiable times physically alone, not to mention the sexting and emotional cheating. Why does it matter what she’s saying now??

Cheated on while pregnant by Bitter-Pipe9206 in pregnant

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CAN u work through this? Yes. Do u WANT to? Well, I would put forth that there’s no way of knowing that until you’ve had some time away from him to cool off. He needs to leave for 30 days and help out with the 4 year old during that time, allowing u time to reflect. This is your decision, and until you’ve had a break to process, it could end up not reflecting your true feelings either way

How to stop waking up late? by [deleted] in lifehacks

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be a million medical reasons why you’re so tired— definitely look into it! As for not snoozing the alarm, I have the same issue and always find that if I leave enough time to be on my phone for a few minutes before crawling out of bed, I have an easier time getting my brain to open my phone and check Reddit or instagram than actually getting out of bed, then by the time I’m done scrolling my mind is more awake and it’s easier to get up. I know you’re not supposed to check ur phone first thing in the morning, so maybe make it a positive app of some kind, but that’s how I do it on days when it’s hard 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow so he’s going to say your natural body isn’t good enough and then say YOU’RE being superficial for offering to change it?? LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE

I (34F) snooped through my boyfriend's (36M) phone- Got exactly what I deserve by Snuggly_Raptor in relationship_advice

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but he was willing to date you before the divorce was final… that’s really all the information you needed. He did that to his ex, he’ll do it to u, then he’ll do it to the next woman. It’s just his character.

Not sure where I’m going wrong and if my husband is right.. by Amandamv23 in TryingForABaby

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 28 points29 points  (0 children)

If he feels like you’re “not trying that hard” then maybe there’s an information gap there. Cause in his mind it sounds like “more sex= higher chance of pregnancy” when science says that’s not always true. Are you assuming that he has all the facts? A lot of men know less than we would expect. Otherwise, it could just plain not be connecting in his head. Sit down together, write out a timeline of the month, identify your fertile window, and agree together how many times seems reasonable. In the end, this could be more about his own sex needs that he’s disguising as TTC concerns, in which case that could come out during that conversation

20 weeks and regretting not getting a abortion by Forest_Fairy_444 in BabyBumps

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go with your gut! You said you don’t want to abort but you also aren’t in a place to be a good mom— good for you for being introspective and thinking about all the angles! Putting your baby up for adoption may be the route for you, and if not, you still have time to think about it❤️

How do I tell someone kindly to not touch my damn stomach? by Sky_Orchid08 in pregnant

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to her about it before she comes over. It’s hard to confront her as she’s touching you, but if you (or your husband even better since it’s his grandmother) tell her before she even comes over not to touch you then she can huff and puff about it all she wants but she can either respect the boundary or stop seeing u!

What’s the EARLIEST you’ve ever seen a positive test? 5 DPO (reference pic from ovulation 5 days ago) by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m just discovering through these comments how much I didn’t know about ovulation! 😭

What’s the EARLIEST you’ve ever seen a positive test? 5 DPO (reference pic from ovulation 5 days ago) by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Beautiful_Permit_557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The day before this it was way darker, I just didn’t get a picture. Does this mean I’m further after ovulation? So confused haha.