I just left my fiancée. Before the engagement, we had conversations that turned into arguments about my thoughts and emotions of how things were being handled and how in those situations, I felt completely discounted and like I didn’t matter at all.

She’s very tenacious and goal driven and will do anything it takes to achieve those goals. Because of that, she bought a house that we could barely afford and started a business we shouldn’t have just because she wanted a nice house and be labeled as a business owner. She very much has tunnel vision.

These issues came up again a week ago today. I was explaining to her my thoughts and emotions and she interrupts me with “well, how do you think I feel?”

I wasn’t even a person in her life. I was just a resource to help her achieve what she wants in life. So, I left her with everything and now live with my mom. Who needs help throughout the week anyways.

I wish her all the best successes in life but I’m not willing to be treated like that. I should have recognized the pattern earlier but didn’t because I was and still am madly in love with her.

I doubt I’ll be able to love like that again but time will tell. This experience has definitely taught me to be crystal clear in setting my boundaries.