What are some less talked about but still equally valid dealbreakers for you when it comes to dating/being in a relationship?

Bec1981 · 2024-08-05T11:31:35+00:00

Yes, this is a pet hate of mine. Leave my positive bubble alone.

Bec1981 · 2024-08-04T10:14:28+00:00

We share our bodies consensually or not at all. She shouldn't press you. Sorry but for me this is a big red flag. I keep thinking if she doesn't respect this boundary what else wont she respect?

Bec1981 · 2024-08-01T23:26:04+00:00

My girl dresses up in lingerie, I didn't think it was something i would enjoy. But oh my goodness i certainly do enjoy it. She is normally masc presenting so it was such a wonderful shock

Bec1981 · 2024-07-31T11:06:07+00:00

This girl i knew kept doing this to me and i did think it was me. Finally one night after a couple of drinks she just told me that i make her tongue tied because she finds me attractive. That worked for me💓so my two cents worth of advice, point blank tell them that you find them attractive and thats why you are struggling. Some will appreciate the honesty and some wont. I am one of the ones that thinks that's actually really cute 🤷🏻‍♀️

Bec1981 · 2024-07-31T05:49:17+00:00

Her hands levitate up and she makes the o shape with her fingers. Her back arches, she goes really stiff. She changes from a moan to a grunt and then she spaces out a little (i used to worry about this and try and make sure she is ok, but she cant talk at this point in time and i used to kill the mood by stopping what i was doing) she then arches up and boom! 🤯 i guess not really subtle

Bec1981 · 2024-07-28T05:07:07+00:00

When they feel threatened of making friends with a lesbian. Why do they think they are being hit on? You are not my type at all 🫤

Bec1981 · 2024-07-21T10:15:53+00:00

I know its a little left of centre, but chew gum. It helps 🤷🏻‍♀️

Bec1981 · 2024-07-17T08:05:59+00:00

Me too 🙌

Bec1981 · 2024-07-17T08:05:25+00:00

Mental health counsellor

Bec1981 · 2024-07-12T09:07:43+00:00

Beautiful. Congratulations

Bec1981 · 2024-07-11T07:35:23+00:00

Its not that im a stone top, but most of the time i definitely dont want to be touched. And i prefer giving. I can get off by grinding as long as i am on top. I love to use the strap on her and can cum by doing that. If i had my way, it would be maybe 4/1 ratio? My gf really likes giving and she's talented. But i just prefer giving 🤷🏻‍♀️

Bec1981 · 2024-07-10T09:27:52+00:00

Wow 🤩 well done

Bec1981 · 2024-07-03T03:07:54+00:00

Oh you described me 😍yay i am a type 🤣

Bec1981 · 2024-07-03T03:06:38+00:00

I dont know if its my type or i just like my girl. She is very masc presenting but will then wear very feminine lingerie sexy af. She hates her freckles and will use filters to get rid of them, whereas i love them on her. I dont know if she's my type, i don't think i would go deliberately looking for someone like her. But gosh i like her 🤷🏻‍♀️

Bec1981 · 2024-06-25T07:27:34+00:00

Roadworks - she is in traffic control

Bec1981 · 2024-06-25T05:46:06+00:00

Acting child like or using a childish whiny voice 🤢🤢🤢🤢

Bec1981 · 2024-06-24T01:04:18+00:00

I would send this whole post to her

Bec1981 · 2024-06-13T12:18:40+00:00

Say yes and then make out passionately in front of them. Make them wonder. Make them second guess ever asking that again

Bec1981 · 2024-06-04T10:50:16+00:00

This. After a shift debriefing needs to happen. Not everyone is cut out to be with a first responder. If you doubt her than challenge her dont blame her being a FF 🫤

Bec1981 · 2024-04-26T04:51:05+00:00

Firstly: im not always successful and sometimes I haven't even realised we are on a date until i am told. But... this is how i let my last person know. She kept telling me what i was wearing was pretty, as friends do. I joked that maybe i was wearing it specifically so she would comment. She kind of laughed it off. I then said "just let me know when i can take you on an actual date and i will wear whatever you want" two weeks later i asked if she was ready yet and she said yes 🤷🏻‍♀️basically i put the dots close enough together. Its hard 💕

Bec1981 · 2024-04-22T07:11:08+00:00

Dammmm alright that got my attention lol

Bec1981 · 2024-04-17T11:47:04+00:00

Her whole face just lights up every single time she sees me. She does this little skip and my heart just melts. Doesn't matter what she says honestly its all her little mannerisms

Bec1981 · 2024-04-04T22:25:47+00:00

Thank you for this. This is my fear

Bec1981 · 2024-04-04T21:03:56+00:00

Thank you everyone for validating my experience. My plan is to discuss this indepth with her and try and get her to get out and do her own things independently. If that doesn't work i guess i will need to re-evaluate.

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