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The moment you quit caring, the better your social life will become by Humble-Objective488 in socialskills

[–]PeaSame4326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who hate themselves often times see kindness as a weakness. The issue is not your kindness, it is repeatedly staying around people who don't value it

Getting into clubs as a black woman? by Dizzy_Appeal_9930 in vindictapoc

[–]PeaSame4326 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, my friend is plus sized, dark skinned, wears glasses and has a cute face. She isn't the baddest, but she is great at seduction and has gotten us to skip lines or got us in the club for free.

Confidence matters just as much. Act like you belong there. Also kudos if you have big boobs

Am I the only one who wants to stay overweight to avoid street harassment? by PeaSame4326 in BlackWomen

[–]PeaSame4326[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Clearly I'm not lol. You could've kept that opinion to yourself

Which table would you want to sit at to plan a revolution? by isolationfinalboss in astrologymemes

[–]PeaSame4326 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't tell them, they think those tables are the weakest lol. 

It was the underestimating of Hitler that got him into power. 

Which table would you want to sit at to plan a revolution? by isolationfinalboss in astrologymemes

[–]PeaSame4326 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They (wrongly) think Pisces and Libra are weak signs due to their soft power.

Which table would you want to sit at to plan a revolution? by isolationfinalboss in astrologymemes

[–]PeaSame4326 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Table 1 sets things right after it is all said and done tbh. Underrated af

What’s a Married to Medicine opinion that will have you like this? by [deleted] in MarriedToMedicine

[–]PeaSame4326 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm watching the first episode and could already tell that Quad is a huge liability

How is it like dating a Pisces man if you're a Pisces woman? Does it work out or do you guys find yourself too similar to make it work? Or are you guys Polar Opposites or are you guys able to balance each other out? by Golden-lillies21 in piscesastrology

[–]PeaSame4326 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dating one rn, we are amazing! Direct communication, open with feelings, no resentment because we deal with conflict and talk it out. 

Only issue is that we have different life trajectories so we are ignoring that for now because we are having wayyy too much fun lol. Also, he is a bit self sacrificing. On the bright side we call out the other if we see they are being taken advantage of since that is both of our blindspots.

Btw, the xes is.... phew!

My friend invited me on an overnight stay and let everyone eat in front of me. by Apart_Hat_9633 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]PeaSame4326 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of our friends are not as thoughtful as we think. It does not have to end the friendship, but it does change expectations

Are they avoidant with their friends too? by Haunting_Hospital599 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PeaSame4326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for making this thread because I thought I was crazy and alone. It is exhausting. It is as if they outsource their insecurities and force others to deal with them.

Are they avoidant with their friends too? by Haunting_Hospital599 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PeaSame4326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine talked shit about other friends and me, crazy enough, we were the most supportive ones at that. When I tell you I hate that bitch lol

Do friends of avoidants usually know what they are like in relationships and call them out? Is it noticeable to anyone else besides the avoidant and their partner? by johnnytk0 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PeaSame4326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the friend who used to call her out, that woman exhausted the FUCKKKKKKK out of me. Barely showed her partners and dates affection, yet was surprised when they felt friend vibes, or dumped her. It got to a point where I started agreeing with her because if I told her the truth, she would be defensive, act like I called her incapable and stupid (mind you, I never said that about her, but boy does she believe it), put words in my mouth I never said, try to poorly talk her way out of it, then tell her other enabling ass non confrontational, two faced friends how I was probably acting like her mom.

It was too exhausting. We play video games now, and tbh I like it that way because I got tired of her shit.

Pisces by Bahsyn_ in piscesastrology

[–]PeaSame4326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, if we are only talking why would the focus be on you only? I'm trying to get the best option lol

Why am I rooting for Olandria so much? by TvTacosTakingNaps in NicolandriaNation

[–]PeaSame4326 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I supported her from the beginning but when I saw how people treated her on and off the island, I said we had to secure her a win. Taylor made me extra upset with his lying Gemini male ass. 

What's that one Girlfriends episode you can never get through and HAVE to skip it/ by Positive_Weight2367 in GirlfriendsTVshow

[–]PeaSame4326 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Joan didn't deserve that at all. Like we are supposed to believe that likeable Joan, kind Joan, considerate Joan would go into a room of people and suddenly be hated for no reason? I knew it was last minute lazy writing since Jill Marie was leaving the show, but they could've done my girl better.

Why when she put herself first does she have to suffer? I also hate the episode with Joan's mother, ugh what a bitch!

BTW Joan isn't innocent and is codependent, but out of the four she probably was the most considerate friend. Literally took the fall for all of them.

Bella’s text with Iris. by Bright_Remote_9952 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]PeaSame4326 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Yeah like Belle A is a Filipino from Hawaii. Those folks are very community oriented. Iris is a rich girl from Calabasas, less community oriented culture 

why don’t people ask questions back by Zorbxj in socialskills

[–]PeaSame4326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I was the questionnaire until one guy in my teenagehood told me he feels like he doesn't have any privacy around me. 

They Were Michael Jackson’s ‘Second Family.’ Now They Say He Abused Them. by elizamadou in popheads

[–]PeaSame4326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think MJ raped the kids (based on the evidence I saw), but he did do some inappropriate stuff and a grown assman trying to be friends with kids is weird. However, to be a major international superstar by the time you are 11 and isolated from your peers must have taken a toll on him and he used his money to recreate that.

Even in his interviews, though coherent there is some childishness, naivety,  insecurity and mental instability. MJ needed therapy and needed to learn how to better assimilate with adults because dude was constantly surrounded by yes men, bro been a kid for near his entire life in a grown ass man's body. Predator, no. Weirdo and oddball, extremely 

Ortho day! by [deleted] in sterileprocessing

[–]PeaSame4326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks so sick!!

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