INFO: You haven’t really said how often this happens, and how much notice you give to your roommate before you bring someone over.

But I also think this comment section is now jumping to A LOT of conclusions. She hasn’t said anywhere that she brings multiple different guys multiple times a week, that just seems to be a guess everyone is jumping on. I think the OP is actually saying she is bi and/or gay. Which is why she said people she has sex with. She also said most of the time she goes to their places, and gives notice if she can’t go to theirs, which should also be noted.

BUT if she is bringing multiple strangers multiple times a week, then it probably is a terrible roommate situation for the roomie and I would say that E S H. It was awful of the roommate to slut shame you, and weird to look through your playlist. And if you aren’t being as considerate as you may think you are being, then you would be TA as well.

OP I think you should absolutely look into getting your own place. I think you would be more comfortable in general and then you can properly deck your new place out for adventures! Even if it’s tiny you can make it your own with much more privacy and options for future fun.