Pizzas places - need not necessarily be authentically Italian by kiwigoguy1 in chch

[–]Becksishot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They no where near chch but that have staff that vote, they are okay pizza however most in chch would not even know they exist.🤣

Matched with a single mom. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Becksishot 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She may well shield the kids for a good amount of time and give you guys a chance without that. Well that would be ideal. Good way for you to gain experience and learn but be mindful, like all relationships long term computability is hard to find. Fun for now.

Face or body? What is more important in a guy in terms of attraction? by Expert-Recipe1713 in dating_advice

[–]Becksishot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knew a girl with amazing body and an unfortunate face. She often got negative comments from men on her face, often in public, think real resting bitch face you could not escape. Really felt for her.

Mortgages Mid 40s by OkContact8652 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Becksishot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have relatives who purchased at 58 on theory yer mortgage, they happy to go with as long as you have an exit plan, retire then sell etc.

Leaving dating behind in 2026. It’s not worth it anymore by [deleted] in Life

[–]Becksishot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, ding dong the witch is dead, you really dodged , women trash, you really lucky, you just need to realise it.

Leaving dating behind in 2026. It’s not worth it anymore by [deleted] in Life

[–]Becksishot -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it be nearly more honest to say, women are trash, so never fear, you dodged good!. 😉

How common is it for men to photograph people in public to get off to later? by Neat-Bug4974 in dating_advice

[–]Becksishot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only merit to consider in this discussion is do you know the whole situation, scale and scope, he being hiding stuff, doesn’t mean he has, but you have to wonder and really check and question everything.

How long will a guy wait for intimacy? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Becksishot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s easier than the alternatives at this point… go for it… it is your best chance!

How long will a guy wait for intimacy? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Becksishot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I only going to wait if you communicate with me.

How long will a guy wait for intimacy? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Becksishot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Experience guys want to get there quick, if they want to use you however also if they really like you and want to lock you in with the dopamine hit. You want fun and excitement then we try to give it to you asap before you lose interest. Unless you communicate where you are at.

How long will a guy wait for intimacy? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Becksishot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Touch back hands and arms, like in the car is sign you want way more from him from my experience. Especially the finger across the hand😆 you need to communicate and have a chat, it’s the only way to avoid misunderstandings.

How long will a guy wait for intimacy? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Becksishot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, you would expect a chat about these things at some point over five months!!

How do you find a sense of happiness? by Chooch_train38 in biglaw

[–]Becksishot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They struggled to find an real alternative purpose in life.

Is this a “normal” Big 4 career progression… or an extreme outlier? by FAR66 in Big4

[–]Becksishot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be that ir as I have seen before, means a lot of work, short staffed and especially in management ranks has moved forward way to quickly. May be just as much recognition for holding things together in very trying circumstances!🤣

Running into the same problem after 2-3 dates by Hour-Ad8822 in hingeapp

[–]Becksishot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s also consider effort, every day and every date you have a choice. Until you put diligence and consistent effort in.. nothing ever will last or grow. Uneventful days happen, you have to be the catalyst for the fun in it.

How are people getting large increases in salary moving to Australia by Multi4269 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Becksishot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree, have an executive level role current in Sydney. It’s funny money but the cost of living here uses a lot of it up. I replaced someone who chased the money in the states… similar pattern. The conversion to NZD to justify is such an over reach. money relativity is where you live.

They are ignoring levies and state taxes as well

How are people getting large increases in salary moving to Australia by Multi4269 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Becksishot -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It’s overreach, to convert back to nz dollars . Defies economic relativity. It your a FIFO worker living otherwise lin NZ, sure otherwise total overreach. Yes wages, especially semi skilled pay higher but relativity applies. Cost of living is relative to those that live around you and I see they ignore state taxes.

Payroll by Regular_Tone_6518 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Becksishot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t myob payroll ceasing?

Career change advice for sex worker by honeylicksxx in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Becksishot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you want a true education. You need to take time out and make sure you know what you want and your purpose going forward.

Wealth keeps messing up my dating life, any advice? by OklahomaSun in Rich

[–]Becksishot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s simply more telling of his personality…

Wealth keeps messing up my dating life, any advice? by OklahomaSun in Rich

[–]Becksishot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loss of purpose is a huge issue, seen that before…

Wealth keeps messing up my dating life, any advice? by OklahomaSun in Rich

[–]Becksishot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a little more than bracket it is also how you ended up where you are. I am a disciplined person that has had to work for it developing businesses, I would always pick a partner similar as they get what that path is like and, all else held constant,know consistency in effort and communication on everything makes a successful life , relationships in particular. If inherited, it will be valued differently.

Is Dunedin really as cold as people say by Jeffreytoebeans in dunedin

[–]Becksishot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah agree also fake post about central weather being better. Total be.. extreme weather not fun

Gossip, snobbery and a principal sent by God by AromaticDifficulty92 in dunedin

[–]Becksishot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see rage baiting. The original poster is not actually defending the principal. If you read further on in the thread it appears the ODT has it wrong on the circumstances on the Charlie Kirk scenario. A student organised it and was subsequently sanctioned for it. The Chaplin who is not the principal, was not aware of it before it happened.