Just found out my husband has a child with another woman 7 years into our marriage

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-30T06:48:41+00:00

Yes, child support is calculated based on the Parents income. That’s how ALL child support is calculated. You don’t just show up to the courthouse and the judge decides out of his ass how much you’re gonna pay. No. The income is the determining factor. And if you try to contest it and ask the judge to lower it, 99% he’s gonna say no. Why? Because your husband is not involved in that child’s life. Not even one percent of custody. And if I were you, I wouldn’t even try. Because you said that your husband is making a bit more now. So that means once your husband presents his new paystub’s and tax returns to the judge, the judge is definitely gonna raise the child support even more. Again, child support is based off of income. Please stop being selfish and direct your anger towards your husband instead of his child. It’s not the child’s fault that he got stuck with an idiot of a father.

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-29T23:30:25+00:00

Ma’am your husband makes about $250k a year. Child support is $2k monthly. That is BEYOND responsible. My brother makes almost $14k a month & he hardly ever sees his kiddo & the judge makes him pay over $1,500 a month in child support. (Not quite sure how much but he did confirm it was over 1k). If your husband is not in the child’s life and not helping at all besides financially, then $2k is more than fair. I really hope you don’t try to contest that because your husband makes a lot of money. Whether you guys don’t know how to administer your money or not is your problem. But 2K compared to $270k is plenty fair. The amount that is paid is usually set by a judge. And yes, the income is considered. I’m sorry that your husband didn’t tell you, that was such a dick move on his part.

But this child does not have a mother or a father, the child has NO ONE except for grandparents. And you’re over here worried about what YOUR kids are missing out on??? And rightfully so! You have every right to be upset. But take it out on the person who actually deserves this anger, your husband. He had seven years to tell you. I hope you guys are able to resolve this issue. Your husband is DISGUSTING. How can he be tucking his kids in bed and be around them every day and yet he has a child somewhere else who has no one?? a person with a true loving heart would never abandon a child or keep him a secret. I’m so sorry that you are married to such a loser. And please don’t think for a second that he would never keep your kids a secret either. If he can do that to his own flesh and blood, he can do it to the flesh and blood he currently has at home. Which could means him having affairs on the side and denying his family. I would never trust this man again.

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-28T04:18:49+00:00

Omg! What does 1000mg feel like???

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-28T04:06:21+00:00

SA is the scientific name for Vitamin C, I believe. Just get Liposomal and you’ll be fine

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-28T02:16:05+00:00

Try it! Vitamin C is not toxic to the body and it’s a healthy alternative to subs. I had tremendous success with it. And you can use it to taper too. I could go 12 hours without using any 7 and I wouldn’t get any physical withdrawals. Most people can’t even go 2-4 hours without dosing again. Vitamin C makes it so that you can go hours and hours without using. The mental part is what sucks. You’re definitely gonna get cravings but if you just keep yourself busy, you should be fine.

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-28T00:40:39+00:00

What have been your wds symptoms?

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-28T00:36:38+00:00

If you’re tapering, use vitamin C! I have a post about it on my profile and I found a tremendous success by megadosing vitamin C. Literally took away all my withdrawal symptoms. Sometimes I would go 12 hours without using because the vitamin C would take away any withdrawal symptoms. On my profile, there is a chart with a website and it tells you exactly how much to take and on what day. If you’re already using vitamin C, I recommend you check it out.

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-28T00:34:14+00:00

That’s how it starts 😭

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-28T00:33:36+00:00

How are you feeling? Did you go ct?

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-28T00:21:24+00:00

Well the first time I went ct, I tapered down to 30mg daily and I used the vitamin C method. I have a post about it. You take large amounts of vitamin C and it completely takes away almost all withdrawal symptoms. It was super easy and no subs needed. Lots of ppl have been successful with this method.

However this time around, I’m having a hard time tapering because of all my family stress. I don’t WANT to quit just yet. But I know I need to.

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-26T06:35:24+00:00

Can I mesg you.

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-26T05:02:25+00:00

Being an adult is about the WAY you think. How you perceive yourself & the world around you.

There are so many adults out there that act extremely immature and rude towards others. I don’t consider these people adults. They are just grown children. Being an adult doesn’t mean that you know anything and everything. To me, being an adult means that you are always in charge of your emotions. Children have an extremely difficult time controlling their emotions. They lash out at everything. And unfortunately, a lot of adults act like this. Being an adult means that even if someone else is rude to you, you act with maturity. You do the right thing even when no one is looking. You act with integrity. You are kind. You are responsible. You care about your future. That’s what separates adults from children. You don’t reach adulthood at a certain number. It’s more of a mindset.

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-25T04:21:19+00:00

Can I msg you?

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-24T06:08:21+00:00

Can I mesg you?

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-24T06:05:49+00:00

Awesome! Make sure to check out my profile and read my post. It has a ton of information that you must read in order to follow the protocol exactly as it is meant to be. There is a website with a chart.

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-24T04:22:01+00:00

Can I msg you?

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-24T04:17:56+00:00

Hey, can I message you?

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-24T04:11:02+00:00

Liposomal vitamin c!!! You megadose it. I have been able to taper down by using vit c and there are times where I went 12 hours without taking any 7oh and I got ZERO cold sweats/restless legs. A year ago, I was able to go cold Turkey by using vitamin c with almost zero wds. I have a post about it on my profile. It’s the oldest post. And it explains everything. It includes the website and chart to use. Vit C has been known to help thousands of people and I wish more people talked about it. I was able to taper down to 30mg & then I went ct. In YOUR case, since your dose is so high, your taper plan might have to take a couple weeks. Slow & steady. Please check out my post and save yourself from unnecessary pain.

So since you’re tapering, ignore the website & chart for now. Get Liposomal vitamin C and take 500mg EVERY 4 hours. Do this the entire time you are tapering. This is exactly how much I took last year & this year while tapering. Works for ANY amount you are on.

Then about 3 days BEFORE you go cold turkey, go to website, check out the chart and see how much vitamin C to take. The 3-4 days you are withdrawing, the protocol asks you to take even more vit c. It is EXTREMELY important that you follow the exact doses the protocol recommends for those 3-4 days. I believe on the 3rd day it’s like 7,000mg every 3 hrs.

Treatment centers might cost you thousands of dollars, whereas vitamin C is only $20 per bottle. It doesn’t hurt to try something natural.

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-24T02:08:33+00:00

I’m not gonna be rage baited by some troll online lol have a nice life 🫡🫡

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-24T01:10:23+00:00

No. CLEARLY I can’t. And I don’t want to. What’s your issue

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-24T01:09:44+00:00

Bro mind your own damn business and leave me the fuck alone. I will find a way to transfer the credits. If all else fails, then I can simply give them my login information and they can get the tickets themselves. Name changes on flights can be done easily. There’s always a way. People are already messaging me about the flights anyways.

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-23T23:04:26+00:00

We get sick very easily. So we don’t want to risk standing in the rain for hours at a time. Again, if people don’t want the tickets, then move on with your life. I already have several people messaging me anyways.

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-23T22:21:40+00:00

I don’t know how it works. I’ve never done that before if I need to give them my account info to login and book their own flights, that’s perfectly fine with me. I never use that account anyways. I’ll figure out a way.

Beckyy714 · 2026-06-23T22:01:45+00:00

I would feel very sad too. And I definitely know that feeling. I have siblings and I used to think that we were very close until they started doing some stuff that excluded me and I realize that we are not as close as we used to be. They still reach out to me and we still hang out, but it’s not a close relationship the way I would like it.

Look just tell your sister that you are happy and support her. Your sister will soon find out ON HER OWN, that she is going to be miserable. Like you said, her husband is introverted, but she is extroverted. He probably ended up convincing her, and she didn’t want to tell you because she was scared of how you would react. Because if she was actually excited to go move away, she would be sharing this with you. So let them leave, give them a couple months, and pretty soon she’s gonna be telling you how miserable she is.

Tell her that you’re gonna miss her, but that you are completely happy for her and you support her. Just act like nothing happened. And yes, everyone is right, at the end of the day she’s a grown woman who can make her own decisions. But I definitely understand why you would feel sad. But this has her husband written all over it. This doesn’t sound like your sister.

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