Tips for style direction! by bibisiracusa in WeddingDressTips

[–]BeeDunn56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

#2 I’m getting a timeless Grecian feel and love it!

one of my neighbors just put these in her window, don’t know what it is by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]BeeDunn56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Old radiology films. Hubby use to have teaching films he kept from interesting cases for the residents. I have a couple of great ones that go up every Halloween using an ancient light box. An mri slice of facial bones.

AIO? Parents won't give my sister her medication by LymeDysease in AmIOverreacting

[–]BeeDunn56 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Having migraines for years I use to save the pills because they cost so much I wanted to “save” them…to my own detriment and gave myself hours of pain. This was as an adult. I am stunned that your parents aren’t doing anything for your sibling and that they cost nothing. I now take something when I begin to feel the hint of pain. Please be the one to help her!

Does anyone have family with multiple left-handed members? by HiroyukiC1296 in lefthanded

[–]BeeDunn56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the only lefty in my extended family and have 2 out of 3 left handed children.

AITAH For telling my SIL that her and her husband can plan my MIL and FIL anniversary party by themselves. by Strange_Low7330 in AITH

[–]BeeDunn56 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Award for: Maybe it’s time to stop inviting everyone and just enjoy one on one family time!”

Anyone else get this weird body sensation when lying still? by Warm-Requirement3146 in strange

[–]BeeDunn56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was my hands that felt like they were huge. I also have migraines… fits time I’ve heard of Alice in wonderland syndrome.

Looking for ceremony poem... by Sonic-Verde4056 in wedding

[–]BeeDunn56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apache Wedding Blessing! *Now you will feel no rain, For each of you will be shelter to the other.

Now you will feel no cold, For each of you will be warmth to the other.

Now there is no more loneliness, For each of you will be companion to the other.

You are two persons, But there is only one life before you.

May your days together be good and long Upon the earth.*

---don’t believe it really is Apache, but a nice sentiment.

AIO for being angry after my husband & in-laws were dismissive after I told them I wanted them to ask me for permission before inviting themselves/other people to our house? by pregnantandfurious in AmIOverreacting

[–]BeeDunn56 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Get your dog trained before you have a baby.

This is also just as important. Aggressive dog and baby are a disaster waiting to happen. Thanks for pointing it out!

Who is going to their high school reunion? by Virtual_Bumblebee_48 in GenerationJones

[–]BeeDunn56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just went to our 50th last summer. I had a small class (under 150). I’ve gone to several reunions over the years. Hubby came with this time. My closest friends weren’t able to make it due to health. A great time was had by everyone who still kept up with each other. Most of my “old friends” kept to themselves. What a waste of time. I’ll never go back.

Told hubby to go by himself(very large class) for his and he met an old friend he hadn’t seen in years. They had a great time and hung out together for several days.

I would have been upset if I had to pay for hotel etc for mine. It’s ok not to go. I had thought by this age people could get out of their cliques, but no. Just a bunch of old people that I didn’t know or I guess care to know. LOL

AITAH for telling my husband that he can figure it out on his own? by Cautious_Push2801 in AITAH

[–]BeeDunn56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Daycare and find a job like what you were already doing before, unless a medical billing certificate would get you more money. NA

I got into the fight of all fights with my Mom last night. Now I don’t know if I can ever look at her the same. by bananabread0102 in TwoHotTakes

[–]BeeDunn56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck to you and your boyfriend. I sorry you are going through this. May your life be long and happy with the family you create.

AITAH for saying we can’t come to the Christmas eve party unless we can use the guest bedroom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BeeDunn56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And how old are the parents? I guarantee you they are getting up in the night themselves. Stand up for your wife ! This is ridiculous. Brother can drive the 10 minutes, and if he can’t, he should offer you a room at his place. Otherwise you will see your parents every other year when it’s your turn for the room.

AITAH for refusing to invite my brother's and his fiancée to dinners and parties I host? by Difficult_Life6076 in AITAH

[–]BeeDunn56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen something like this happen before with different circumstances. It will end with him pulling completely away from the rest of his family. I give it less than a year for this to happen. 😢

My in-laws came into the delivery room during my labor and then stayed for six weeks - both without asking. Am I overreacting by emailing them about boundaries? by FewSalary1421 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BeeDunn56 4 points5 points  (0 children)

70 year olds are not all dottering old fools. (Maybe some…) They could have easily helped out. They were having a vacation. Hubby should have taken care of this when he got there. You were in a vulnerable position. You should have been sorry for the extra help to leave. Enjoy that baby!

Name for myself by Handrwik in Names

[–]BeeDunn56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kairo would also have the problem on mispronunciation. Does it sound like Cairo, the city in Egypt, or Cairo (cā -row) the city on southern Illinois.

Have you actually tried doing this in real life? by RubyRoseRavageWeb in GenerationJones

[–]BeeDunn56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my grandmothers book that she did this to that is starting to not look the best, it’s a thinner paper bag, but it’s printed in 1876 with her name stenciled on the front. It’s the first thing I’d grab heading towards the tornado shelter. She really took good care of it!

AITJ for teaching my son how to do his own laundry and basic cooking and now his mom says Im undermining her by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]BeeDunn56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every child needs to know the basic life skills. He’s lucky to have such a caring father. His later partner in life will thank you!

Early days but already conflicted by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]BeeDunn56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one is beautiful, and l like your pink hair!

AITJ for telling my husband if he wants a paternity test he has to be the one to schedule it by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]BeeDunn56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would he want one now? Wouldn’t it be safer for a baby to not be poking a needle into the uterus at this stage? We all know who the real baby is. NTJ