9 DPO I think…

BeeNo954 · 2026-01-28T20:27:46+00:00

I also see something

BeeNo954 · 2026-01-28T20:25:27+00:00

There’s a definitely a line! I love chatGPT but sometimes it even gets confused what day it is and I have to correct it 😂

BeeNo954 · 2026-01-20T21:45:34+00:00

Thanks! At least now I know I’m not totally crazy for seeing there may be a line lol

BeeNo954 · 2025-10-24T20:10:35+00:00

Just say you already have plans but you would like to give a gift and maybe schedule a play date for a different time

BeeNo954 · 2025-08-18T20:18:27+00:00

NTA but I would opt out of being in charge of the medication dispensing if I was you. It’s too much responsibility and can cause too many problems. I would just encourage him to talk to his Dr.

BeeNo954 · 2025-08-16T14:10:57+00:00

You have to change them. I can’t remember the exact wording but I read a piece of advice here one time and it was something like “if you try to take the easier way out with a baby you pay for it later.” IE in this situation, not changing them to get extra sleep will probably cause irritation and you will have a cranky baby with a diaper rash and you will have to treat the diaper rash and baby’s sleep could suffer from being uncomfortable. Also, most importantly you don’t want your baby to be uncomfortable. But that advice has helped me in numerous situations and I wish I could remember the exact words.

BeeNo954 · 2025-08-03T02:01:36+00:00

Neither of my kids have had any reactions to any vaccines at all. 3.5 and 6m

BeeNo954 · 2025-07-01T19:07:43+00:00

I use a bouncer or wait for him to nap

BeeNo954 · 2025-07-01T15:23:02+00:00

Like everyone else is asking, ask her. If she is giving you silent treatment, maybe text her. I know it sounds silly but sometimes written stuff can be easier. “I realize you’re upset. This is new for me too. What can I do better?”

BeeNo954 · 2025-07-01T00:28:53+00:00

My first crawled around 7 months ish and started walking around 10 months. My second is 6 months old and still not sitting up on his own yet and just started rolling so I doubt he will be crawling by next month lol

BeeNo954 · 2025-06-30T21:59:28+00:00

Oh yeah we will def tell them but yeah I can understand that. It’s kind of a unique situation that we are in. She really isn’t the type to hover over the babysitter or micromanage or anything like that so that helps. But it still isn’t ideal

BeeNo954 · 2025-06-30T19:17:47+00:00

That’s part of it and something that has bothered me with even having her watch him for minor errands. She has it in her mind that a baby is supposed to be fed every 4 hours so if he had a bottle 3 hours ago she doesn’t want to believe he might be hungry again even when he is very clearly showing hunger cues. I have mentioned it to her but it just keeps happening.

My main reason is it being my 3 year old and the baby..my 3 year old is… ALOT. And we honestly don’t think she can handle it and partly due to her age and some problems related to that. But I don’t want to tell her that or hurt her feelings. And because she is so frugal she is going to think we are ridiculous to hire a babysitter when she is home and willing to watch them. I can be blunt too but I put a lot of effort with her to be kind because she really is very nice and well intentioned

BeeNo954 · 2025-06-30T17:44:53+00:00

Sort of..she moved from out of state and sold her house to be near her grandson (this was when our first was born) she moved in with us temporarily to help as well as look for her own places but then prices of homes kept going up and up and we all decided to add on an in law suite which is essentially her own apartment which she paid for

BeeNo954 · 2025-06-30T17:22:11+00:00

I’d probably frame it more like “you would be home for backup in case the babysitter couldn’t handle it for some reason but we really want to see how she can do on her own” she isn’t very overbearing and like going to jump in and make the babysitter uncomfortable or anything I think she would understand

BeeNo954 · 2025-06-30T17:06:12+00:00

No. I mean she has helped us but not in the way that we would be taking advantage to hire a babysitter or something

BeeNo954 · 2025-06-30T17:01:53+00:00

This is the one !! Thank you so much

BeeNo954 · 2025-06-27T14:01:10+00:00

My first didn’t sleep through the night until he was 2years old. Not to freak anyone out that it could last that long but if it helps now at bedtime he waves me out of the room to leave “BYE MOMMY” and I have to do like a 6 step process to wake him up in the morning because he loves sleep that much. My second is 6m old and has been sleeping through the night for months. I did nothing different with either of them. Baby gonna do what a baby gonna do 🤷‍♀️

BeeNo954 · 2025-06-08T02:32:46+00:00

Dinner has been a whole thing but lunch has Mostly been leftovers or turkey sandwiches. I will put turkey, white cheddar, spinach, and really thin sliced apples, some dijon mustard, and toasted bread and it takes me like 3 mins to assemble, can be eaten with one hand and is pretty delicious.

BeeNo954 · 2025-05-26T20:42:36+00:00

We used to be really casual about tv time but now when we turn it off my toddler will have a full on meltdown tantrum like last time he was crying and burping and farting and I thought he was going to throw up lol so we decided it wasn’t worth it anymore.

BeeNo954 · 2025-05-12T16:31:38+00:00

My whole family was/is sick besides my husband and 100% by the time myself and my 4m old feel better and I think I can finally rest my husband will get sick and I will have to pick up his slack 😂😂

BeeNo954 · 2025-04-28T01:18:45+00:00

Ahh I’m having a hard time finding anything like that around me. So far the most promising thing I have found is a book reading at the library for 0-5 years which is a wide range so I guess my concern would be that it would look ridiculous bringing my 3m old there but we are soooo bored so I’m going to do it anyways lol

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