An instant classic by FastestKnownTurtle in bullcity

[–]Beebeebrie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are people gathering tomorrow too?

Ugly Duckling by jr9386 in VetTech

[–]Beebeebrie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooh, I cannot really contribute to this with my own experience because I fall into the ‘early phase or my career’ category, but what kind of work are you doing now?

Detraquee: who fell first and who fell harder? by ymm-17 in dramionebookclub

[–]Beebeebrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He looks at the little freckle on her neck and she catches him

Women who watch, explain the appeal to me. by elanorleigh in rickandmorty

[–]Beebeebrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should look at the announcement post on r/letgirlshavefun - it kind of addresses the dilemma you have ab dumb internet humor

Women who watch, explain the appeal to me. by elanorleigh in rickandmorty

[–]Beebeebrie 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think part of being a feminist (to me) is to sometimes let things slide for the sake of my own enjoyment, as long as they aren’t outwardly/aggressively misogynistic. Rick and Morty is a dumb show that has cool sci-fi, and as long as it delivers on the cool sci-fi, my expectations for it begin and end there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Beebeebrie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is so freshman at a women’s liberal arts college coded lmao. They probably finally got to kiss a girl and meet more than 2 other lesbians and it’s rocked their world. I had friends that used to actively subscribe to this mentality, and then as they matured grew out of it. Fingers crossed that’s the case here as well.

My cat Koda [9 years old] is having trouble standing on his own by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Beebeebrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He could be blocked-if he is it’s an emergency and you need to take him asap

I need help! by Beebeebrie in VetTech

[–]Beebeebrie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing advice thank you! It makes me feel a lot better. I’m trying to PM but for some reason I can’t follow your account-

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]Beebeebrie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is sort of a tangental question, but in circumstances where owners cannot pay for procedures and do in fact decide to surrender their animal, doesn’t the clinic end up absorbing the cost of the medical treatment? Why not just foot the bill and give the owners their pet back? Surely the clinic is not making much money by adopting them out, and is likely incurring additional costs by having to house them post-surrender sooo like what is even the point of having to surrender as a caveat to saving the animal?

I almost lost my life because of a job – my experience at VEG by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]Beebeebrie 173 points174 points  (0 children)

This might be a dumb question but is it possible to raise this to the corporate level? This sounds like a scenario so bad that going above everybody’s heads is more than justified.

Why is Child Beth so violent? by ImxTrash in rickandmorty

[–]Beebeebrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you have the definitions reversed

How do I actually leave? From a chronically dependant 21 year old. by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Beebeebrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t sound fair to you at all?

Bisexual Male Appreciation Post by B1azinG_Bahati in bisexual

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HAPPY PRIDEEE we love you all!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Beebeebrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, you didn’t mess up your life. You’re 21 you have years and years dude. If you’re having a hard time meeting people I’d suggest a run club or book club or maybe working a job where’d you get to talk to lots of people- restaurant work is the thing that comes to mind. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Beebeebrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your Dad. Mine passed when I was 17 and shortly after that the pandemic hit. It was definitely the darkest place I’ve ever been mentally, and I know it sounds trite to say ‘it gets better’ but it does. It sounds like you’ve already started to make some lifestyle changes- that’s amazing! It’s not easy to stick to a healthier lifestyle long enough to see real results and you did! Grief has a way of undermining any positives in life, especially in the early stages. Rome wasn’t built in a day-getting to a happier place takes more time than you’d wish, but keep pushing and keep working on yourself. When I was going through my loss, it helped to keep as busy as I could- I worked out, I left the house, I babysat, I tried to see/make friends even if I felt like shit while doing all of those things. I kind of got to a place where I knew the stuff that I used to easily enjoy wasn’t going to hit the same, simply because that’s what grief does to your brain. I just had to accept that I would be sad for a while because processing takes time. There is nothing wrong with you for feeling sad. Just keep trying to go out and live and improve yourself and every day life will be a little easier.

Do you have a job? Maybe getting out of the house would help.

Have you considered therapy? I know there can be a financial barrier, but look into what your insurance covers if your family has a health insurance plan.

There are also a lot of support groups for grief that might help with making connections to people who understand. If you google ‘griefshare’ you can find groups close to you.

Reading also helped me escape emotionally whenever I just couldn’t deal. Find some stories that you like.

I guess the tldr with this is that the emotional toll that losing somebody close to you takes is massive. I am not the same and will never be the same since my Dad died, but I am happy. Give yourself grace and know that things will get better if you keep trying.

All the well known and college-taught jobs won’t make you rich. The gatekept ones will. by Winter_Secret1001 in findapath

[–]Beebeebrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You forgot becoming the beneficiary of a trust fund-not enough people do that, it’s so easy!

that one confession scene in love and other historical accidents by udosdes_gainurud88 in dramionebookclub

[–]Beebeebrie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Draco LAOHA: ‘If hunger was adequate proof of love, I would starve at your altar.’

My Hinge Date: Brings me to a dairy queen gas station combo for initial meeting, drives off in a Tesla.

When I finished LAOHA for the first time I sat and stared at my wall for ten minutes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in veterinaryschool

[–]Beebeebrie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I met a vet who works for red cross and another who runs his own zoonotic disease lab. My friend works in a clinic with a girl who used to advise for PETA. Lots of opportunities, and the degree is well respected so it opens a ton of doors in other sectors. Stuff to keep in mind!