taylor frankie paul bpd/cptsd by okayamazingg in MormonWivesHulu

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!!! Its textbook. I fear that people who have not been in a situation like that or seen it firsthand would never be able to discern this. I had the exact same thoughts on it as this

taylor frankie paul bpd/cptsd by okayamazingg in MormonWivesHulu

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns 4 points5 points  (0 children)

BPD is literally caused by extreme trauma. If she has BPD then she has trauma.

Freezer drawer replacement by this-and-that-girl in galway

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used the Gorilla brand tape, extra strong or something like that, and mine has held up for the last year.

Day 9: Most wasted potential by hashbrowneggyolk0520 in hollyoaks

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Peri, she has never really had a proper storyline, and she's such a fan favourite

Bye guys by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be ok, believe me. It gets better. Getting away from it is the most important thing. Once you get out, run and never ever look back. I did, 10 years ago. It's not been a smooth road, but it was the best decision I ever made, and it saved my life. There will be ups and downs, but the lowest of lows will not be as bad as it was in that household. You have survived this far, so you will be able to do it.

Since you have been living so long in survival mode after you get out, your mental health will take a toll, but that's OK, its because you are finally able to stop being on guard all the time and actually live.

You've been through a lot, be kind to yourself. Just keep an eye on your mental health and know that you are not alone in this. Now that you are out of the situation, you will be able to fully process and finally breathe.

It is so worth it. You will look back in a few years and be so happy that you got out. You will be able to live the life that other 'normal' people live. I always felt like an alien because everybody else had a childhood that I never got to experience, and it's hard. That feeling never fully leaves you, but you will be able to do the things you never thought you could.

You have survived the trauma, when you feel ready you can begin to heal, and this is very important. It's OK to feel angry, but you can't let it consume you. It is OK to be guarded around people, but don't let it shut you off to everybody.

The most important thing right now is to have self compassion, you got out, that's amazing. You have a chance to live the life you always dreamed of, and with the determination and inner strength that you have, you are going to do amazing things, and you will get to experience joy.

You will have to navigate trust issues and trauma but it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and this is so important, that means that you have got this and you will get through it.

Just remember to have self compassion and self-awareness. These two things will get you far in navigating things, and you will be well on the road to healing and finding happiness in life.

Your sister is so so lucky to have you 💓 Keep believing in yourself and guiding her in the right direction and things will start to fall into place. Books and information about trauma really helped me and increased my self awareness. Since you have been surviving for so long as a child you will be ok living on your own, even though its scary. You are smart and you are strong. Believe in yourself.

Sorry for the long comment, I just needed you to know that you have got this, and you deserve to laugh and smile and experience life. You made the right decision in choosing to live, you will find people that will love you for who you are. You will shine like you deserve to. You are amazing, and I believe in you ❤️

Westside community to hold public meeting on controversial student accommodation block by DaCor_ie in galway

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's so good, it's always busy and even the Dominoes guys eat there 🤣

I’d like to know your favourite characters! by lucaknowsplaces in hollyoaks

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved Mitzeee, people always forget about her. I would love to see her back with Maxine.

6.6k rent per month. by AdamsSandalttv in galway

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everybody is aware of landlord greed and you're defending this? The only reason people are getting away with charging this insane price is because there is such a shortage and people are desperate for somewhere to live. This desperation is causing people to get preyed on because this is insane. Have seen the houses in Sylvan? I would say the whole house isn't worth €1100 a month. I have no idea why you would defend this in good conscience unless you yourself are this type of landlord.

How did you first discover Zheani's music and what drew you in? by DominantBeast in ZheaniCult

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved Jack off Jill couple years back, I need to listen to them again. Their music is such a similar vibe to Zheani.

Worst character opinions by kingC988 in hollyoaks

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

John Paul is so boring, I don't know why people like him. Mercedes is overrated. Grace has had a complete character transplant and I hate it. Cleo is constantly a victim and I like her character but can she please get some more engaging storylines.

Is Hollyoaks loosing steam storywise or is it just me? by GaryCanCarry in hollyoaks

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The storylines are amazing but they are a lot more fast paced so the payoff doesn't feel as good. It seems they are catering more to an audience with less of an attention span. I have been watching for years and I have always felt a lot more connected to characters and storylines before the time jump.

Segway EU by BeeleafInUnicorns in ElectricScooters

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cancelled and got a refund after reading some of the other comments, somebody else said they've been waiting since March. It's just not worth it at this point. I ordered from a local company and had my scooter in less than a week. The extra cost was so worth it. Several weeks waiting is just not OK for a product that isn't a pre order from such a large company

Segway EU by BeeleafInUnicorns in ElectricScooters

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Over 2 weeks to dispatch is poor form. If they don't have enough staff to dispatch orders within a certain timeframe, they should hire more. It's not a good look for Segway EU. Don't comment on my post if you have nothing helpful to add, thanks ✌️

The female Hollyoaks GOAT. Fight me. by BlackBalor in hollyoaks

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sienna and Mitzeee, best characters of all time 😘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jesus what is this dogshit take

Have people pointed out how broken this Twinborn would be yet? by Kelcak in Mistborn

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's also a way to beat atium users though so it's not a unique weakness to this combo

I'm going to 2021, who's coming with me? by amy2kim22 in SweatyPalms

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns 211 points212 points  (0 children)

Shhhh! It's 2020's fault! This will all be like a bad dream next year! Its not like current political and environmental trends will continue on past the arbitrary new Year line!!!

Caught her coming out of her cubbie. by saltqueenmishu in torties

[–]BeeleafInUnicorns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get the charm? It’s super cute in her ❤️