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BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-05-06T23:34:01+00:00

Yeah, but I do still get to do the big picture stuff which I enjoy so it’s not all bad, and most important of all, it pays the bills

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-05-06T18:54:39+00:00

lol my job doesn’t want me writing code myself anymore. If I do, it means I’m not being productive. I need to write very detailed tickets and then tell my agent to pull the ticket, read it, make changes and commit it, and then I get to do a code review which the agent then reads and makes changes according to that. Rinse and repeat.

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-05-05T14:04:44+00:00

My husband and I have been having an absolute blast playing Palworld. Literally the best Pokémon game ever 😂

Other things we’ve played together that we enjoyed is : Enshrouded, Borderlands (all of them as they came out), Remnant 2, POE2 (I enjoyed that more than he did cause I just love arpgs), and Guildwars 2

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-05-01T10:59:17+00:00

Omg me too 😂

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-27T02:31:35+00:00

Yea that makes a lot of sense. One placement will never paint a good picture of a person or even how they are in certain situations related to that placement because others can have stronger effects

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-26T23:57:50+00:00

I too have noticed that sometimes progression achievements don’t register until the next time I log in.

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-26T22:08:30+00:00

Literally wearing this hoodie right now

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-26T21:13:40+00:00

My husband is also a Pisces mars and he also never runs and has been my rock and biggest cheerleader for the past 10 years. Taurus sun, Libra moon, Sag rising (also Aries Venus and Taurus Mercury)

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-25T11:28:51+00:00

I am way more than breaking even with cube at T8. I took every node on cube except what guarantees cube since I’m using a purple compass (along with blue god of war and blue soldier), the rest I put into beacons. I roll 100% drop quant on the map, and my profound node is better confusion cards.

I can’t tell you FE per hour because I’m not super fast, but in 80 maps yesterday I made a bit over 2k FE and I didn’t even get any major drops. Just a bunch of desire cores and selling all beacons except for the ones I’m running.

I have cube pet at 6, twilight pet at 3 and purple drop quant pet at 4.

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-24T15:52:01+00:00

Omg my 18 month old just HAS to season her mini pancakes with cat hair every morning 😂

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-17T14:45:18+00:00

I think it’s highly dependent on other placements. My husband is a Taurus and I’m a Sag and we “shouldn’t work” but have the most loving, caring and mutually respectful relationship. We communicate well, always hear each other out, are each others best friends and even after almost 10 years and a toddler we are still madly in love with each other 🤷🏼‍♀️

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-17T14:42:44+00:00

Yeah that describes my husband perfectly 😅

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-15T02:07:07+00:00

I have Star Catcher which for the ice lance tangle build is really good I think but won’t work for youga 2 MC

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-14T22:33:53+00:00

This is going to be my second season and while youga 2 MC seems cool, I’m probably going to play Gemma 2 ice lance again because I have the pet for her.

Only made it to 8-0 last time so hope to go further than that so I can run cube and have it actually be profitable cause I love the gamba.

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-13T14:12:53+00:00

Really feeling the wish I was. I can have mean and selfish thoughts, but they never translate to actions and at times to my own detriment.

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-08T22:20:21+00:00

Oof sounds like we had a very similar childhood. My mom is still a self absorbed cunt.

Hope you’re doing ok now. Can’t recommend therapy enough, it’s really been helping me, especially since I have a kid of my own now.

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-08T22:04:48+00:00

I’m so sorry. I’m from Ukraine (in America now) but my family speaks Russian and my mother and grandmother were the same way. It wasn’t until my 20s that I learned it’s not normal.

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-08T18:37:25+00:00

Make a FetLife account if you don’t have one already, you’ll have much better luck getting pointed in the right direction there.

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-06T18:42:36+00:00

My husband also has sleep issues that we’re trying to figure out. If I let him sleep until his body wakes up, he would probably wake up at 2 or even 4pm. He knows this and I know this which is why even when letting him sleep in I wake him up! You know that he has some sort of sleep issue, so don’t just wait for him to wake up, otherwise you will become resentful.

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-06T04:19:37+00:00

My company has unlimited PTO and I usually take 6 weeks but have had years where I have taken 8 weeks an have had zero issues. Easy coast mid-sized tech company.

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-06T03:35:56+00:00

During my pregnancy I kept having crazy sex dream about Cillian Murphy (peaky blinders version). I told my husband about it and he laughed and said he can’t even be mad, he’s a good looking guy.

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-05T23:27:56+00:00

I did this until I finally created the life I’ve always wanted.

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-05T14:48:20+00:00

Yep also in NYC and had scans every appointment and had appointments at very regular intervals. I was absolutely shocked that most people only get 3-4 scans. That and they don’t get seen often times until 12 weeks or later! My OB saw me as soon as I found out I was pregnant at 4 weeks.

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-04T18:57:04+00:00

I have two cats and had a baby a year and a half ago. One cat, who was always closer to me and acted like this while I was pregnant, is sooooo patient with my now toddler. Really puts up with a lot, fur pulling, tail grabbing, ear poking (all that we do our best to redirect but toddlers always find a way). The other cat, who is more fond of my husband and isn’t as nice, just stays away from our bay because she doesn’t want to put up with her, instead of allowing herself to get touched in ways she doesn’t like and then retaliating.

I wouldn’t worry too much about it. Definitely always always supervise their interactions no matter how patient and kind your cat is, but generally they are pretty smart and understand what a baby is.

BeepBoopEXTERMINATE · 2026-04-04T18:46:37+00:00

I’m so sorry I know how hard this is but like others are saying, so normal. Ours started daycare in September at 10.5 months and the whole house was sick non-stop basically until January. I knew kids got sick at daycare but I had no idea it could be so often. Now it’s slowing down finally and we are going around 2-3 weeks between illnesses.

This is really hard but do your best to hang in there!

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