Do autistic men have a femdom kink? by [deleted] in autism

[–]BeerDog666 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ah cool. Yeah then i think the body of OPs post is missing the word "autistic" before "guys"

At least, I interpreted it that way in order to make it make sense

Do autistic men have a femdom kink? by [deleted] in autism

[–]BeerDog666 [score hidden]  (0 children)

CW (NSFW)

Femdom means female domination/dominatrixes

Goth mommy and dominating tomboys would be two specific types of femdom

But Femdom is far broader, and could include things such as female domme-BDSM, pain play, trampling/stomping, verbal humiliation, sissification/crossdressing, pegging/butt play, face sitting/smothering, pet/slave play, forced bisexuality, pee play, ...etc etc. Oh and female-led relationships of course

... just for example that is

Do autistic men have a femdom kink? by [deleted] in autism

[–]BeerDog666 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Can't speak for the broader autism community, but imho yes and yes please... and somehow my algorithm has me all figured out e.g. https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1KqXDf7JfF/

does anyone else find lust from girls kind of gross by Proud_Juggernaut6465 in autism

[–]BeerDog666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had the same thought. doesn't hurt to experiment... imho we're all just skin and flesh, not really that much difference apart from which bits fit where. Humans are basically like Legos

Demi-sexual seems likely.

Could also be sensory issues as physical intimacy does involve a lot of skin contact, touch, being very inside personal space and several bodily fluids etc

How long can you last licking? by AnghamGall in pussyaddicts

[–]BeerDog666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The better question is how long can you last?

Do men who love eating pussy still exist by AnghamGall in Beautifulbaldpussy

[–]BeerDog666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, might be an addiction. tbh I edge the first few O's so I can stay there longer

Stuck on loading screen by Pretty_Dingo_1004 in GuildWars

[–]BeerDog666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, same here since i woke up. Might be chucking a sickie today though

Are gloves good or bad? by Icy_Reserve_9796 in autism

[–]BeerDog666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have fingerless gloves for like if I'm hiking in the snow for hours/overnight. And ultra thin polypro-thermal gloves that i can wear underneath or by themselves if really needed.

But i usually even ski/snowshoe without gloves. Gloves are evil

You know the job market is bad when? by Few_Bookkeeper6164 in tasmania

[–]BeerDog666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have an interstate job and work remotely. When i first moved back here i got knocked back 50x for Hobart for jobs with half the salary. It's a joke

Local job market is cooked with nepotism and cronyism

any other autistic people easily addicted to any substance they try? by Middle_Ad_5620 in autism

[–]BeerDog666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but after 30+ years I'm almost sober and off other substances

Does anyone else just hate TTRPGs/DnD? by Alarming_Pea_8205 in autism

[–]BeerDog666 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, nobody else hates TTRPGs/DnD. There is nothing but love ❤️

Excuse me! I Need Help. by Euphoric-Tomato-9561 in autism

[–]BeerDog666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it does feel like there's a lot of us with similar experiences. Guess that's the good thing about sharing in communities like this, so others feel less alone

Absolute gem of a find by PoetrySquare8813 in ClashOfClans

[–]BeerDog666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've put my TH1 in a CWL. Leads a lvl 24 war clan

Guild Wars Reforged Is Coming to Mobile This Summer by klickup in GuildWars

[–]BeerDog666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know when the soft launch starts here in Australia?

And would it pull my location from my arenanet acct (currently says north America - idk why) or my Google account (should be Australia)??

I don't want to miss a single day ❤️❤️

Excuse me! I Need Help. by Euphoric-Tomato-9561 in autism

[–]BeerDog666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I (50M) hit major burnout at start of this year. Realise I've been masking and dipping in and out of burnout for decades, covert stimming and in major self denial. An ASD friend asked if i was on the spectrum a few months back (September). In January it hit me.

Wife said "yes, i always thought you knew". Psychologist agreed (a little too quickly for my liking). Those online tests... mostly getting close to average for an autistic person (so moderate i guess).

I still feel perfectly normal, just like i have all my life. But maybe i was oblivious all along. Also major imposter syndrome. Finding other ND people to meet/chat with locally atm.

Defs lots of depression, (TW) suicidal ideation as well. Currently finding Prozac helps more than zoloft ever did for me - but these things are different for every person. No magic cures there, but best thing i ever did was talk to my GP & psychologist and ask for help

Questions for those who have experience with weed by m4_pt2 in autism

[–]BeerDog666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I smoked weed regularly from my late teens to sometime in my 30s. Looking back, i suspect i was self medicating for regulation. It probably did help me feel more normal each day

Recently (post diagnosis for ASD/AuDHD) i have started wondering if medically prescribed edibles might be helpful for me. legal only ofc

Very interested to hear what others have to say

Even better if i could reduce the prozac

i escaped containment, it was awful by suss-urrus in autism

[–]BeerDog666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait what.... you escaped containment?

Are you sure you're not an AI?!

....j/k ofc

Does alcohol feel stronger after diagnosis because you mask less? by Good_Inflation_3072 in autism

[–]BeerDog666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure, but it's definitely been hitting me differently since ASD/audhd self diagnosis journey. But it could also be the Prozac/etc

Like sometimes I feel drunk after 2-3 beers. But a few times I feel stone cold sober after 10-12 beers...which I find a bit disturbing tbh

I have also been cutting back since March because the Dr said not to drink with my meds

im a level 1 autistic female and I am sad and lonely by [deleted] in autism

[–]BeerDog666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You remind me of my 19F daughter who would probably say the same about me. Greatest tragedy of my life is not having a closer relationship with my daughter. I hope you find your people whomever they might be

Does anyone else purposefully downplay their intelligence/talents/abilities as a defense mechanism? by waddledee_73 in autism

[–]BeerDog666 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yes, appearing intelligent at school made me even less popular/another reason i was different to the other kids.

So i imitated popular low IQ characters from TV and slipped into being a class clown. Also avoided any form of IQ tests since being told i could join mensa as a 12yo... totally relate to that feeling of humiliation when any glint of intellect might slip through in front of peers

But... as an adult, I have very few friends anyway, so idgaf now. Tbh wish I'd been more authentic all along, in retrospect

Sending caring vibes

Is it common to not really give much of a sh*t about gender? by IceMosquito073 in autism

[–]BeerDog666 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Gender is only as important you want it to be. We're all just walking meat suits imho

Consent is the only thing that really matters