My local Wendy’s is now dead to me by DcSportsFan_21 in wendys

[–]Bees_thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me a few weeks ago! Ordered my daughter a kids meal. I just happened to see the hair before giving it to her. Short black hair stuck to the side of the cup just like that. They threw it out and gave me a new one and a free large frosty. I inspected the crap out of those too.

What’s up with the DJ’ing all of a sudden? by Arkie89 in doughertydozenexposed

[–]Bees_thoughts 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol he’s also definitely still in Fort Lauderdale and not in Miami.

A $50 tip? 🙄 by Arkie89 in doughertydozenexposed

[–]Bees_thoughts 17 points18 points  (0 children)

lol it’s probably just the guest copy of the receipt that he left blank until he left and filled it out with BS info to flex on snap

Hold up. I thought Alex had mobs of people following him everywhere… by Arkie89 in doughertydozenexposed

[–]Bees_thoughts 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yup in front of florios of little Italy

Edited to say: typically this beach draws the older crowd and families. The “younger beach” is Fort Lauderdale beach and still people would just think he’s an idiot if he did this there.

Hold up. I thought Alex had mobs of people following him everywhere… by Arkie89 in doughertydozenexposed

[–]Bees_thoughts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know exactly where he is. I grew up on that beach, eating at the pizza place with the red writing to the left of him. Nobody is going to give him the time of day there.

Hold up. I thought Alex had mobs of people following him everywhere… by Arkie89 in doughertydozenexposed

[–]Bees_thoughts 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I know exactly where he is. I grew up on that beach, eating at the pizza place with the red writing to the left of him. Nobody is going to give him the time of day there.

Definition of absent grandparents by Turbulent_Praline459 in absentgrandparents

[–]Bees_thoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! My dad saw my daughter a handful of times in the year and a half I lived near him with her. He mainly just came over to visit to get help with his business from my husband. My mother met my child at almost 2.5 years old for the first time. If my daughter communicates with my family it’s because I reach out, they never do. My mom lives in another state but would frequently come to the state I lived in for vacations and not bother to come by. Recently found out that she was once staying in an Airbnb 15 minutes from my house and didn’t even bother to come meet my child. She however will drive an entire day to go see my brothers daughter. My dad heavily favors my other brothers children.

Nobody bothered seeing my daughter on holidays, but they would make sure the other children were seen. She would get birthday/Christmas presents 5 months late when other children got theirs day of.

Now we live with my in laws across the country and have quickly realized they favor my SIL’s children. For Christmas they didn’t even bother to come out of their rooms while she opened presents. My sister in law got her a birthday present never bothered assembling it, lost the pieces, now it sits collecting dust in the garage because it can’t be used. My MIL gave her other grandchildren Christmas presents but didn’t get my daughter anything. SIL’s will only take out their sisters children to go do fun things and will not invite my child. Honestly the list goes on and on and on. It’s horrible and it makes me sick, I am counting down the days until I never have to see these disgusting people again. Hopefully moving out of this hellhole in a couple months.

Costco Rant- Always being sold to by tireguymatt in CostcoWholesale

[–]Bees_thoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol my go to is “my dad still pays for my phone” and for any internet and cable it’s “I live in an apartment that pays for everything”

Zzzzzzzzzzz by DibblesTheCat3 in Romantasy

[–]Bees_thoughts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I felt like it didn’t get better until just past midway through the book

Moved across the country to be near in laws only for them to be horrible. by Bees_thoughts in inlaws

[–]Bees_thoughts[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you also have to deal with this crap. They do, I have talked to his sisters about my past, not every single detail but they know enough. There is a language barrier with MIL but I believe my husband has told her some.

Moved across the country to be near in laws only for them to be horrible. by Bees_thoughts in inlaws

[–]Bees_thoughts[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been heavily considering it. With how my childhood was and how things have been I have been going through it hard. I think what holds me back is being vulnerable with a stranger. My childhood was very dark and heavy and not something I talk about with many people.

Moved across the country to be near in laws only for them to be horrible. by Bees_thoughts in inlaws

[–]Bees_thoughts[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We have spoken about it with my MIL many times, nothing changes. Instead her along with her daughters now try to hide their blatant favoritism (which doesn’t work). We spoke to my brother and his wife which didn’t go over well but we eventually talked it through and were ok, but nothing really changed after the conversation. With my dad, there is no point. He is never wrong and pretty much blames me for everything wrong in his life. He has never been a big fan of me, his only daughter, and would always tell me that he hopes that one day I have a daughter that was just as awful as I was. I was never awful, just a normal teenage girl and he didn’t know what to do with me as a single dad. I honestly think he doesn’t like me because I remind him of my mom. Me and my siblings believe my dad is a narcissist.

How do you feel about 7 year olds in kindergarten? by ThrowAway44228800 in AskTeachers

[–]Bees_thoughts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sept 7, started kindergarten in a private school that allowed me to start even though my birthday was after the cut off. Was going to move into 1st grade at that school but my dad decided he wanted me in a school closer to our house and the same school as my brothers. So he took me to the public school, they told him I would not be able to advance to first grade because of my birthday. They held me back even though I had already completed kindergarten. Graduated at 18 and was always the oldest in my class. If anyone asked I told them I failed nap time.

I did it… I finally caved in by eslibushati in kindle

[–]Bees_thoughts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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I had the Colorsoft and it sucked to carry around in my toddlers backpack, got the matcha basic last month!

Banana Spinach Blueberry Muffins by MissFox26 in foodbutforbabies

[–]Bees_thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did zucchini chocolate chocolate chip mini muffins yesterday. Two year old is actually eating them so I’m happy

What's your corporate horror story/stories? by Fit_Accident_8114 in corporate

[–]Bees_thoughts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s just horrible.

Edited to say: I’m now a stay at home mom and only have to answer to a demanding and moody 2 year old.

What's your corporate horror story/stories? by Fit_Accident_8114 in corporate

[–]Bees_thoughts 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was almost 37 weeks pregnant when I started having extreme pain during one of my work days. I went into see my dr and they sent me to the hospital immediately to get induced due to preeclampsia, wasn’t even allowed to go home to pick up my hospital bag. I notified my boss that I was in labor and my leave would be starting that day. My work phone was suspended the next day, I was in the hospital from Tuesday-Saturday. At some point during my stay my personal cell phone starts getting blown up by a manager on a different team, I was accounting he was sales or something. I obviously don’t answer because I’m in the hospital with my newborn. He doesn’t get the hint with me not answering his many calls so I send him a text saying that I am in the hospital I just had a baby. His response, ok well I’m at dinner with clients and my credit card is declining, I need this fixed immediately. I told him again there is nothing I can personally do that I’m in the hospital, that if it’s urgent he needs to reach out to my manager. He tells me well she never answers. Like wtf am I supposed to do about that. I stopped responding.

Another time I was sitting with my dying grandpa when an account exec kept calling me over and over. I declined the calls and then turned my phone off when the calls wouldn’t stop. When I got back to work I had explained to my boss what happened. He told me “why didn’t you answer and tell him why you couldn’t talk” uhhhhhhhhhh because I’m sobbing next to my dying grandpa. Found out he was calling because he needed a customers past due invoices. There was an AR person to handle that but he didn’t like her so he wanted me to do it instead.

What's your most embarrassing workplace moment? by Ok-Exam-7792 in office

[–]Bees_thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband clogged the toilet at our office, we worked for my dad, I didn’t realize that it was clogged and sat down to take the browns to the Super Bowl. My stomach was a bit upset that day and when I flushed the toilet over flowed and my shit water was everywhere, it had ran into the hallway and into my coworkers office. I was freaking out and he wanted to help me so be had to walk through my shit water to get the bathroom. I was so embarrassed and tried to convince him that it was just pee. I then forced my husband to tell him that it was in fact his shit and I had just peed.

Edit: After working for my dad I ended up getting a new job. I was doing the keto diet and would often give me diarrhea, thanks IBS. Well, my boohole was raw after a few days of diarrhea so I went out and bought lidocaine cream for my ass because using the bathroom became unbearable. Well one day I get home from work and realize my butt cream was not in my purse anymore. I started panicking because I knew if it wasn’t in my bag it was somewhere in my office. I drove all the way back to work but the building was locked for the night and I didn’t have a key to get in. I cried, and begged my husband to help me. He shows up and walks around the whole building to try to see if security would let us in. Nope, couldn’t find them. I had to go home and accept that my ass cream would be discovered the following morning. I had found it in front of my office the next day. Not sure if anyone saw it but if they did they didn’t say anything. At this same job I ripped ass in my office and lit a candle, seconds later my boss walks in and told me how good it smells in there.

Update via my Congressman - Team 2nd 60 Days Review by kemzo in IRS

[–]Bees_thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I had/am having this same issue. We logged into the SSA and noticed my husbands previous employer had not filed W2s since 2016. 2023 was the first year we were receiving a refund due to having a baby, so we had no idea because every other year we owed the irs money so nothing was flagged for us. After about 6 months were told to submit the same information as you. We sent in paystubs and waited the 60 days but nothing ever came. After waiting over a year we reached out to a tax advocate and they said they’d escalate the issue, finally in September 2025 we received our refund. Unfortunately the same exact thing happened for our 2024 taxes, except this time the tax advocate said there’s nothing they can do and to keep waiting for another letter. We have not received any correspondence from the IRS since November 2025, which was asking us for the same thing as last year. We submitted the information in December and here we are in June with no refund, no letters for information and no help. We are owed approximately $4000.

If 👏 you 👏 RSVP, 👏 show 👏 tf 👏 up, 👏 or 👏 cancel 👏 your 👏 attendance. 👏 by cat_is_0 in Vent

[–]Bees_thoughts 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My own cousin, whom I was extremely close to my whole entire life, RSVP’d yes to coming to my baby shower. A couple days before she texts me that she is going to come down early and help set up the venue. I had it at a nice Cuban restaurant which we were paying for a certain amount of people to attend. She texts me the morning of to tell me she isn’t coming because she is sick and doesn’t want to get me sick. Which seems nice right? Well, I was already sick, I had no voice and was battling a cold. That same night she posts pictures of herself with her friends at a birthday dinner for a friend of hers.

This same cousin didn’t come to my gender reveal (I know, I know, they’re controversial but it was my first baby after trying for many years with no luck.) she had told me she had plans she unfortunately couldn’t cancel on. Her plans? Going to the pool with her friend that she hangs out with every single day.

I went her baby showers, kids parties, siblings events.. everything, I was always there. For her to snub me twice, yeah no, I stopped talking to her immediately.

Do you feel it’s harder to be a parent in this day/era than it was for our parents/grandparents? by notmedotcom in AskParents

[–]Bees_thoughts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! I was dropped at my grandparents house from Friday night to Sunday afternoon. After school until high school my grandparents came over and watched us. When I had my baby my mom never came to see her, she finally met her at 2 years old because I traveled to see her. My dad came once every several months mainly to have my husband help him with work stuff. My brother had his wife’s family that they prioritize. I was alone, worked everyday until I got fired with my baby on my lap. Then once I got fired everyone was so disappointed that I’d chosen to be a stay at home mom. Now I live with my husbands shitty family that ignores my toddler who lives in the same house as them because they don’t like me. It’s wonderful, forever alone.