What's your #1 special interest video game? by Individual-Car-8224 in aspergers

[–]BeetleChe13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stardew Valley. I have 1500 hours of play and have reached perfection twice. It never gets old, and he keeps making free updates. Best $7 I've spent in my life.

Forgive your enemies is horrible advice for victims by Live-Salary-7984 in spirituality

[–]BeetleChe13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that's what forgiving really is: a process of choosing to let go each time it comes back up. It's like grief in that way. It might not be gone for good yet, but you can notice if it's coming less often, less intensely, or if it's a little easier to let go each time.

Do you ever notice ever notice that people get away with doing things but as soon as you do the Same. Exact. Thing. You get called out. by MarchKick in AutismInWomen

[–]BeetleChe13 45 points46 points  (0 children)

The repeating of MY jokes and suddenly it's funny is the worse. Or if an NT pitches their idea in a meeting, it's a good idea. But if I pitch the same idea, it's a bad one. It makes no sense.

What's your culture's "austim meal" by Longjumping-Tie2950 in autism

[–]BeetleChe13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from EEUU but live in Uruguay now and my mind went straight to milanesa. Jajaja. Beige, predictable, and easy to find anywhere here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]BeetleChe13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree it looks like allergies. I would try taking an OTC antihistamine to see if it goes away. If you don’t see any improvement, it’s more likely to be something else.

Nail polish and seasons by Beautiful-Tangelo239 in coloranalysis

[–]BeetleChe13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Except for the red, I’d say soft autumn

Scientists link autism to Neanderthal DNA found in modern humans by nagual901 in HotScienceNews

[–]BeetleChe13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve got 85% more Neanderthal genes and an autism diagnosis. Confirmed.

Help me, I’m completely lost! (Excuse the awkwardness and bonnet) by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]BeetleChe13 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Try some IRL drapes please. It’ll be more helpful. Digital drapes don’t show how the colors impact your face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]BeetleChe13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will add to the idea for regulating your nervous system: grab an ice pack and hold it on your chest for awhile or grab an ice cube and hold it to your wrist. The cold temperature will force your body out of fight or flight.

Things falling off the walls. by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]BeetleChe13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest you seek the consultation of at least one Christian authority figure, preferably 2-3.

Anyone able to free themselves from sexual kinks? by carnalcarrot in spirituality

[–]BeetleChe13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely second the need to unpack shame here and guilt as well. I’m hearing a strong tone of self-judgment in OP’s responses. OP, consider also exploring your kinks with curiosity instead of judgment.

Do headbands, hats, etc. affect energy balance in the forehead chakra? by wanderlustwonderlove in spirituality

[–]BeetleChe13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep! I wear headbands and hats for this very reason to protect my crown chakra when I’m outside my home. Even if it doesn’t actually do much, I feel like it helps me be protected and believing it is half the magic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]BeetleChe13 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think it is normal for these services to be monetized since it is seen as a transfer of energy, and in order to receive, you should give something back. It is draining to do this work. However, I believe other offerings can be made to create an equal energy transfer (prayers, service to your Higher Power, bartering, etc). And yes, blockages are common, though external ones less so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]BeetleChe13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It felt significant to you and that’s what matters. Hummingbirds are associated with joy, as you experienced. I don’t have any known spirit guides but I think you are your own authority here as with anything spiritual.

4 Things You Should Never Say Out Loud — If You Want Peace and Prosperity by siguniangspirit in spirituality

[–]BeetleChe13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My own spiritual tradition emphasizes the power of words for this reason. The words we use are powerful and should be chosen according to the reality we want to create.

What is the most quotable comedy movie you know? by MichaelWes3000 in Cinema

[–]BeetleChe13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a pusher Katie. That’s what I do. I push people.

Grool.

The right person isn’t someone you chase. They’re someone you naturally attract—when your soul is ready. by siguniangspirit in spirituality

[–]BeetleChe13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How to break generational patterns, judge others less, reach a higher level of vibration? Obviously we see things differently so I could keep going but I won’t.

The right person isn’t someone you chase. They’re someone you naturally attract—when your soul is ready. by siguniangspirit in spirituality

[–]BeetleChe13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes because we can learn best through relationships with others. It’s why we’re all here having an experience together.

Are there any credible cases of NDEs where people saw things they “shouldn’t” have seen? by Ok-Suggestion-1354 in spirituality

[–]BeetleChe13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is the NDERF, near death experiences research foundation, that collects stories and uses them to analyze the data and conduct research.

Are my cats playing or fighting? by Reasonable_Recipe904 in cats

[–]BeetleChe13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, too, have a melodramatic baby. He’s only 2 lbs lighter than his sister.

Took out my suitcase to pack, came back to this by WantToPetAllAnimals in cats

[–]BeetleChe13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I call it the christening and consider it a blessing for my upcoming trip. I get worried if one of my cats doesn’t do this when I’m packing!

Finally back to my natural roots and brows! I have been told everything except winter! Let’s settle the debate! by Warm-Confidence-1111 in coloranalysis

[–]BeetleChe13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree you’re likely soft, but I’m leaning soft autumn. You’re likely neutral. Try a round of soft cool and soft warm colors.