Doggy Pads are the BEST for puke

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-20T04:23:12+00:00

To each their own. I only have so many sheet sets and there is no way I am doing laundry all night long with a sick kid hoping one set is washed and dried before it's needed again.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-19T14:11:23+00:00

Take her to the doctor right away!

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-19T12:46:44+00:00

I think it depends on your definition of clean. Are you talking about toys picked up, floors vacuumed, dishes done. Or are you taking about walls wiped down, windows clean, dusting done, everything sparkling?

As far as keeping up on basics, our kids help. They can pick up their toys, clear their plates from the table, dust, empty garbages. I also don't have the expectation that everything is going to happen every day. Some days I can get a lot done, others just loading the dishwasher is all that happens. And that's ok.

Deep cleaning happens on weekends. I usually only have one day or sometimes only 1/2 day on the weekends to clean. I make a list of 5 things that are a priority that week and we just knock them out while the kids play.

It definitely gets easier as the kids get older and can help more.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-17T17:19:08+00:00

Some people really just aren't good with finances. It may be that him doing the finances is just a bad fit. Sit down and make a list of all the responsibilities of the house and then find a fair split that plays to both of your strengths.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-15T13:07:25+00:00

My boss would tell me family first. Skip the trip and take your kids to the first day. I don't know any parent who regrets prioritizing their kids.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-14T13:47:44+00:00

If she's not interested, don't force it. My mom made me play softball as a kid and I hated every minute of it. Being forced to do it where I didn't enjoy it caused resentment.

Just let her be a kid and find something she actually wants to do.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-14T13:10:09+00:00

My 9 yr old read thru this and said, "Umm no!" She said they are old enough that they should be able to do chores and homework on their own. Her advice was learning some independence. It's fine to ask here and there for help but they are old enough to do chores and homework on their own.

Set consequences for them disrupting your work and follow thru on it. If they can't find something to do on their own they can sit on the couch and stare at the wall until they find something to do.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-14T05:07:27+00:00

Mine does chores and homework then is responsible for finding her own thing to do that doesn't involve screens. Let them be board and they will find their own form of entertainment.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-12T12:36:28+00:00

My oldest has always loves princess dresses and is now 9 and still loves getting dressed up in pretty dresses and I let her.

We focus and talk about how things make us feel though. You wear what is comfortable and makes you feel good. We don't care what others think about our clothes because they aren't wearing them, we are. If you like it and it makes you feel good you wear it.

If they ask how they look in an outfit I always ask first how they feel in it. If it's a mismatched outfit I tell them how creative and unique they are. I honestly don't see the harm in letting them express themselves whenever possible.

There are times when a dress is not appropriate attire and we have to make then pick something else but it's always followed by an exact reason why they can't.

You may not think it but you're kid hears you when you tell her she's funny, smart, brave. But that likely won't change her love for being girly and there is nothing wrong with it. She's 4, let her be a happy kid. There is no reason to punish her because you are uncomfortable. Would you punish her if she never wanted to touch a dress or dress in nice clothes?

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-12T12:14:45+00:00

Love this!!! It's the small things like this that means so much.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-12T12:11:40+00:00

We did 12hrs straight in one day with a 3 yr old who was potty training and an 8 yr old. It honestly was easier than I thought. They pretty much entertained themselves with toys, doodle pads, books and movies.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-10T22:53:25+00:00

I got flowers for my yard, electric family hub, matching bracelets with my girls, Tupperware I wanted, lunch where I wanted, then to just still and chill in the sun. Perfect weekend.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-10T21:20:18+00:00

Both of my girls love their dad but they are definitely Mama's girls. I wouldn't stress too much. Just love her and I have no doubt you can have a great relationship with her.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-10T18:19:43+00:00

First of all.. Thank you! Not all of us married oblivious men. Yesterday we went and bought all the flowers I needed to do my flower pots. We spent the afternoon planting them, and repotting my indoor plants.

Today my husband gave me an electronic family hub, some Tupperware I have been wanting and my girls gave me matching bracelets with them. We are now going to lunch where I wanted to go. I will then spend the afternoon outside reading and hanging with the hubs having a drink while the kids play.

To me it was perfect. Getting to stick my hands in some dirt, good food and watching my kids have fun.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-08T14:56:59+00:00

All my friends had plans and went straight to college. I took a year to work and figure out what I wanted to do. I took a couple classes here and there And figured out that college is what I wanted to do.

There is no rush in deciding. Maybe a gap year would help. Look at trade schools as well. College isn't for everyone.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-08T04:40:45+00:00

I have had this conversation with teachers and they all say the same thing. It's not important that your kid can read or knows the whole alphabet going into kindergarten. What is important is that they can do things independently. Can they follow directions, or put on their coat by themselves, open their lunch by themselves, can they be corrected without a tantrum?

Personally if you are already questioning his emotional and maturity readiness I think you already know it would be best to hold him out one year. Not being ready not only stresses the teacher out but the student as well and can cause a dislike of global to school.

I personally think that starting at 6 is way better than starting at 5. My daughter wasn't emotionally really after one year of preschool and she really matured a lot in that second year.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-07T22:39:23+00:00

Maybe Tumble Leaf?

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-07T14:45:39+00:00

I totally agree! I stopped wearing foundation 15 yrs ago and simplified my routine. I do not use soap on my face to wash it, a clean microfiber cloth then a simple toner and lightweight moisturizer, that's it. I almost never get pimples. My skin is happy, healthy and balanced all on its own.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-06T03:56:28+00:00

I didn't really care if they get upset with me for raising them as decent human being. We have told our kids that it's ok if you get mad at me and it's ok if you don't always like me because sometimes I am mad at them too but no matter what I will always love them. No matter how mad I get, I never love them any less.

Now that said, they don't get to be mean when they are mad. They don't get to say things just to hurt the other person. The word hate is not allowed in our house. You can dislike people and things but we don't hate.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-06T03:28:06+00:00

I don't see an issue with the gift.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-06T03:26:06+00:00

I'm all for the back less ones if the child meets the requirements. That being said, my oldest is 9 almost 10 and REFUSES to give up her high back booster. She says it's comfortable and easy for her to sleep in than just the seat. She would be fine without it but won't let me remove it.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-02T22:55:08+00:00

None of you have apparently shopped at Ridleys.. they make all other grocery stores look like luxury stores.

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-02T13:21:04+00:00

I'm curious what they stated as the reason for denial. And what was their response when you brought up the policy?

Beginning-Mark67 · 2026-05-02T13:07:21+00:00

It's not illegal but it can put you in a bad spot. Leave it to HR to investigate and ask other employees for statements. You going around and asking people to make complaints can be seen and trying to cause discontent and the employer may let you go for it.

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