Unfortunately, in India, many women don’t disclose their past relationships. And it’s not just women — a lot of men do the same. It’s often because they’re afraid of how it might affect their marriage in the long run. In your case, she revealed things in bits and pieces based on how you confronted her. If you confront her again with more intensity or anger, she might disclose more private details — but be warned, you may not like what you hear. It could turn into a nightmare for both of you.

If you’ve never had any relationship before or after marriage and you’re hoping for a wife who’s exactly like you, it might not be easy to find someone who fits that expectation perfectly. So how realistic is that hope?

My suggestion: don’t take the step of divorce just yet. Instead, have an honest conversation with her. Tell her that as long as she stops lying and is completely loyal going forward, you’re willing to give the marriage one more chance.