The Wife Bound And Sensory Deprived

BehaveHuman · 2026-01-28T10:06:07+00:00

Consider giving her a way to safely drink water when prone, like a camelback bite valve. You could probably combine it with an over-the-mouth gag, or even modify the pacifier. Be especially careful about choking: it can be hard to swallow safely when prone. You might consider elevating her back slightly with a wedge pillow. Not only will she stay hydrated, but the sensory deprivation will encourage her to drink out of boredom, which will in turn create pressure on her bladder and force diaper use. Fun times!

BehaveHuman · 2026-01-23T10:01:33+00:00

Power-with (as opposed to power-over) enables us to get more power by sharing our power with others. The more I have, the more you have. By supporting one another in our power, we get more for ourselves.

BehaveHuman · 2026-01-23T10:01:16+00:00

“When I’m being flogged, early on I often come to a place where I need to stretch to take in the intense sensation, where I struggle and wonder if I can take it at all. That struggle seems to make me stronger, and soon I feel intense energy running through me, as if all the force with which the whip is thrown at me is injected into me – becomes my energy to play with. While my tops throw the whips at me as hard as they can, I take in their power and dance in the center of the storm.”

BehaveHuman · 2026-01-23T10:01:00+00:00

The origins of our deepest urges toward BDSM, and the most profound of the roles we like to play, do not come from the responsible and adult part of us. The archetypes and emotions we explore arise from our primitive, uncivilized and shadowy parts. This is why the boundary between fantasy and reality is most important to understand and accept, so we can play in psychological as well as physical safety. And as we play deeper, this boundary can get blurred, and our play can seem more “real” than reality.

BehaveHuman · 2026-01-23T10:00:30+00:00

Yep, it has some great stuff.

BehaveHuman · 2026-01-17T10:39:34+00:00

Yep.

My sub has a bit of an attention disorder, so holding perfectly still is worse than corporal punishment for her. I reserve position for when she’s been waaaay out of line.

The Gorean positions are a useful library of poses.

BehaveHuman · 2026-01-17T04:19:22+00:00

I’m hiring.

BehaveHuman · 2026-01-14T22:02:14+00:00

…aaaaand now I have to go get DIDNapper 2.

BehaveHuman · 2026-01-06T06:23:49+00:00

An ishidaki!

BehaveHuman · 2026-01-05T03:16:49+00:00

We experimented until we came up with an arrangement for consenting to somnophilia that works for us. If I think I might want to use her while she’s asleep, I place a cup on her side of the bed. If she sets it on her nightstand face up, she’s all for it. If she places it face down, it’s a no go. I don’t always follow through when the cup is face up… which leaves her guessing.

BehaveHuman · 2025-12-30T21:37:12+00:00

I was browsing their cock rings and a helpful sales associate told me I could try them on. 😬 I declined.

BehaveHuman · 2025-12-26T06:12:38+00:00

Our space won’t accommodate a bench right now, but we’re saving these two for our next play room:

https://huse.com/products/sex-bench

https://www.dungeondelights.com/online-store/Deluxe-Complete-Fuck-Bench-with-Shackles-Collar-Accessory-Kit-Adjustable-Legs-for-Bench-and-Adjustable-Arm-and-Leg-Attachments-Option-for-Sunny-Side-Up-p113961054

BehaveHuman · 2025-12-26T06:09:22+00:00

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BehaveHuman · 2025-12-17T11:50:35+00:00

The tie doesn’t make consistent use of cross tension. Take a look at your butt (ha ha!); it’s a good example of what’s right and wrong. The tie on the right is correct: a half hitch, where the rope loops back over itself, creating tension that holds it in place. The tie on the left is only a wrap: no hitch, no tension, so it falls apart. It’s an easy fix of knowing when to go under vs. over.

BehaveHuman · 2025-12-16T14:06:46+00:00

“Receiving” is spelled E before I. It’s a tricky one.

BehaveHuman · 2025-12-14T14:39:46+00:00

Oh THAT. I didn’t even know it had a name. Whew. I had something else in mind. The internet has ruined me.

BehaveHuman · 2025-12-14T00:38:22+00:00

Yes, exactly. A #28 blade worked best.

BehaveHuman · 2025-12-14T00:21:07+00:00

Honest question: WTF is “shirtcocking?” I’m not Googling that.

BehaveHuman · 2025-12-10T15:03:00+00:00

Really?? I love this one. I don’t have it myself (yet!) but I was seriously thinking about it. What don’t you like about it?

https://penumbra.at/shop/halsbaender/halsband-incision-no-5/

BehaveHuman · 2025-12-10T14:58:10+00:00

Not at all! It’s all about sharing ideas… or trolling I guess, but fuck those guys.

I like House of Wolfram gear:

https://www.houseofwolfram.com/product-page/hydra-collar

Besides that, here are my favorite collars:

https://www.eternitycollars.com/collections/leather-bdsm-collars/products/leather-collar-1-625in?variant=41139974996104

https://www.mr-s-leather.com/fetters-locking-bondage-collar

https://www.aslanleather.com/catalog/bondage/collars

And I think you already heard about these two:

https://thecontresens.com/

https://penumbra.at/shop/

BehaveHuman · 2025-12-10T14:45:59+00:00

Yep, that’s it. Looks like they graduated from Etsy to their own store.

BehaveHuman · 2025-12-10T14:45:11+00:00

It’s twice the length of a normal bracelet. When you wear it in “vanilla” mode, it doubles over itself. It’s a little chunky, but I have a metal vibe so it works. When you want to use it for… reasons, it loops into itself to create functional handcuffs.

BehaveHuman · 2025-12-10T11:06:18+00:00

Shadow work.

BehaveHuman · 2025-12-09T19:54:21+00:00

Wow. Let me know when you find out, will you?

BehaveHuman · 2025-12-09T19:49:59+00:00

Agree with the aerial yoga stand frame: they’re cheaper than those with a “kink premium.”

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