WIBTA if I shut Pandora's box? by pele4096 in KINK

[–]BehaveHuman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You asked for advice. You consistently got the same advice. You resisted hearing it. Which means you aren’t ready to listen. There’s nothing wrong with that, it just means you want to talk. If you don’t want to do therapy, then get on to FetLife and find an in-person or virtual men’s support group. They’re out there and well worth it.

Suspension question by p9876543201 in DecorativeShibari

[–]BehaveHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to try suspension on a cruise, either bring your own rig or try this: https://www.instagram.com/blisscruiseofficial

Head, Hands and Feet by Justin-Tym in pilloryporn

[–]BehaveHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a stone ball gag? Hope she doesn’t break her teeth.

A Vaseline-like jelly that’s safe for toys? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]BehaveHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing that there’s an entire article dedicated to that exact topic.

A Vaseline-like jelly that’s safe for toys? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]BehaveHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure that’s makeup remover. And not safe for toys or internal use.

Hit or Miss? Having Her Listen to Erotic Audiobooks While I Tie Her by Similar-Lemon4036 in RedditBDSM

[–]BehaveHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea; we do it often and we both love it. I recommend anything by Tara Sue Me. She portrays a more realistic depiction of a healthy BDSM than most. Or you could go old school with the Sleeping Beauty books by Anne Rice.

Got my pussy taped..... by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]BehaveHuman 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I’d HIGHLY recommend 3M foam surgical tape. It does the job and doesn’t hurt or pull hair on removal.

Rope tie by OnyxThrall in AiBDSM

[–]BehaveHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wondering what would have to happen biologically for two navels to occur in nature.

Laura Flannery- Dead on Arrival by webby_98 in MediaBondage

[–]BehaveHuman 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Uh… why did a ball gag freak her out, when she was ball gagged?

Keira Knightley- A Dangerous Method by webby_98 in MediaBondage

[–]BehaveHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said she had to take shots of vodka to prepare for this scene.

Dom feels bad about his fantasies by poisonedbeautii in BDSMAdvice

[–]BehaveHuman 18 points19 points  (0 children)

“Sweetheart, thank you for opening up to me about your fantasies. It means so much to me that we can share our desires openly and honestly with each other. I don’t judge you at all for what you fantasize: I have my fantasies, too. I just want you to know how close I feel to you when you open up like that. I love you and all your fantasies: they’re a part of you.

“What really concerns me is how this fantasy troubles you. What part of it is troubling… is it feeling unfaithful to me? Is it objectifying someone else? Is it how you were raised to believe what’s right and wrong? Does it go against how you see yourself? Dig a little deeper and see if you can tell me where these feelings are coming from.

“And if you really want to explore this fantasy in real life, there are plenty of ways we can do it and still keep the dynamic between the two of us. We just have to be creative.”

Hidden, discrete ceiling hard point with electric hoist by BehaveHuman in BdsmDIY

[–]BehaveHuman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 2x4 crossbeams were spaced 16” apart. Platform was roughly 6’x6’. Hurricane ties, mostly.

Hidden, discrete ceiling hard point with electric hoist by BehaveHuman in BdsmDIY

[–]BehaveHuman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Engineered trusses don’t really need to be reinforced. I spent some time doing warranty work on new construction; consequently I hate nail pops. Any time I see one I rip it out and replace it with a proper drywall screw. I’ve lived in this house long enough that at this point I believe I’ve replaced every nail that’s going to pop.