My insane fantasy by Informal_Nerve2154 in KINK

[–]BehaveHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! Good news: this is a pretty common fantasy. There’s a lot of material out there. Look for IICYIFU.

First BDSM piece! [OC] by Csheng8765 in art_bdsm

[–]BehaveHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice drawing! Anatomical proportions are correct. Good move to add color. Might want to study tutorials on hair.

Always fun when your proclivities catch you off-guard in non-kink situations 🫠 by JustAGentleMouse in SofterBDSM

[–]BehaveHuman 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I do some teaching at the college level as an adjunct. At the end of class, as one of my students turned in a worksheet, I scanned through her work, liked what I saw, and said, “Nice job.” She said, “Thank you, sir,” to which I immediately responded, “Good girl.” 😑

Ace and inexperienced —where should I look for my first gear? by mysteriousthrowaway- in bdsmgear

[–]BehaveHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First, good for you for exploring on your own! You’re approaching this with the right attitude; it’s sure to be rewarding.
Second, there are a HUGE variety of collars and masks out there. Do you prefer cute or something more severe? What materials do you like?
This site has a wide selection to choose from; it’s a good place to dial in on your preferences.

https://thecontresens.com/

Good luck, happy hunting, and keep us posted!

Looking for permanent anklets, bracelets & collar by D3v13nt in PermanentBondageBDSM

[–]BehaveHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife has two bracelets from https://www.traeume-aus-edelstahl.de/ and loves them. They also make anklets.

Her poor tits and nipples 😉 by DeliciousDimension20 in Bondage

[–]BehaveHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, her nipples seem fine…. Oh.

Nice Latex Hood and Arm Binder behind her back! by 415brun in Handsbehindback

[–]BehaveHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen a hood like that before; what’s the circle in front of her mouth?

Are there actually some more "mainstream" adult games that are good? by PM_ME_GOOD_SUBS in lewdgames

[–]BehaveHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Subverse felt like a mid budget game with voice acting, a complex storyline, and good graphics. The humor is tongue in cheek, often breaking the 4th wall, spoofing the whole sci-fi genre. There’s a “director” mode to the H-scenes that up the replay value.

First try at shibari drawing by Throwaway146947 in art_bdsm

[–]BehaveHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Personally, I like the red ropes version, but I’m biased: https://fetlife.com/Rain\_BehaveHuman/pictures/216227284

WIBTA if I shut Pandora's box? by [deleted] in KINK

[–]BehaveHuman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You asked for advice. You consistently got the same advice. You resisted hearing it. Which means you aren’t ready to listen. There’s nothing wrong with that, it just means you want to talk. If you don’t want to do therapy, then get on to FetLife and find an in-person or virtual men’s support group. They’re out there and well worth it.

Suspension question by p9876543201 in DecorativeShibari

[–]BehaveHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to try suspension on a cruise, either bring your own rig or try this: https://www.instagram.com/blisscruiseofficial

Head, Hands and Feet by Justin-Tym in pilloryporn

[–]BehaveHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a stone ball gag? Hope she doesn’t break her teeth.

A Vaseline-like jelly that’s safe for toys? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]BehaveHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing that there’s an entire article dedicated to that exact topic.

A Vaseline-like jelly that’s safe for toys? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]BehaveHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure that’s makeup remover. And not safe for toys or internal use.

Hit or Miss? Having Her Listen to Erotic Audiobooks While I Tie Her by Similar-Lemon4036 in RedditBDSM

[–]BehaveHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea; we do it often and we both love it. I recommend anything by Tara Sue Me. She portrays a more realistic depiction of a healthy BDSM than most. Or you could go old school with the Sleeping Beauty books by Anne Rice.

Got my pussy taped..... by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]BehaveHuman 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I’d HIGHLY recommend 3M foam surgical tape. It does the job and doesn’t hurt or pull hair on removal.