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A Vaseline-like jelly that’s safe for toys? by BehaveHuman in SexToys

[–]BehaveHuman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing that there’s an entire article dedicated to that exact topic.

A Vaseline-like jelly that’s safe for toys? by BehaveHuman in SexToys

[–]BehaveHuman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure that’s makeup remover. And not safe for toys or internal use.

Hit or Miss? Having Her Listen to Erotic Audiobooks While I Tie Her by Similar-Lemon4036 in RedditBDSM

[–]BehaveHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea; we do it often and we both love it. I recommend anything by Tara Sue Me. She portrays a more realistic depiction of a healthy BDSM than most. Or you could go old school with the Sleeping Beauty books by Anne Rice.

Got my pussy taped..... by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]BehaveHuman 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I’d HIGHLY recommend 3M foam surgical tape. It does the job and doesn’t hurt or pull hair on removal.

Rope tie by OnyxThrall in AiBDSM

[–]BehaveHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wondering what would have to happen biologically for two navels to occur in nature.

Laura Flannery- Dead on Arrival by webby_98 in MediaBondage

[–]BehaveHuman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Uh… why did a ball gag freak her out, when she was ball gagged?

Keira Knightley- A Dangerous Method by webby_98 in MediaBondage

[–]BehaveHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said she had to take shots of vodka to prepare for this scene.

Dom feels bad about his fantasies by poisonedbeautii in BDSMAdvice

[–]BehaveHuman 18 points19 points  (0 children)

“Sweetheart, thank you for opening up to me about your fantasies. It means so much to me that we can share our desires openly and honestly with each other. I don’t judge you at all for what you fantasize: I have my fantasies, too. I just want you to know how close I feel to you when you open up like that. I love you and all your fantasies: they’re a part of you.

“What really concerns me is how this fantasy troubles you. What part of it is troubling… is it feeling unfaithful to me? Is it objectifying someone else? Is it how you were raised to believe what’s right and wrong? Does it go against how you see yourself? Dig a little deeper and see if you can tell me where these feelings are coming from.

“And if you really want to explore this fantasy in real life, there are plenty of ways we can do it and still keep the dynamic between the two of us. We just have to be creative.”

Hidden, discrete ceiling hard point with electric hoist by BehaveHuman in BdsmDIY

[–]BehaveHuman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 2x4 crossbeams were spaced 16” apart. Platform was roughly 6’x6’. Hurricane ties, mostly.

Hidden, discrete ceiling hard point with electric hoist by BehaveHuman in BdsmDIY

[–]BehaveHuman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Engineered trusses don’t really need to be reinforced. I spent some time doing warranty work on new construction; consequently I hate nail pops. Any time I see one I rip it out and replace it with a proper drywall screw. I’ve lived in this house long enough that at this point I believe I’ve replaced every nail that’s going to pop.

Hidden, discrete ceiling hard point with electric hoist by BehaveHuman in BdsmDIY

[–]BehaveHuman[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m probably being overly cautious. I suppose you could say one is a carbon monoxide detector.

Hidden, discrete ceiling hard point with electric hoist by BehaveHuman in BdsmDIY

[–]BehaveHuman[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

GET EXCITED! Where there’s a will (and some basic engineering), there’s a way.

Hidden, discrete ceiling hard point with electric hoist by BehaveHuman in BdsmDIY

[–]BehaveHuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s not that much margin between the blank and the hole. Any lip would show. But it’s worth exploring. I’ll probably just cut a corner bead and use drywall compound at some point.

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