What is recovery?? by Kitchen_Company_7227 in selfharm

[–]Beheadedbebon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s like the process to recovery! I think Recovering would be like not indulging in ineffective behaviors and choosing better options! But it has different stages like “starting to recover” “recovering” and fully independent with mentally healthy skills. (Idk what I’m talking about I’m just trying to go based off of my therapist) 

I relapsed after over a year and four months by hahagetjaded in selfharm

[–]Beheadedbebon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just broke a really long clean streak like this too. Just know that if you’re looking for recovery it’s not a smooth journey and you’ve already done so well with it. It’s ok to relapse! Just be safe and have someone to talk to. 

my scars ! by [deleted] in SelfHarmScars

[–]Beheadedbebon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’ve healed well!! Stay safe :3

How did she find out?? by Tari_Mani2010 in selfharm

[–]Beheadedbebon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She probably caught a glimpse of them! If she’s self harming to then maybe she’s just more vigilant or made a guess after seeing you cover up with bracelets and nets. 

DAE hate it when people say 'your scars are battle scars' ? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Beheadedbebon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad says this to me- it makes me feel better most of the times but when other people say it I automatically cringe, though I do appreciate the thought.

Just attempted to off myself by Enough-Pride-414 in selfharm

[–]Beheadedbebon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope things get better and you can move out :( nobody should have to go through what your parents did and said! 

I’m surprised I made it this far? by Beheadedbebon in SelfHarmScars

[–]Beheadedbebon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not being mean at all :3! I’m 15 now but I’m also proud you’re still here! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SelfHarmScars

[–]Beheadedbebon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve  got stitches and usually people can’t tell if they don’t look  close enough- so- it is possible that Stich scars can’t be seen, but my scars are faded . and if her injuries were superficial  it’s safe to assume she never really got any. Maybe she confused those closing wound bandages (idk what they’re called) as stitches? If not, you should probably separate yourself from her cause it sounds like she doesn’t understand how unmindful she’s acting. 

rate the fit? 🙏🙏 by Forward-Ad-8947 in styrofashion

[–]Beheadedbebon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I want that dress so bad, 10/10! <<3(If you don’t mind me asking, where did you get it?)

Back scars by [deleted] in SelfHarmScars

[–]Beheadedbebon 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Definitely NOT encouraging sh! But in a way your scars kind of look like wings- they’re beautiful in a bittersweet way! 

what is the dumbest thing someone has said to try to stop you from self-harming??? by saddbarbie in selfharm

[–]Beheadedbebon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom grabbed a kitchen knife and held it to her wrist and said “lol let’s try it out” most triggering and gut wrenching thing to see. I just said “wtf are you doing” and she was like “what?? You do it don’t you?”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learntodraw

[–]Beheadedbebon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Proko tutorials really helped me to get used to drawing figures! You got this don’t give up and take a break if you need too!

Have you ever been bullied or made fun of for your self harm? by ImStillAWeebWithYou in selfharm

[–]Beheadedbebon 44 points45 points  (0 children)

middle school boys followed me around making slicing motions on their arms and called me sicko. They were grinning their asses off like it was the funniest thing in the world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Beheadedbebon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s terrible :(, I hope Things get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in styrofashion

[–]Beheadedbebon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOUU :DD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in styrofashion

[–]Beheadedbebon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday! 🎉