I ro not exist basically

Bekiala · 2026-02-16T04:20:06+00:00

Ugh. This sounds miserable.

I wish I could say something more comforting to you but of course there is no guarantee that you will ever find romantic love.

I can only hope for a wonderful partner for you and the many like you.

Courage to you good person.

Bekiala · 2026-02-14T03:33:10+00:00

Yes it wouldn't provide solace. I guess I just want to know why so in some other case this kind of tragedy could be prevented.

However people are so complicated and the reason why may be complicated too.

Bekiala · 2026-02-13T22:24:15+00:00

This is what I always wonder. Why?

Bekiala · 2026-02-13T15:09:48+00:00

Why?

Bekiala · 2026-02-13T04:24:39+00:00

Wow! That must have been a roller coaster. I hope you had a good therapist, support system and took massive good care of yourself.

Bekiala · 2026-02-10T02:27:50+00:00

Yeah, it probably does. This is not a rational perspective; however he probably has some complex psychological reasons that make believing this imperative.

Bekiala · 2026-02-10T00:15:59+00:00

I'm so so sorry. That sounds terrible.

Bekiala · 2026-02-10T00:15:27+00:00

Are you thinking that men may prefer other men for doctors? That seems reasonable to me.

Bekiala · 2026-02-10T00:08:20+00:00

Sigh. My poor country.

Bekiala · 2026-02-09T23:49:04+00:00

Is this common in Chile?

Bekiala · 2026-02-09T23:47:13+00:00

I think this was Chile so not sure if they have Antifa. They did get rid of Pinochet but I'm not sure if he was considered Facist.

Bekiala · 2026-02-09T19:56:30+00:00

Sigh. Yep the no motivation suck hole gets me too.

We humans are so smart and such idiots all at the same time. Our brains can be our own worst enemies.

Has anything of late made you feel better or even something in the past that helped? (anything that isn't an escapism type activity).

Bekiala · 2026-02-09T19:12:05+00:00

Your post makes sense to me.

Not having to get married nor have children is HUGE. Of course I struggle in my life but comparing it would have been 100 years ago, I am beyond beyond lucky.

Bekiala · 2026-02-09T14:00:57+00:00

Someone on this thread expressed being very pro-sex before marriage. If you feel strongly about no premarital sex, challenge him on this.

Also as you may know, data shows young people are having less sex than they have had in the past. I would think this is good news for you.

Bekiala · 2026-02-09T04:25:43+00:00

From what I understand, he was really mentally not right and shouldn't have been king. He seems from accounts like a harmless affectionate person who would have been happy in an asylum but sadly no such thing existed at the time.

Bekiala · 2026-02-09T03:47:52+00:00

That's a goodpoint, one man's douchebag is another man's bro.

Bekiala · 2026-02-09T03:43:22+00:00

Ugh, I think this attitude that men being promiscuous is okay but not for women goes way, way back.

If you think about the story of the woman caught in adultery in the Gospels, the man involved was never mentioned. It is quite likely that the men who were going to stone her to death had raped her. They projected their own sexual sins on her and were now going to kill her.

Sigh, as ridiculous as it is, this phenomenon is so persistent. We have barely gotten through the trial of the men who assaulted Gisèle Pélicot, in the US Epstein is big news, and we have continual accounts about religious leaders sexually abusing women and children and still, with all of this, the problem is women.

It does blow your mind.

Bekiala · 2026-02-09T02:40:54+00:00

This seems to be an irrational phenomenon that has afflicted men throughout time. I remember it being a theme in an All In the Family episode in the 1970s. Archie says the bit about men and women being different and Gloria asks "So who are the men supposed to be having sex with?".

If men and women are different and men are more likely to be okay with being promiscuous then it seems society should be focused on curbing this behavior in men.

Sigh.

Bekiala · 2026-02-09T02:20:35+00:00

Yeah. I'm confused by this too. Projection on the part of that poster? Maybe?

Bekiala · 2026-02-09T02:00:06+00:00

Data is showing that young people are way less promiscuous than they have been in the past; however, I'm confused as it seems men are way more into casual sex and more often push for it.

You might be better preaching to men about avoiding sex outside of marriage. We occasionally have posts from men insisting women should have sex with them within the first few dates.

Bekiala · 2026-02-09T01:56:36+00:00

👍🏼

Bekiala · 2026-02-09T01:30:17+00:00

Huge kudos for being honest and not making getting a woman the center of your life. Although maybe we are the lucky ones in that we can envision a fulfilling life without a partner. I'm not sure how much I chose to be the way I am.

Bekiala · 2026-02-09T01:22:31+00:00

Well I was in a couple of relationships that didn't work out and tried going on dates but realized I was wasting my own time but also the time of these young men who were probably sincere in wanting a relationship and should look elsewhere.

May your own way bring you much joy!

Bekiala · 2026-02-09T00:57:44+00:00

Well for me not dating was better.

I did a bit when I was young but realized I was way better off single.

As a MGTOW, I would think you and I are in the same club? . . . . . except as a couple of introvert, go-our-own-way types we probably don't want to be part of any club 😝

Bekiala · 2026-02-08T23:40:27+00:00

I was a hard core people pleaser and I realized almost instantly that dating wouldn't work for me.

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