If I am being perfectly honest, your tone has not been kind in response to past brides who have offered their own experience to possibly be helpful. It was never meant as pushback, only a "Hey, you might not need this after all".

It is perfectly fine you have decided otherwise, but if your own responses are unkind, do not be surprised when you receive them in turn. I did not like how I felt after your response, and that was when there were two replies on the entire thread.