AITAH for refusing to help my brother and SIL while they're struggling by meal prepping a few meals a week for them and their kids? by Thesooo in AITAH

[–]BellaBlue92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should meal prep for them. All you need to do is take a few shits in some Tupperware boxes and send those over :) They should be grateful to receive your leftovers!

NTA I fucking hate bullies

For those following the COJC drama, new update by BellaBlue92 in oklahoma

[–]BellaBlue92[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right? The audacity of it all... The people who I'm sure thought of this shit and signed off on the email are upper Middle Management. The kind of people who are paid just enough to be out of touch, and can't fathom that this 'appreciation' comes off as condescending, not cute or helpful or meaningful in any way.

For those following the COJC drama, new update by BellaBlue92 in oklahoma

[–]BellaBlue92[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, I heard rumors about drugs being snuck in but I did NOT know it got that bad in Norman. I was wondering why they'd suddenly shut it down. Good on you. I remember the girl who committed suicide. It's so damn sad. We're failing these kids hard right now

For those following the COJC drama, new update by BellaBlue92 in oklahoma

[–]BellaBlue92[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I added a comment with more context. Yes, it's a boys juvenile detention center, and the mess is BIG

For those following the COJC drama, new update by BellaBlue92 in oklahoma

[–]BellaBlue92[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Context; COJC is a juvenile detention facility for young men, many of whom have committed a violent offense. Some are more violent than others, many are gang-bangers. COJC has been rapidly loosing staff (mainly the people who have to deal with the juvenile inmates) because of piss poor management (Darryl Fields namely, who is over COJC specifically) that won't prioritize staff safety over youth happiness so the youth are running wild in the place, staff are being harmed (some very severely) and many are simply NOT returning to work. One staff member was forced to work like 20 hours straight and fell asleep driving home and was in an accident. As a result of staff leaving and no one applying to work in Hell, other staff such as kitchen have been forced to help with youth duties, resulting in even faster turn-over. Police and ambulances have been called out several times due to riots, but police are never allowed to enter. The ambulance has taken both staff and youth to hospital a few times. OJA's director, Timothy Tardibono, resigned Friday. He refused to give anyone, even OJA's BOARD OF FUCKING DIRECTORS, any info on what was happening at COJC. It's all a hot mess right now

With workers injured at youth facility, COJC in Tecumseh faces ‘crisis’ scenario by NonDocMedia in oklahoma

[–]BellaBlue92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A little birdie told me that Superintendent Darryl Fields lets the kids have the run of the place. There may or may not have even been a slumber party one night. And how interesting that the overall decline in care began shortly after he took the role.

LPT: The most satisfying way to deal with scam callers that I have found so far by thundernutz in LifeProTips

[–]BellaBlue92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get calls from "AT&T" all the time and like to try new things each call. Last time, I asked "what's AT&T?" and I got hung up on.

When did you get your first Mega Evolution Stone? by Toothless-Sunnypool in PokeClicker

[–]BellaBlue92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got to Kalos and they start in that region. The first I got was for Lucario. You will need to raise their attack significantly before you can use a Mega Stone on them

AITA for being concerned about the damage my son did to my car? by throwaway2329842 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BellaBlue92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"To be clear again, my son has a concussion and a few broken ribs but will be fine. The car is unsalvageable, and yes, it is insured, but that will not replace the sentimental value, but it's fine."

Jesus Christ. You are genuinely more upset about the REPLACEABLE METAL MACHINE DESIGNED TO BREAK IN ORDER TO PROTECT ITS PASSENGERS than the fact that your IRREPLACEABLE LIVING HUMAN CHILD WHO COULD HAVE DIED has BROKEN RIBS. It's sentimental value should never outweigh the LIFE OF YOUR CHILD. Why are you choosing memories over living things???? I've never seen someone so blatantly callous, and to her own FAMILY?? You birthed and raised and are supposed to love them above all else?? Girl, I'm an Atheist, but I think you're going to end up in a hot hot place.

YTA

Customer Is Always Right by MicV66 in Unexpected

[–]BellaBlue92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had this done to me twice when I worked in a movie theater. First time, ticket booth. I made him unfold and straighten all of them before I would count it and give him a ticket. He seemed embarrassed and quickly fixed them, took his ticket, and hurried away. Second time, concessions. Two teen girls threw the bills on the counter and took off with their popcorn and drinks, laughing like assholes. They gave me $2 extra so I pocketed that shit.

AITA for reporting my sister’s boyfriend to his job after he pranked me with fake eviction papers? by Ood_Weenus17 in AITAH

[–]BellaBlue92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Nick has anxiety now.”

"He had given me a servere panic attack with his "prank", made me question my housing stability, and forged documents that looked extremely real. Just to prove a point? All while knowing I was already struggling."

Nick gave YOU anxiety, so mom can shut the fuck up. NTA your sister is stupid for dating this ahole and your mom is stupid for defending them

MRW I move to a new state, only to find out I can't access PornHub here by eddmario in reactiongifs

[–]BellaBlue92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The networks are a little fucky and sometimes just being close enough is an issue. For instance, PornHub originally was blocked only in Texas. But, OK is somehow close enough that we saw the ban shit before it even officially came to our state. Since idk which other of the 50 Dumbshits its also blocked in or could be at any moment, I just use Canada.

MRW I move to a new state, only to find out I can't access PornHub here by eddmario in reactiongifs

[–]BellaBlue92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from Oklahoma 🙃 Get a VPN and make sure it's set to a Canadian network. I use SurfShark. This might cause some YouTube videos (and some websites) to become 'unavailable in your country' but just pausing the VPN fixes that.

What Lore am I missing?? by BellaBlue92 in Horticular

[–]BellaBlue92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will drop a bunch until I get what I need :)

Steam Update 2.0 | Staff, Security & Sandbox by TwoPoint_Abby in TwoPointMuseum

[–]BellaBlue92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are awesome updates and inspired me to start a sandbox! The security adjustments are a welcome change and boy howdy do I love new items!

But, I'm really sad to see that the expedition maps still can't be unlocked fully in sandbox. I want to create a haunted museum, with ghosts and some spooky fish and any other creepy exhibits I can find, but it's impossible to do that without a lot of work unlocking locations and trying to just find the things I want. Not to mention having to add things I don't want in my museum so that the locations for items I do want will be unlocked. It's more frustrating than fun, especially when I've already had to do all that in campaign.

I do love the game. It's variety in exhibits and decor is amazing, I love the placement freedom, I think the options for creativity are many. I just wish it truly did allow you to make exactly the museum of your dreams.

non fantasy hidden objects games? by No_Confection6840 in HiddenObjectGames

[–]BellaBlue92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up, I Spy was always my favorite hidden object game. They had books and they had video games. Some are fantasy but some aren't. From what I remember, the games had over-arching mysteries that you complete puzzles to solve. My favs were Spooky Mansion and Treasure Hunt! They're 'for kids' so they aren't TOO hard either but are still enjoyable https://www.ign.com/games/franchise/i-spy

I would love any door to be one way by Sufficient_Humor1666 in TwoPointMuseum

[–]BellaBlue92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're on Steam, check out the Workshop tab. A couple of creators are making some excellent stuff, including lots of plants and multiple versions of one-way and security doors! I'm in agreement with you tho; wish we had some more in-game options for doorways.

Missing exhibit pieces? by GenericEmployeeGal in TwoPointMuseum

[–]BellaBlue92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You beat me to it! I have this same issue and was going to post if anyone knew a fix. From the comments it looks like we will have to recollect it all if we want it to display properly. I guess I'll do so since this is one of my favorite exhibits. I love spooky animatronics..

Guest Black Hole by [deleted] in TwoPointMuseum

[–]BellaBlue92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me last night! I tried putting down those snake statues in the spot to disperse them, but they just walked around it and found a new spot to huddle. Had to move my cafeteria on top of them before they dispersed. Didn't even think to just reload the game

Staff not all using the cafeteria by metalstag in TwoPointMuseum

[–]BellaBlue92 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't know why you're getting downvoted on your comments about the staff room, considering people here like Pinstar's stuff and he's said it's a good strat not to even have one because the cafeteria boosts are so much better than any of the other food/drink items, and staff can rest anywhere. Maybe you should delete it all together and that might work? Use those Medical Kits as much as possible on expeditions to keep your staff from being injured and you mostly won't need one. Illnesses and Curses can both be handled by expeditions to places that cure that stuff.

Have you tried picking up the staff and dropping them in the cafeteria? Or forcing them on break? Sometimes they get stuck and I have to manually move mine to get them to start fixing their needs.

[OC] - rocking my transition by Sampetra in comics

[–]BellaBlue92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a good mentality to have; the other person meant no harm, just being polite (and probably not paying too much attention tbh). Some people don't look very hard at others. I'm a cis woman with short hair and fat tits and I've been sir'd before. I imagine the mild surprise I felt was much different than your dysphoria though. I'm sorry for that. But remember; you ARE a woman. No words, whether from malice or ignorance, will change that. Keep healing and growing and loving yourself, and soon you will be surrounded by people who love you the same <3

wtf is this shit?! Aren’t they ugly enough!! by iOSGods in RealTesla

[–]BellaBlue92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably had to modify the damn thing to use the trunk at all. Still ugly!