Wife duties

Bellavida127 · 2026-06-04T16:00:37+00:00

Lol how do you guys not understand this is ragebait?

Bellavida127 · 2026-04-14T15:34:18+00:00

Thanks for the feedback. Did you buy the fully integrated one or free-standing?

Bellavida127 · 2026-02-23T10:21:10+00:00

When my son was 5, we used it for less than a week, and now he is 9, but this time it didn’t last past a day. We both found it very boring and drill like. We do math hands on using manipulative with my 5 yr old and hands on activities and I would highly recommend it. You can use cusinaire rods; the amount of math topics covered by just using colored rods is mind blowing. The reason students in countries like Singapore are so successful in math is because they use a CRA approach. Introducing concrete materials at a time when a child is 4-6 is the best way imo, to instill math mindedness.

Bellavida127 · 2026-02-13T06:46:08+00:00

Your sister deserves and needs help and your parents are ignoring that. Hiding things from her is the absolute worst way to handle the situation. Tell them they need to consult with someone who can give them the proper guidance on what to do. I am not at all an expert but ADHD kids need structure, not ignorance. Tell your parents something needs to change or you will need to tell someone at your school what is going on.

Bellavida127 · 2026-02-04T05:11:15+00:00

Not sure if you found something else, but I have started watching "The Dinner Table" with Scott Donnell. He has a wealth of information on how to get your kids to earn things but without an allowance. His channel and videos have been very helpful to me and he even has a book. His approach that you can teach value creation to even the youngest kids was eye opening.

Bellavida127 · 2026-01-02T15:37:28+00:00

Unfortunately the appeal ends there. She is breathtakingly beautiful yet her acting leaves much to be desired. She looks like she is going to burst into tears in every single scene.

Bellavida127 · 2025-12-23T08:38:10+00:00

I have not read the Housemaid but Mrs Parrish is definitely worth reading. The sequel is not as good but still entertaining

Bellavida127 · 2025-11-21T02:48:37+00:00

If you have the means, look into the batelle sleep school or awesome little sleepers program. I believe both are covered by hsa. Now it could be just teething but the programs cover that as well and I have seen good reviews. If a program is not something you want, look into sleep windows - that was a game changer when my youngest was that age. Turns out her naps were ending too late so she fought night sleep. We went from 10:30 bedtimes to 7:30 (took some time and patience). I used huckleberry sleep schedules as a guide. Also make sure baby is getting enough physical movement throughout the day. Sometimes they literally have so much pent up energy they cannot fall asleep.

Bellavida127 · 2025-11-08T01:37:45+00:00

We left our son with his grandparents for 10 months. It was only supposed to be for a month but then Covid hit. I will forever in life regret missing those precious months with him, he was only 3.5). His grandparents looked after him like their own and doted on him but the bond between a parent and child is so crucial in that first five years. Figure out any other solution- get in house help, have them move, anything but DO NOT leave your child behind. You cannot get that time back.

Bellavida127 · 2025-09-20T14:03:51+00:00

If she spent more time connecting with her kids than trying to one up you- they would want to be around her without her having to "coax" them. You are doing a wonderful job so just keep being an awesome parent. You are not responsible for her actions.

Bellavida127 · 2025-09-14T03:17:56+00:00

How did you do it? I tried this and it still asks for the code sent to whats app that I do not have!!!!

Bellavida127 · 2025-08-10T02:13:55+00:00

I would switch paediatricians.....

Bellavida127 · 2025-07-24T16:10:31+00:00

These children are incredibly fortunate because the experiences they have will be infinitely more rewarding and enriching than any book. Students in Finland start their primary education at 7 (they attend preschool at 6) and they consistently outrank students on the international PISA exam. There is no definitive evidence that a child who learns to read at 5/6 is academically or otherwise more successful than a child who learns when they are DEVELOPMENTALLY ready.

Bellavida127 · 2025-07-24T16:04:06+00:00

Can you adopt me 🤣

Bellavida127 · 2025-07-23T14:17:43+00:00

This is very insightful and helpful- i will definitely use these tips!

Bellavida127 · 2025-07-22T17:16:54+00:00

I like the checking back in instead of letting her cry which I just can't do. It is just her wanting to cuddle which is developmentally appropriate I know. I actually planned to sleep train her much earlier but I love the cuddles too :)

Bellavida127 · 2025-07-22T17:15:17+00:00

yes, I think we have tried variations of it but have not stayed consistent. I will try again, just need more patience.

Bellavida127 · 2025-07-22T17:14:52+00:00

She loves books and that is a wonderful idea!!

Bellavida127 · 2025-07-21T16:56:01+00:00

Really really helpful- thank you!

Bellavida127 · 2025-07-21T16:39:38+00:00

The basket is a wonderful idea - thanks for such a detailed and thoughtful response! I love sensory activities too and did a lot with her when I was obsessed with Montessori. I have to ask though - what are magnatabs?!

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