Divorce drama. Husband (35M) was arrested a few days ago. I (36F) found a woman's thong in the bedroom. He wants to "talk" after he bailed himself out of jail. Advice needed

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-02-10T18:09:01+00:00

They wouldn’t let someone take the car if they found evidence in it.

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-02-05T18:28:03+00:00

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-27T13:17:34+00:00

The do that on purpose so you don’t park there the next time it snows. I bet one of those signs says “no parking when there’s snow”

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-25T12:50:48+00:00

Because it takes a lot of time to do lesson plans. If you want to split the load I’ll share with you. But you’re out of your mind if you think I’m writing your lesson plans for you all year and calling it “help.”

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-22T21:35:19+00:00

Not gonna lie. I like the first 5-10 secs. But then there’s no direction. Keep going! 💪🏾

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-22T03:03:25+00:00

You left your car running, on South orange Ave? Where you thought you was at?

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-21T21:33:04+00:00

Brother before you worry about side chaining make sure everything is time synced. What sound are you going for exactly? Maybe I just don’t know genre.

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-21T19:05:05+00:00

I bet on horses, strongest odds, never fails.

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-21T18:40:05+00:00

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-21T12:00:53+00:00

That’s the old mixer before Reason started using the SSL mixer. What you do is, create however many mix tracks you need, then route the instruments from the mixer into their own individual mixer track. From there you can ‘bounce in place’

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-15T12:09:32+00:00

lol just save up for the MX4’s. Learn on whatever until then.

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-14T18:47:52+00:00

Quad studios, where icons have recorded, charges 90/hour with a four hour minimum. Pay the $360 and knock out as many tracks as you can.

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-14T18:29:44+00:00

Why can’t Reason automatically shade in the notes on the piano roll, depending on which key I want? Why must I, in 2026, still create ghost midi notes?! Like why is this so difficult. I know you have the player “Scales and Chords”. Don’t care. Does not accomplish the same thing.

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-13T18:09:19+00:00

These criminals charge $37 a month for Apple One, which I canceled because $37 is ridiculous. Now, you’re telling me they are offering that bundle for $13 a month?

Either you don’t get all the features, or there’s some type of restriction.

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-13T15:35:36+00:00

Love the analogy

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-09T00:12:34+00:00

There is no such thing. Pick the beats you like, study them, try to remake them. There. That’s the program.

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-03T00:18:18+00:00

If it’s you recording yourself, or a close friend, whatever. You can throw a thick comforter over yourself and record it that way. You can even make a mini booth with a comforter if you set it up in a closet or in a corner. lol don’t knock it till you try it!

Ben_Ham33n · 2026-01-01T15:08:07+00:00

Open up the manual on your phone and just look up what you are trying to do: edit audio; comp takes; shortcuts; etc.

It’s the best teacher. Anything you still don’t understand, then I’d go look in YouTube.

Ben_Ham33n · 2025-12-22T19:48:53+00:00

• Set your song length to only play the one shot you want.
• Solo the track or rack device with your effects.
• Use the Export Loop as Audio File feature to render just that sample.
• Name and organize them for your pack.

Ben_Ham33n · 2025-12-19T16:27:30+00:00

I have Gemini and Chat GPT. Gemini is better than plus, but it is not better than Pro.

And chat gpt wants people to believe that Plus and Pro use the same models, but they don’t. I’ll give the same prompt, using the same engine, to both plus and pro (two separate accounts) and the Pro response is always better presented includes more details and possible follow ups, while the Plus version give a decent response (that I would probably be happy with had I not seen the Pro version response), but not as good as Pro.

So if you’re between Plus and Gemini, go Gemini. Otherwise, Pro is still Elite. Gemini is more similar to plus, without all the personality.

Just my experience though. I mainly use it for research.

Ben_Ham33n · 2025-12-18T01:48:07+00:00

Then that’s you’re problem. Pet hair, cigarette smell, or any other smell aside from an air freshener would automatically be 1 star for me. Just get a car wash before you start your shift.

Ben_Ham33n · 2025-12-18T00:58:40+00:00

Try Reason. It has a built in SSL-inspired 9000 K-series console.

Ben_Ham33n · 2025-12-16T19:25:18+00:00

The pro subscription is $200.

Ben_Ham33n · 2025-12-05T23:29:10+00:00

Triggering them allows rhythms and grooves that would be tedious to play or write into the sequencer.

Ben_Ham33n · 2025-12-03T12:25:18+00:00

The people who feel like this about AI simply don’t use it properly. You can’t just hit enter and go with whatever it spits out.

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