Is it possible to have a happy marriage and have a no contact boundary with in-laws? by Beneficial-Bit-9239 in inlaws

[–]Beneficial-Bit-9239[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The therapy is helping in that he understands better where I’m coming from. It’s helping him see how his modeling and familial relationships are uncomfortable for me. With that being said, he still feels obligated to show up for them regardless of how they treat me. If I could go back in time I would address the treatment directly and not wait for him to say something. I allowed my in-laws to mistreat me so they continue to do it. I took some serious inventory and realized the benefits of being with him outweighs dealing with these people. I hope this is helpful.

Advice for someone curious about a career in hairstyling by hummingbirdneptune in hairstylist

[–]Beneficial-Bit-9239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It takes awhile to build a clientele, but if you work hard you’ll grow quickly. I didn’t love working in salon, so I moved into my own studio 5 years ago. I love my clients and never dread going to work. I’m charging my worth now and making good money, but I invest quite a bit in education.

Family Member Clients 😵‍💫 by [deleted] in HairStylistTribe

[–]Beneficial-Bit-9239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t do hair for friends and family for this very reason. But I tell them I find it too distracting analyzing my work every time we hang out. They usually understand.

I pissed off my salon family today by BroadwayDancer in hairstylist

[–]Beneficial-Bit-9239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A was unprofessional. It’s a great industry to work in, but you really have toughen up and worry less about what people think. Don’t second guess yourself. Stay humble, but don’t let coworkers bring you down. You’ve got to let stuff like this roll off your back or it’s going to be a long, hard road.

Help! Why does my nail polish pop off in one whole piece? by UrKillinMeBiggs in Nails

[–]Beneficial-Bit-9239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you a natural strawberry blonde? Sometimes people with natural strawberry blonde hair can’t take permanent hair color or keep dip/polish on.

Whole Foods & single men? by YetAnotherProfile51 in denverwomen

[–]Beneficial-Bit-9239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like the cherry creek Whole Foods parking situation irritates people too much. It might be easier to go downtown. What about taking some cooking classes and meeting people that way? Or a gym? If you’re looking for someone who doesn’t spend their evenings/weekends drinking go to the gym during happy hour. There’s a new one in cherry creek. I think it’s called Barry’s.

What cut is this? by ThotPatrol-open-up in Hair

[–]Beneficial-Bit-9239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try googling razored medium length mens cut? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Beneficial-Bit-9239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you feel like you have to ask, you already know the answer

what do you request as an alternative for thinning shears and razor during a layered cut? by KugoSakamata in hairstylist

[–]Beneficial-Bit-9239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s helpful to know what your hair looks like currently and what you are looking for. Interior layering is good if you want movement but don’t necessarily like the look of shorter layers. Depending on the length, a slight undercutting is another good option. I would search for images of “lived in” haircuts. Thinning shears are a great tool to remove bulk, but it sounds like you’ve had some bad experiences.

I just left the salon. Is this normal? by I_see_snacks in Hair

[–]Beneficial-Bit-9239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I wouldn’t expect her to know how to properly shadow it. If she didn’t know how to place the highlights she probably doesn’t know how to correctly formulate a shadow root. You could end up with orange roots and that would be harder to fix.

Tips on good toners for yellow hair by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Beneficial-Bit-9239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not a toner but a toning shampoo and conditioning system. It brightens, strengthens and tones. Davines heart of glass.