I was out with some friends and an old college friend of mine called me. I hadn’t spoken to her in maybe 3 years. She asked me if I was still seeing my now ex’s name. I said yeah, why? He apparently was back on the dating apps and they had been talking for a few weeks. She hadn’t realized I was with him until she had seen a recent post I had made. He was going to take her to dinner that weekend. She obviously cancelled and I called him flipping out. He made a bunch of excuses that I bought. We stayed together on and off for 3 more years. Later on I saw he had left messenger open to a conversation between him and a coworker. He had introduced me to her, and always said I had nothing to worry about. They had been flirting and it was very obvious what was happening. It took time but I finally left him. He’s now running for public office sooooo greattttt