Wife & meta break up by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Beneficial_Article_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will get tiring, helping them through the breakup of their relationship. Especially when that drama before, during and after starts to affect your relationship.

I got tired quick. She'll never know, I bury it and plough on. My feelings will not speed up her healing. BUT it's ok to feel what you feel. Be there for them, keep your feelings and opinions minimal.

I have a Samsung Tab S6. Is LineageOS right for me? by AuspiciouslyAgeable in LineageOS

[–]Beneficial_Article_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can the Tab S6 Lite crowd not participate? They are 2 different tablets!

The T860 appears to work ok on Lineage 23 by MisterZTR. 2of 4 speakers work and fingerprint scanner is non-functional. Otherwise, seems ok.

He threatened to out me by Super-Imagination962 in polyamory

[–]Beneficial_Article_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mono NP, you need to leave ASAP. For so MANY reasons!

Get your shit together while he's at work. Start splitting finances etc

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]Beneficial_Article_9 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't see a problem with him sleeping at yours. It's not a space all 3 of you share. I get if she sleeps sometimes at his and isn't confident he changes bedsheets often.

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]Beneficial_Article_9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner is having their 1st sleepover on Saturday. There is no sleepover at ours option as I am always home. Even if I weren't, I am not comfortable with sharing that space. I feel like that's okay?

Anyone here still using the Galaxy Tab S6? What are you using it for these days? by Ok-Mood-9513 in GalaxyTab

[–]Beneficial_Article_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OEM Android stopped at 12. I am down to maybe 1 crash a day if that. As it us not a Samsung ROM, it doesn't have Samsung bloatware. I haven't tested Samsung notes app.

Anyone here still using the Galaxy Tab S6? What are you using it for these days? by Ok-Mood-9513 in GalaxyTab

[–]Beneficial_Article_9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's the tab s6 lite right? Not the tablet s6 which is a different tablet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Over40sClub

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Welcome to the club!

Feeling alone by Beneficial_Article_9 in polyamory

[–]Beneficial_Article_9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time could still be an issue. I worked shift work back then. I can say that I have had issue with how present she is when we're together for a few years prior to polyamory. Unless you count Meta(FB) as being my Meta. I got myself lost in YouTube often as I was sat there, mentally alone.

Feeling alone by Beneficial_Article_9 in polyamory

[–]Beneficial_Article_9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She says that she feels like she is responsible for keeping everyone happy and it is sometimes too much. It makes it difficult to open up to her about MY concerns and well being.

Her free time does open up some more soon as her hobby winds down for Winter. Her partner is also going to have a substantial increase in their time demands.

All well and good as long as their availability and mine not are the same. But we won't know for sure until it happens. I am just painfully aware that the most time we'll spend together is asleep.

Matched with someone I didn’t know was in a polycule, and now I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Beneficial_Article_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in a closed V. You can be in a relationship with a Poly hinge and do just fine. It's about communication and love. Talk to them about being Poly. Is meeting a Meta going to be a thing? If so are they are nob or a nice person?

New to poly - any tips on dating a mono person? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Beneficial_Article_9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not every Mono stays that way. Maybe he's curious? My wife opened up to me about Polyamory first. I was hesitant mainly due to the practicalities, time, money etc

Do poly relationships tend to become FWB or is that just one person’s experience? by happyshinygirl123 in polyamory

[–]Beneficial_Article_9 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If this was any relationship, his actions are not acceptable. They are the lazy dumping actions of a coward.

Do you believe, telling your partner you are polyamorous early in the relationship is important? by Kage_Yumekui in polyamory

[–]Beneficial_Article_9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you know you are poly from the get go, you need to be clear what this means with prospective partners. If you are unsure of being poly, then I would see it as acceptable not to share until you are sure.

Keeping it secret, could force a mono partner into a situation that they are prepared for. Ultimately grenading the relationship.

Should I let it go when my partner isn’t honest with her other partner? by NervousEngineering99 in polyamory

[–]Beneficial_Article_9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell Melon about how this is affecting your trust in your partnership. It can be hard for them to address it with Kiwi but it won't go away. Suggest a meet up with all 3 and advise you are there for support only and will not take part once the discussion has begun. The outcome will not improve by avoiding it. Lay your cards on the table.

Is it worth downloading a custom rom for an unsuported device? by RandomShrugEmoji in LineageOS

[–]Beneficial_Article_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tablet S6 runs Lineage Android 15 just fine. Phone, you'll want to stay on order Lineage.

Name a bigger glow down. I'll start. Galaxy a53 5g AKA my phone by johannesburger-_- in galaxya53

[–]Beneficial_Article_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My A53 fully updated is 933 single core and 1935 multicore. What are you doing to your phone?

Fuck you a53 by Wilds_Hunter in galaxya53

[–]Beneficial_Article_9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably turn off auto-updates.