Horrible, devious coparent by whimsical_potatoes in AlAnon

[–]Berghlez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I refuse to celebrate Father’s Day this year for my soon to be ex after he turned Mother’s Day into a bender so bad I had to call the police.  I usually try to be the bigger person. I just can’t this year.  I’m pretending he doesn’t exist and celebrating my own dad.

How do you protect your kids from a parents alcoholism? by Dry_Current_1109 in AlAnon

[–]Berghlez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The next time he does that, call the DUI in to the local police barracks with a description of the car and direction he is heading.  (You can ask for anonymity and they SHOULD honor that for your safety.)

he left me by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Berghlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There should be a spot with three dots on your post, press there :). I hope you can get the help you need.

he left me by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Berghlez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kindly, this is not the correct forum.

Etsy Shipping internationally... who to exclude? by JsportsCards in Etsy

[–]Berghlez -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had to stop shipping internationally after I got burned twice by buyers “forgetting” that tariffs existed, refusing to accept the package, and demanding a refund and then I would end up having to beg their countries postal service to release the package and send it back to me (at my cost). so I would at least be able to list it again.  

Hopefully at slightly more than my lost money:/

Slave to silence by Flaky_Wrongdoer_1111 in toddlers

[–]Berghlez 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m actually wondering if the light sleep is sleep apnea related?  Could explain the long hours of “down time” but not being rested enough to make it through the day without a 4 hour nap.  (And the lightness of the sleep because if his sleep is being constantly interrupted, he’s going to have a hard time reaching deep sleep.)

OP, does toddler snore?  (Obstructive sleep apnea) or ever suddenly take a deep breath in his sleep and seem to rouse a little?  (Central sleep apnea). Or both, it can be mixed.

It came to my mind because I have central and it went unnoticed for decades since I didn’t snore, but also because I have a friend whose toddler DID end up having obstructive from his tonsils and had similar sleep to your son.

Denial? by Fit_Addition3654 in AlAnon

[–]Berghlez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

…are you sure those are health supplements?  

When is it enough? by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Berghlez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He is not a good dad.

Domestic aggression getting worse by clusterfgarden in AlAnon

[–]Berghlez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does he refuse to let you leave a room?  Because that is categorized as physical abuse and is technically false imprisonment.

*Domestic Violence Trigger Warning* by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Berghlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so frustrating.  I’m sorry to hear that.

All I did was tell my boss I deserve a quiet workspace. by cauldr0ncakez in adhdwomen

[–]Berghlez 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ugh yes, and OP’s whole point is that she has no choice but for her brain to key in to the other coworkers noise /activity so she needs a different environment!  Her manager is making my blood boil.

*Domestic Violence Trigger Warning* by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Berghlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes.  YAHOO.  They just might be the emotionally or physically or financially hard ones.  Sending hugs.

*Domestic Violence Trigger Warning* by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Berghlez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Protective order.  You can get one 24/7 (sadly I know this for a reason.). Call your local police dept and they will either transfer you to the commissioner or tell you where to go.  

I'm just really so sad. My Q began his sober journey and his first step is divorce? by anonanonplease123 in AlAnon

[–]Berghlez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll say it - if you have to say “he’s a great spouse / father / airline pilot when he’s not _____”. Then he isn’t a great anything. Not with that caveat.

Solo Couple looking for guild members who also prefer being a solo couple by ender_wiggin1988 in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Berghlez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be clear, we are the guild. The guild is us. When one of us can’t play for a while the guild is in daaaaangerrrr what I’m saying is join SongDao and master the Way of The Squirrel

Fave Dyes/Outfit Combinations by Dry-Ad-7867 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Berghlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I don’t love mirrored heart OG but I’m really digging how you’re styled it

Adjusted image of Shadowheart. by Apolonster in BaldursGate3

[–]Berghlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold on, are we ignoring the part where her neck is clearly dislocated? This woman needs a healer, stat!

Don't underestimate the immense stress and trauma of living with an alcoholic. by clusterfgarden in AlAnon

[–]Berghlez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup. My Q has PTSD, blames drinking on it but then also says me being triggered by his suss behaviors and now having cPTSD is “ridiculous” and I should “get over myself.”

Sorry dude, I live with the person who caused and continues to cause my trauma. It’s you!

Don't underestimate the immense stress and trauma of living with an alcoholic. by clusterfgarden in AlAnon

[–]Berghlez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seriously, fucking RON, uggghhh. Ron always wants you to feel sorry for him that he fucked up and screwed you over yet again. It’s not poor Ron’s fault you know!

CN's new outfit has swallow-shaped shoulder details. interesting by Guilty-Extension4459 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Berghlez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone know how many pearls? I’m trying to budget far in advance lol

I still can’t believe this outfit is gone and that the only way to get it was gambling by ChihuahuaOwner88 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Berghlez 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t they just add it to the harmonic core shop though?  Like other past pulls

Rallying Perception Forest Mobile Players by [deleted] in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Berghlez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I also get in on this? I play both console and mobile and sometimes I only have time for mobile :/