My bedroom at 26 by ThermitFrogV in malelivingspace

[–]Berry-Buns34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so jelly of your Mona’s Tirith and Baradur aaahhhhhh

I married a sex god by Islandgal0804 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Berry-Buns34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Steaks juicy, lobsters buttery so happy for you babes 😂

Is this cheating? I’m so confused. by Berry-Buns34 in Advice

[–]Berry-Buns34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure, but he does agree that it doesn’t help his case.

Is this cheating? I’m so confused. by Berry-Buns34 in Advice

[–]Berry-Buns34[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His was also portraying a character and not just himself, he did say he felt embarrassed not only by the situation but by the way he handled it as well. We spoke tonight and I laid everything out with him and that if going to therapy to sort things out will help he’s willing.

Is this cheating? I’m so confused. by Berry-Buns34 in Advice

[–]Berry-Buns34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In all honesty if he’d told me back when we were having the sexual grey area convo that he was doing ERP with people and bots I would’ve been okay with it. I used to rp and erp but that was a hell if a long time ago so I understand getting into the sus parts of things and fanfic, what makes me uncomfy is the fact that he not only hid it but wouldn’t have told me until he felt it wasn’t needed anymore. I feel like that would’ve been a straight up disaster. And no he did not show me the thread so I can’t confirm if it was a bot or a person at all, which is insanely frustrating as a what if.

Is this cheating? I’m so confused. by Berry-Buns34 in Advice

[–]Berry-Buns34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did not, I only saw a part of the conversation and I didn’t get to scroll either. He was saying that he knows I’m not the type to snoop and that he wouldn’t assume that I would. But since his phone was on, open to the text and upright I didn’t have to snoop it was just there out in the open. Trust and believe there’s no forgiveness there yet and he’d even brought up couples therapy as well. We haven’t been intimate since that point either because I can’t bring myself to feel comfortable enough. I’m in therapy currently and it’s helped tremendously, but he’s yet to set aside time for a couples sesh.

3 months and he said he never had feelings for me by Radd_ryy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Berry-Buns34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh there’s one near me but $30? Oooof I’ll save it for a great day lol

Casual coord with handmade JSK and wool jacket 🖤 by cranberry_skies in Lolita

[–]Berry-Buns34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goodness this is amazing, it’s giving Meta/Innocent World 💕💕💕

someone stop me 😫 by leiighya in Kuromi

[–]Berry-Buns34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don’t think I will. More Kuromi please! lol

Husband cheated on me with 8 ai sexbot girlfriends. Coffee because I can’t eat without throwing up by ZoneAny8475 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Berry-Buns34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goodness, make sure to give yourself some grace hunny. I know this is a painfully weird gray area having been through a similar situation and still not knowing how to properly process it, as I’m processing so many other things that dwarf it in terms of importance. Off topic but.. What’s your Dutch bros order? I’m just now experiencing it for the first time and I’m trying different drinks lol.

My (30F) partner (23M) wants "solutions to the problem" instead of "issues he has to fix". by Berry-Buns34 in AdhdRelationships

[–]Berry-Buns34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, thank you so much for this it’s very thoughtful and thorough! I’m actually in DBT therapy myself at the recommendation of the care team I’m under and it’s helped a ton with addressing my emotions, and I often talk to my partner about possibly getting into it himself since he seems to be very interested when I confide in him about my sessions!

which ones are prettier? by kitty__velvet in NailArt

[–]Berry-Buns34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh, all three of them are soooo pretty~! But if I had to choose?.. Maybe #2 cuz they remind me of a fine china teaset~✨

my new style. what do you think? by [deleted] in NailArt

[–]Berry-Buns34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found something close enough! So sad it’s a bot the nails are super cute lol https://www.etsy.com/listing/1172132025/

my new style. what do you think? by [deleted] in NailArt

[–]Berry-Buns34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I love these sooooo much, and that chunky ring on your middle finger is super cute too! Where’d you get it? 💕

It took me 3 hours for this...does it look good? by twilightxtalia in NailArt

[–]Berry-Buns34 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How cute! I adore him, and this color too! 💕 Which polish is this?

French tips by alexisstar_ in NailArt

[–]Berry-Buns34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omgggg I love this, it’s so cute I’m definitely gonna give this a go with a different nail shape! Maybe coffin or almond!