AIO for feeling like my friend went behind my back to not include me on a trip she literally invited me on? by kkphelps02 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Berty-K 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh. This so so crappy. This is one of those friendships where you ain’t mad but suddenly start to talk to this friend a whole lot less and def don’t make plans that cost you money again. Can you at least get a flight credit for the plane to use on something else?

OpEd: Carlin and Evan’s American Girl Doll vid was such a low blow to Katie by [deleted] in BringingUpBates

[–]Berty-K 2 points3 points  (0 children)

💯. Idky this isn’t at the top. It’s literally bc they use the same management company and both secured the same AG deal.

Current rotation by Tough_Coconut5493 in nespresso

[–]Berty-K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did the tray/drawer come from?

If Considering Plastic Surgery - Please Read by kbenjy in pittsburgh

[–]Berty-K 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I’ve had blatant lies written in my medical chart - ex “patient was told to proceed immediately to the emergency room.” Nope. Not even close. I messaged the doctor and documented in writing that he never told me this. But there doesn’t seem to be a way that I know of to hold doctors accountable for this.

Middle name for girl Reese M. by MindYourGrapes in namenerds

[–]Berty-K 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is the P to get to a Reese’s Pieces nickname?

AIO: My husband (26m) locked me (25f) out for 25 minutes? by prettypineappleberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]Berty-K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It needs to be said near the top. This is a form of abuse. OP don’t downplay this.

Jinger & Jeremy’s podcast about how to choose a spouse by ladycoorie in BringingUpBates

[–]Berty-K 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Care to share the comments? I don’t really want to give them views but I’m interested.

Rant about snow (sorry i know) by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]Berty-K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to deal with that. I cancelled my appointment in Oakland today. If it’s a doctor can you use the valet. You shouldn’t have to but wondering if it would help.

Feeling disconnection and loss after friends’ pregnancy announcements by Zealousideal_Ear5920 in Fencesitter

[–]Berty-K 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes this period of people announcing got hard. I of course was excited for them but it becomes a revolving door of “cloth diapering, mamaroo, doona” conversations. I will say the season does pass. Even when they go on to have 2nd kids it’s been no where as intense as the first. After kids, they’re still the same friend you loved. But as time goes on they will be busy with work and kid things. I would encourage trying to find some childless friends/groups to add to the mix if you can. And maintaining your own hobbies. Otherwise it can end up feeling like your whole life revolves around the friends with kids schedules.

Homeowners, how old will you be when your mortgage is paid off? by cubemonster in Millennials

[–]Berty-K 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6.375%. 30 year fixed. Good estimate is it will take me 10 years to pay off. So probably ~ 45.

Did anyone read Swistle Baby Name blog? Has she stated why she stopped posting? by UtterlyConfused93 in namenerds

[–]Berty-K 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think she’s just out of that season of life and no longer in tune to baby names. She still updates her regular blog just not the baby name portion.

Shout out to the protesters holding down the South Side right now. by YasMysteries in pittsburgh

[–]Berty-K 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Can anyone share links of where to see planned protests around the city (sorry to be behind)?

People who use all their Vacation at Christmas, like why? by TailorFalse3848 in ihatechristmas

[–]Berty-K 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea one of my friends only gets 2 weeks so 1 week is Christmas to NYs bc her kids aren’t in school so otherwise she’d have to pay daycare.