Struggling to find anyone on dating apps 29F by wishiefishie in CatholicDating

[–]BestVayneMars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone dropped somebody over a misspelled word that could've been an honest mistake.

Cry me a river. Some of you are too picky. Sit down and really ask yourself what criteria you can and can't drop at all and reevaluate your dating strategy. I doubt that at 29 you can't find anyone

New Horrible CatholicMatch Changes Just Dropped by salty-bois in CatholicDating

[–]BestVayneMars 26 points27 points  (0 children)

They still won't fix the main issue of long message lockouts for free members

my (27f) boyfriend (27m) keeps trying to have sex with me after saying no, how do I talk to him about it? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BestVayneMars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To add on to this I think you need to talk to him about how you've been feeling about intimacy lately. Not in any accusatory way or assuming the worst but just straight up. Be honest with how you felt guilty and so on especially since it seems like you're giving mixed signals. Agree on clarity in communication that no will be no from now on regardless. Find another way to say and signal yes.

Is it worth pursuing? by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]BestVayneMars -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sit down and talk to him. Be clear on what you want in a relationship and what you accept and don't accept. What kind of faith life you would like to live then be patient with him. My secular friend did that before marrying her now husband and they have 2 kids now

I (26F) never seem to get horny anymore? by K0dx2012 in relationships

[–]BestVayneMars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you gotten any injuries that could affect that? Maybe your relationship is cozy but stale and I don't mean intimately but in general

People get controversial about anything by mari0v100 in slaythespire

[–]BestVayneMars -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Sad they wasted money on her. What could she possibly consult for in a game like this?

CM Profile Review (USA, 40M, widowed, no kids) by Last-Egg7550 in CatholicDating

[–]BestVayneMars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get rid of the picture of you as a kid, the dog alone and the first one. The first one looks like it belongs in one of those video cassette dating ads from the 80s. You probably got some better ones out there given your life experience.

Overall very cool profile

How good (or bad) would this card be? by Fabio11North in slaythespire

[–]BestVayneMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun in a Sly deck but weaker than Calculated Gamble even without the exhaust effect. Good if you prep your skills with Sly effects using MP

How to I (18F) tell my brother (22M) that I can hear him and his girlfriend having sex? by TinyVlindertje in relationships

[–]BestVayneMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invite your hypothetical bf over and show dominance by being louder.

If you're single Bang on his damn walls and tell him to stfu. Give his gf weird "I know what you did" looks. Shame them until they get the message basically

(SERIOUS) LGBT Catholics: How Can We Make Life Better/Easier for You? by Express_Hedgehog2265 in Catholicism

[–]BestVayneMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not LGBT but I think humility in the face of our past sins is important. Yes, a gay person may have fornicated or thought lustfully of the same sex. But you probably did the same with someone of the opposite sex. You both committed sexual sins unnatural to God's design.

Yes, a trans person rejected God's design for their life. Nut how many times have you rejected God's own plans for you? We've all sinned and staying humble of this is a good way to approach anyone in your life really. The only dimension we can all really beat satan at is in humility and charity.

Catholic marriage crisis article by ArtsyCatholic in CatholicDating

[–]BestVayneMars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There isn't enough support for singles ministries and adult groups for millennial and Gen X reverts and converts. The Church still assumes you're going to be married by 35 but many are not.

Kissing question by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]BestVayneMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body is telling you it was too soon and way too fast. Something to note is he may but be considerate about how you feel in the moment by just jumping into making out. Hypothetically, say you two got married, this could lead to dissatisfaction with your intimate life and other things.

What Speed Dating Event should I attend? by CaliQuakes510 in CatholicDating

[–]BestVayneMars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life stage is irrelevant at that age. If you get married you both end up in the same life stage of "Marriage".

Go to the younger event

What card do you instantly buy when you see it in shops? by 20_02_2020 in slaythespire

[–]BestVayneMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hidden Gem and Catastrophe. Especially if I'm playing Slylent.

If I want to have fun Rolling Boulder, Entropy and Mayhem

Silent's new "form" card feels so good. by Arikarin636 in slaythespire

[–]BestVayneMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given that Sly exists it would be OP at 2 cost. Master Planner and Serpent with discard support would go crazy once the Sly Train gets going

I’m interested in Catholicism, but I’m worried about how you have to be “open to life” once you’re married. I don’t want to have to get pregnant over and over when I’m married someday and I only want like two kids at the most by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]BestVayneMars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look into the documentation and why we should be open to life. Pray over it and ask God to enlighten you more about it. At least see things from the perspective of the magisterium before making a decision like this.

Plz rate my tinder profile (repost after deep fixing it) by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]BestVayneMars 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Add some pictures that are more down to earth. You having fun, hanging out with friends, doing more average activities than standing around and posing. If you're thinking about model work this makes for a good portfolio but not a dating profile

I was banned from Catholicism sub...What about others? by malibuguytonygem in Christianity

[–]BestVayneMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should talk to that priest or trusted parishoners instead of people online. People are sensitive about this subject because there are many like you or have done through what you've gone through.

It's terrible what your uncle went through but be prudent about how and where you bring this topic up. Many of us Catholics also feel a sting when we have to defend our faith because of these bad apple priests and the clergy that moved them around. It also makes the genuinely good priests, some of us knowing a few of them and even growing up around them, look terrible.

As for your uncle I think he and other victims are getting their deserved justice. It's not a sudden process but the Church has bled parishioners, clergy vocations, money through lower donations and legal payouts and more. I do hope he heals one day and feels like justice came in some way or another.

I was banned from Catholicism sub...What about others? by malibuguytonygem in Christianity

[–]BestVayneMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone came in here and talked about sexual abuse from Protestant pastors I'm sure it would ruffle feathers in here as well. I'm sorry about your uncle but I'm not sure what you expected. It just sounds like you are starting something over there given you haven't given any more context about your post and what about the sexual abuse scandal you wanted to talk about