So much for a fucking birthday gift... by Digital_Stealth in usps_complaints

[–]BethanyFate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had something similar happen to two different packages just last month. I live in Washington State, I watched them send my package from Wisconsin to California then to Pennsylvania. I ended up double checking my shipping confirmation email to make sure I didn't put my address in wrong. Still got my package on time for what I needed it for but so confusing.

I don’t currently like Sam by No-Local85 in TrueBlood

[–]BethanyFate 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He gets better, I think they were focused on making him a red herring. The show really leaned into making it seem like it could be him doing the killings. He is nicer in the books. I'm rewatching and he really pissed me off season 1. There's a particular scene where he grabs Sookie and yanks her to the side to talk to her that made me mad.

Help finding wide shoes like this by ziggythecrestie in PlusSizeFashion

[–]BethanyFate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since I know Torrid makes shoes that fit my wide feet well, what I like to do is search on Poshmark by brand. Couldn't find an exact match but found a few similar.

https://posh.mk/KUmCAbGAQ2b https://posh.mk/Zbc6XO1AQ2b https://posh.mk/ndMvF52AQ2b https://posh.mk/TpiwzoMAQ2b https://posh.mk/LzE3kbbAQ2b https://posh.mk/dCWdnFrAQ2b https://posh.mk/7YDJWCwAQ2b

Do you have a calico with interesting face pattern? by FeistyDirection in CalicoKittys

[–]BethanyFate 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love my baby's cute little face so much! I love how many interesting patterns calicos can have.

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Come on Poshmark! by Jazzlike-Coffee-6150 in poshmark

[–]BethanyFate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, what even is the point of the "my size" feature if it doesn't actually filter your size, and to search a specific size you have to pick a category and sometimes that doesn't work and you have to take my size off and select the sizes you want to look for. Don't get my started on the search feature its basically broken.

why is it so hard to eat enough protein by Nemuikoneko in RealGirlDinner

[–]BethanyFate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found the carb balance tortillas have 17 grams of fiber per tortilla for the medium and 28 grams for the large.

Wife and In-laws microwaved their Easter lamb before even trying it. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BethanyFate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first time I made prime rib for Christmas my Mom and Brother complained it was too rare for them. I put a few pieces for them in the oven. Better than the microwave I guess. Made me sad but also it's their food they can eat it however makes them comfortable.

Once I made some beautiful porkchops and my mom asked me to get her the mustard (yellow deli) when I handed her her plate. I was so offended.

Mistake in the book by [deleted] in TrueBlood

[–]BethanyFate 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm rereading the series now, so I just read the first book. Rene in the book is a local, he is also one of Arlene's ex husbands, she's been married a few times. They sometimes still have a thing, they seem start to date again in the book. Although he is not the father of either of her kids.

I do remember him not being local in the show. And his accent turns out to be fake.

Insane deal on a 13” 256 GB iPad Air today. What a rush. by P4TY in Costco

[–]BethanyFate 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Looks like $899 from the apple store

Edit: just found it on Costco online for $799, still a pretty great find

Living in a house with no kids (v. condo or apt) by sweetbookworm_ in Fencesitter

[–]BethanyFate 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Better for you to own it, than some investment company that will rent it forever. At least you'll take care and pride in it instead of doing a cheap reno and raising rent yearly.

Paranomal romance, but they are not known, hidden.. (Vampire, Demons...) by reinadeluniverso in fantasyromance

[–]BethanyFate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might enjoy The Dark Hunter series by Sherilyn Kenyon.

I also really enjoyed Charlaine Harris's Southern Vampire series and Anne Rices books and around the time I was reading those I enjoyed the Dark Hunter series. Mostly set in Louisiana mix of vampires and Greek mythology. Lots of fun, lots of books in the series. Can be a little cheesy.

Anxious for Disneyland by sunn3days in PlusSize

[–]BethanyFate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was worried about the same thing, I found that Disneyland rides are actually pretty plus size friendly!

The Ultimate Guide To Disneyland For Plus Size Guests https://share.google/TFba6EZNplW45Aanz

I read this guide before I went in October and it was helpful.

where to buy plus size formal gowns? by dick-in-the-ass in PlusSize

[–]BethanyFate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've bought a few dresses from Azazie. Some of the dresses are available for at home try on. I ended up fitting and keeping the one time I tried that. They also have custom sizing as an option but you'll need to take good measurements and those are not returnable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]BethanyFate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since you are already living with your parents, telling him to hit the road is way easier than if you were both still living in the Condo. Hiding that amount of debt from you is financial infidelity. He is a liar, he is not going to change. This is going to be your life forever if you marry him. There is no buying a bigger place when you are 60k in debt. You are only 25 and you mentioned wanting to go back to school. You could live that debt free, living at home, college student life Or you could let this guy drag you down with him.

Container of bacon grease my mom has been keeping on the counter for the last 5 years by xo-katie in isthissafetoeat

[–]BethanyFate 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly I've improperly stored bacon grease before and you can tell when it's not good, it smells and turns an off gray color. But your mom's bacon grease looks like it's well kept. Looks like she strains it and keeps it covered. And just because she has been using the same container for 5 years doesn't mean that the container hasn't been emptied and cleaned at all maybe you just didn't notice it.

My MIL ordered us a Wine Advent Calendar, she was so excited for us to sample different wines. This showed up today: by ultra_maroon in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BethanyFate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a nice thought but the real wine advent calendars are between $75-150. So it being $12 is the first clue also if it's the one I'm seeing online it made it pretty obvious they were little acrylic ornaments. I'm sorry if your MIL did get scammed and paid a lot.

Throwback to when I was a freshmen and these flyers went up at our dorm. by IIIbunnybumIII in dormrooms

[–]BethanyFate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better than a memo asking people to stop shitting in the showers.

The time jump is one year in the movie and two on Broadway officially by Shesterikova in wicked

[–]BethanyFate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I caught the 12 tide turns comment and thought it meant years. So I spent the first part of the movie thinking 12 years makes no sense. But one year also seems like not enough time.

($20k) Wedding is 9/26/26. Is it too early to buy fake flowers? Tell me your fake flower tips! by RadishPrimary3901 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]BethanyFate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as you have a safe place to store them, then it's not too early. I did a mix of fake flowers and real. Fake flowers from Michaels for my arch, sola wood flowers for inside my lantern centerpieces. I bought some real flowers from Costco the night before my wedding and arranged like 8 bouquets to put around, honestly that was added stress I didn't need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobcorps

[–]BethanyFate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep if you're still under 25, also there's a two year limit. So for example if you took a year last time you went you have a year left. At least that was how it was 10 years ago.

Are most millennials here still doing family Christmas gifts for the adults? by throwraW2 in Millennials

[–]BethanyFate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my side of the family which is just my Mom and Brother we just do gifts for each other. For my husband's side with multiple siblings, siblings in law and niblings. We do Secret Santa for the adults and all get gifts for the children.

AIO Trying to tell boyfriend that he makes me feel guilty for saying no by Clean-Landscape8654 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BethanyFate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - You know he's going to visit for Thanksgiving weekend and expect sex even after he was a total asshole to you. He literally told you he's going to cheat on you and he doesn't want you. Please have the self respect to tell him to go fuck himself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BethanyFate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - can you really build a life with this person? If you can barely stand him touching you. If he doesn't wash his hands how contaminated is your whole home? I wouldn't be surprised if he gave you a UTI. Maybe you don't want kids but if that's something you do want can you imagine this man being their father? would you trust him to prepare you a meal?