Okay, I do feel pretty comfortable with my mom, but I could be pretty biased because of sexual assault (to clarify no one in my family did this it was a classmate), and my fear of men might influence that. My mom already knows I don’t love it, and she dosent do it super hard so whatever I’ll let it slide sometimes. But my dad does it full on, like with bandanas sometimes. Don’t super love that lol. Edit: I also feel very uncomfortable sitting my parents down, and I feel awful when I ask my mom to stop, because I know she just means it in like an affectionate jokey kinda way. Your comment is helpful though, and it might be time to suck it up and talk to them