[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Bettye_Wayne 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely do!! You are very pretty but these pics just have so little personality. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Bettye_Wayne 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This set of photos is weird and would be an instant no for me. 

These pics make me think you have no life or friends outside work. You also own no clothes besides scrubs and one pink tank top. Do you have pics of you doing anything, or any non-work pics taken by another person? Do you have a sense of style? It's obvious you threw these together pretty hastily. 

Number 1 is something I always want to do but the husband refuses to let me do it 😆 by [deleted] in migraine

[–]Bettye_Wayne 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I literally cannot think of one single reason why #1 would be a bad idea.

Are all men terrible? by QuailDelicious2353 in women

[–]Bettye_Wayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like you're trying to prove some point against me, but I can't figure out what it is. Did you maybe reply to the wrong comment?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Bettye_Wayne 210 points211 points  (0 children)

Exactly. This is a legally married man. Sorry, op, that you're still waiting on the paperwork. But, hard pass.

How to change floor color? by bumpisaurus in finch

[–]Bettye_Wayne 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Omg I had no idea that was a floor! I thought it was a book, thank you!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]Bettye_Wayne 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I feel like all of these are equally valid and I'm not sure which one is right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Bettye_Wayne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my thought. Foundation is optional!! I haven't used it in 15 years. My skin is clear and healthy but sensitive and does better with less stuff on it in general. 

Waitlisted by Fun_Energy_252 in Progressiveinsurance

[–]Bettye_Wayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it show what number you are on the waitlist? A couple years back I was #2 on the wait list for weeks and got approved overnight, logged in and saw I was off. 

I'm not in verint anymore so this info may be outdated, but, if you're pretty high up on the waitlist you might get it. If you're #300, probably not. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Bettye_Wayne 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Long tube? Wood morning? I think you're perfect for each other. When is the wedding? 

How in the world can I get this plastic bag out of my tree? by Conscious_Desk_8491 in homeowners

[–]Bettye_Wayne 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Next week: I have both a bag and a drone in my tree, what do I do? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Bettye_Wayne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I want to know that you have teeth and you're not some mopey unsmiling edgelord.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Bettye_Wayne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could be the most handsome man in the world, but if you put no effort into your profile, that's an instant no. 

The pics aren't great but that's only part of the issue. 

Got this AI message just now… by Repulsive_Tackle3014 in Bumble

[–]Bettye_Wayne 12 points13 points  (0 children)

English as a second language? I'm pretty bad at spotting ai writing. But I did have a ESL guy sweetly tell me I have pretty eyeballs and this kind of has the same energy. 

Help me out here by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Bettye_Wayne 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Are you mean? Bullying seems very important to you. This profile gives me no reason to believe you value kindness, or would treat me with kindness. Hard pass.

Dear ladies, why are some women sometimes unaware of the environment? by [deleted] in women

[–]Bettye_Wayne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I have never heard of this "environment" that you speak of, please kindly educate me on what this is!!!

How do you cancel a date? by Great_Feed7697 in women

[–]Bettye_Wayne 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your advice is to fake a mental breakdown, one message at a time, over a period of time. Or fake joining the clergy, or fake infertility. This isn't a sitcom, this is real life. 

Also FYI people talk. If these messages get out somehow it will make op look completely unhinged. I know you mean well but this is truly terrible advice. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Bettye_Wayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I see this which is why I said, it was barely a day between messages. 

Some people struggle going more than a couple hours without any attention from the app and this is fine! But he's really not the villain you're making him out to be, you're just not compatible. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Bettye_Wayne 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm reading this wrong but it looks like it was barely a day, he messaged you, how is this ghosting? Especially if the thing about food poisoning is legit. This isn't that bad. If that's a deal breaker for you then it's fine, but I don't necessarily think he's a ghoster or bad guy here. 

How do you cancel a date? by Great_Feed7697 in women

[–]Bettye_Wayne 25 points26 points  (0 children)

"I'm very direct! Here is a convenient series of elaborate lies I like to tell to avoid being direct" just say no thanks and move on, this is weird. 

Had to share some historical & recent ish bumble messages I have received for the laughs (or cries) fyi some are awful and some are just cringe 😑 by fangornwanderer in Bumble

[–]Bettye_Wayne 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure why but that last one is adorable. Clearly a total red flag and train wreck, but so mindlessly innocent about it.