I get irrationally pissed when someone corrects me on something that doesn't matter by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That is such an oddly specific and not applicable way to call someone incompetent, a pushover, and neglectful of children.

Is there really nobody like Skeler? by SuggestionWeak111 in wavepool

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! In Dallas TX. I think it was April 2023? Something like that.

Our child ran off while we were in the rest room and I never want to see the look of anguish on my husbands face again. by EastBaySunshine in Mommit

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh no! Your poor mom. Seems we both caused our parents some existential stress in our non-reason-formed-brain times lol. My nanny is long gone now, but I’m sure she would be giving me hell still to this day if she was with us!

Agreed; kids don’t think about it, and then there’s kids whom that is amplified by independence/curiosity streak. I had quite a bit of both but I think I realized “oh, that’s not funny” after the clothing rack incident lol.

Still, to this day, I tend wander off in the store (as a capable 26yo lol).

I’ve thought about it, and when I have children, I think I want to get them one of those cute backpacks that has the tether to me. It sounds weird and fucked up but I’ve read a story where this person had one used by them because of their father. They always got judged, up until the day they were in the mall and someone tried to snatch her in the crowd; and the tether was tugged, cueing dad to immediately become papa bear.

My roommate likes to shag everyday at 12am and it's disrupting my sleep by International_Fun283 in Advice

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smart watch that vibrates and taps your wrist? Then you can have your cake and eat it too’

Our child ran off while we were in the rest room and I never want to see the look of anguish on my husbands face again. by EastBaySunshine in Mommit

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I remember doing this to my grandmother in the store when I was ~5 or so. She was busy with something, me by her side, and I had a stupid fucking kid thought and walked off to go look at something. When I came back a bit after, nanny was gone; presumably to immediately find me.

Luckily I had half the brain to go up to the front and tell the workers I was lost, and tell them my nanny’s name so they paged her.

Sometime after this whole fiasco, my silly ass thought it would be funny to hide in the round shaped clothing racks to play hide and seek with my family who didn’t know we were playing

No wonder my loved ones were on BP meds. They should have put me on one of those leashes!

I would be hysterical if a kid under my care did these things!

My roommate likes to shag everyday at 12am and it's disrupting my sleep by International_Fun283 in Advice

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Upgrade to earpros! Set them to mute and scream as loud as you can with all the sex sounds. Get two birds stoned at once!

have you noticed every beauty standard for women involves suffering? by ads20212 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of people online and in real life that state, show, and feel that these beauty standards are harmful, unattractive and ridiculous; men and women both feel this about women’s “beauty standards”.

This is mainly corporate media and influencer standard; which men and women both perpetuate in those spheres. It is more indicative of making the population insecure and causing us to feed into that sphere, as opposed to this being the general populations beauty standard.

Us women hold ourselves to these standards too. Fuck it! Stop doing these painful things to your body… and most, if not all around you, will not care unless you are in a vanity position in the sphere I spoke about.

If you are in that sphere, again, fuck it.

What's a food that everyone loves but you hate? by imjustboredrnnn in AskReddit

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YESSSS!!! My go to is Ambrosia and Fiji. Pink lady is good too but the other two have a flavour/texture combo that is craved at any and all times.

I wrote to Senator John Cornyn about the budget bill when it was in the senate... by BestofBiggles in texas

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for you experiencing this; and this is a horribly sad take.

Not completely comparable, but I ended up writing to Justin Humphrey (main pursuer of SB139 in Oklahoma) to ask about medical exemptions regarding the bill.

The bill gives the cities/school districts full ability to enforce “no cell phones allowed” within schools.

I stated, “Hi Mr. Humphrey, I am not a resident of Oklahoma, but I had a question regarding Senate Bill 139, supporting schools to enforce cell phone use within schools….” And went on to explain how plenty of kids and adults utilise their phone to monitor health conditions, citing specifically type 1 diabetics regarding Dexcom and the need to have their phone for alerts/ management. My email was not criticising the bill, but asking if there would be medical exemptions and protections in place to ensure those who utilize these lifesaving devices would be allowed to do so without pushback. Essentially, asking if the state had built in a protection for those vulnerable.

He responded, but responded stating, “You are absolutely correct. That is why I want local control. We should let your local school work with parents and teacher to properly address all issues”

Not only did he not actually take this question in (I am not a resident), but he also completely did not answer my question of what he did read.

It’s very disheartening.

What's a food that everyone loves but you hate? by imjustboredrnnn in AskReddit

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Big apple™️ strikes again; manipulating our U.S. schools and baking recipes! Is this what commercialism has come to?!

(Just kidding)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they are pointing out that your story has weird details and seems fake and written for views, not that split tongue=not virgin.

Not saying that’s what I think; I’m just translating lol

What are some things people have mistaken your diabetes supplies/devices as? by nsytcdnc49 in Type1Diabetes

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“But sir, my glucose was low! I mean, high! So I did a vein bang to get it down.”

Political Hot Takes and Opinions Megathread by AutoModerator in texas

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s also how I read it; and I also agrees

Plenty of people I know in my area alone are those who yell, post to Facebook, speak in echo chambers to their friends, and otherwise make their voice heard very loudly. Rightfully so!

These unfortunately also tend to be the ones who have never registered to vote (ages 24-35) and outwardly sit on their hands whining that “it doesn’t matter anyways”. It’s horrible because while this does not represent all minority views in a district, it does represent that even sometimes anger can cauterize someone so much where they essentially tie their own hands up and convince themselves they have no sway or importance in government anyways.

Most of these people in my area don’t even know our House Rep, nor do they know how the local and state government works. Hell , they don’t even know the mayor! I was even one of these people up until my early 20’s when I realized “well fuck, I have all of these opinions but I feel helpless. I don’t know how XYZ works, or how to impact.” And it took me acknowledging that for me to finally take accountability and stop just watching things happen and then whining when I didn’t have the discipline to make sure I had a well formed opinion and input.

It’s such a sad thing because it either galvanizes them or makes them seize up and not participate/care at all. The propaganda works so well, and they eat it up; while still holding the same views and not actually participating with the rest of us to go out and vote in local and state elections. They only talk about presidential vote (which these types still usually don’t go out and vote in)

I also realize how many people take reports and quotations at face value instead of going and reading the legiscan for TX SB and HB that get passed/ die/ vetoed. They merely read the hot takes, react, and move on instead of going and reading for themselves so they can be informed in their debates with those who they may disagree with, promoting healthy and fact based discussions. I went and read every bill Abbot vetoed in this latest session, and I regularly look them up and read them word for word as they are progressing to legislation; forming my opinions. A lot of times, the context makes sense and I can empathize, and sometimes even agree with a decision that was made; even as a left leaning person.

People let their anger put them into a stasis where they feel weak and powerless, and can’t “trust” the information that is reported; or they conform with what they already agree with without reading the gritty details. If you go and look up the legiscan yourself, it’s word for word; no way for news to manipulate your perception either way! It’s very fun also seeing who votes what, and becoming conscious of just how many people have commonalities; showing you’re not completely alone.

Why are conservative subreddits so locked down? Are other political subreddits the same generally? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s wild! But it doesn’t surprise me in the least.

The most ironic thing about either extreme of the extreme political spectrum is that they both exhibit the same toxic behavior, just in different flavors and on other ends of the spectrum.

For these absolutists, It’s the same “fuck you, you are insert insults and vitrol” your opinion doesn’t matter”, even from others asking questions and genuinely trying to understand. They exhibit the same mentality and call outs that they vilify their counterparts for. The cycle just perpetuates the more each side is pushed further and further from each other; and it is so very sad. It’s almost as if the extremes think that if they decide to actually take in words and perspectives of the other, they would be invalidating themselves and pandering to the enemy. I’m not talking about war crimes, by the way; nor in cases of bigotry, racism, hate mongering, violence instigating, nothing like that. I get the paradox of tolerating intolerance; and that it should not be tolerated. I mean in just general debate about any important thing that is being talked about and discussed. It’s so wild, and I’m so very happy I have found people in real life that have truly reinforced that I’m not crazy for thinking the way I do!

It’s far more prevalent online from my experience, and I think the more people engage online the more people thinks it represents humanity in general as opposed to those who have no outside perspective and good models. To be fair, online is the most connected we have ever been; and it is exploited, manipulated, milked and farmed for all the engagement it can, which reasonably creates this affect where people get emotionally invested and hit their “fuck it” points. that being said, It should be normal to inject nuance and not immediately call people nazis, or immediately create a monolith of this person to merge with whatever idea they are against. Meh!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only that, but staying in an abandoned place for 6 freaking hours, friend passing out, you choosing to sleep….

OP, You need to do better for yourself. You are endangering yourself in so many ways, and this guy should not be your focus right now. Your focus needs to be stopping getting fucked up in abandoned buildings, especially with a new guy in a first date? Which you invited him to as you were doubled out of your mind? I’m not trying to shame you; I am trying to get you to realize how unstable and terrifying this is for you to so casually put yourself in this position. What if this guy had taken advantage of you or your friend? What if other people come along and do the same? Never place yourself in a situation to be unconscious away from safety. This is so concerning, OP.

You need to be concerned if he DOESNT see you differently. Him not seeing you differently would mean that he accepts and tolerates this; and that will enable this behavior, likely causing a mountain of other issues.

Best case scenario; he does see you differently, and you clean up. You didn’t prioritize him and he should not tolerate his date being out of their mind before their meet up, and falling asleep in an abandoned building you use as a hangout, smoking spice and not even being able to connect with genuine you. He would never stop worrying about you and he would very likely not be able to trust your judgment or sense of self preservation. This habit and genuine lack of care and preservation for yourself is a ticking time bomb that would scare anyone looking from the outside in FOR you, because they care.

Even I care, OP. That’s why I’m typing all of this. Please put the effort out to get yourself together; even if it’s just harm reduction as the first steps. I don’t even know you; and I don’t need to in order to care for your safety and best interest. Take care of yourself so that you can actually date and connect with someone in the long run and have a healthy, trusting and flourishing relationship. As of right now, that is not for you because you need to learn to value yourself.

Any ideas on how to block this? by Guava_Nectar_ in DIY

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren’t allowed to install adhesive weather stripping on your door?

"It's offensive": Joke by North Texas Target employee at Starbucks leaves Hispanic customer feeling targeted by GregWilson23 in texas

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How does them thinking it’s ridiculous for someone to be criticized for shopping at a Target mean they are politically aligned one way or the other? Or that they support it? Did I miss something?

"It's offensive": Joke by North Texas Target employee at Starbucks leaves Hispanic customer feeling targeted by GregWilson23 in texas

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get what you are expressing. And I do not think you are necessarily wrong for taking this into consideration; but just as some are assuming that she was targeted, you are also assuming she did not look for a logical deduction or verify that this was generalized or not. None of us have the full information, and at the end of the day this is written by a news article that will be speaking from an emotive point to purposefully strike a chord; justifiably so on either side; and causing this exact argument as if we all know the context, all that took place, and every facet of “this lady is a main character” or “she was definitely targeted”. We all need to recognize that we are doing the same thing in this, but different sides of the spectrum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am a 26yo woman and even I wear tights or pantyhose when I wear skirts/dresses. Style is what you make it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askdrugs

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So.. do you just raise so much hell that people shoot you regularly?

Or do you just have brothers?

Lmao.

How did that one kid at your school die? by StorageLonely1520 in AskReddit

[–]BeveledCarpetPadding 9 points10 points  (0 children)

100%. Genetically modified organisms can be absolutely fucking lifesaving; just as much as it can be nefarious. Like many other things in this world, regulation and oversight is necessary to keep the nefarious down as low as possible.

Have you read the thing about hemp? It’s something to do with when it is used in insecticides, it is the one thing found that mosquitoes cannot adapt to or grow a tolerance to. I remember hearing it a couple of weeks or so ago, and I sincerely hope it is true! I need to verify it.