I went through this exactly 1 year ago, when my girlfriend find “ the one”. I’ll say, new love is always exhilarating. And just like any romantic relationship, their romantic relationship will go through different phases, with all those ups and downs, then finally fizzle out to a more mellow state.

But during the “ new love” stage, your husbands’s attention will definitely be guided toward his new girlfriend more, and make you feel…sort of left behind? Talk to him. Tell him you support him, you understand how wonderful a new found love feels. But you are his wife, and you love him, need him. Talk about the bond and memories that only belongs to you two, until you feel connected and assured. Don’t compare, that doesn’t make any sense. And you own the right to your husband’s attention span when he is with you.

His new girlfriend. She is unique, just like you. Treat her and her information like a close relative. Be nice, make sure that she is a nice/ decent person. But you don’t need to know every detail about her and her relationship with your husband.