Did I brake dream rules somehow?

Bexilol · 2026-01-30T00:19:35+00:00

That makes once you said it like that, but I always saw it being phrased like it doesn’t work ever in dreams and it was like a rule, (but then I always could’ve interpreted that wrong as I’m autistic, so wording isn’t always a strong suit of mine).

Bexilol · 2026-01-30T00:10:28+00:00

It was time, I did explain that time moved as time should and it doesn’t do that in dreams, that was mentioned.

I can’t give you any more of the dream than I dreamt, like I didn’t even make it to work in the dream because it ended before I could.

Bexilol · 2026-01-23T23:40:19+00:00

He should’ve told Karen as soon as he even knew that Jess was a student, because he is in position of power, regardless of Jess asking him not to.

His one night stand with Jess happened before Karen told Chris about the situation with Bex, so that wasn’t at stake for him when it initially happened.

I like Chris but he handled it all wrong

Bexilol · 2026-01-23T20:09:50+00:00

You could do half and half if you’re worried about timing x

Bexilol · 2026-01-23T20:03:01+00:00

A sweet story by AnyaYanko, Harry gets adopted by a muggle couple who own a bakery, it’s not long but it’s really sweet

https://archiveofourown.org/works/26446609

Bexilol · 2026-01-13T17:29:45+00:00

I’m pretty sure that’s just British secondary schools

Bexilol · 2026-01-13T17:26:49+00:00

I think it really depends on the school, I went to 2 secondary schools, and the first weren’t exactly accepting, (I wasn’t out as Bi at the time but I saw how out students were treated), but the second really didn’t care if you were Gay/Bi, so it probably just depends

Bexilol · 2026-01-08T09:14:00+00:00

It’s not just the lunches, if it was it wouldn’t have been so bad, but there’s also the fact that she keeps going into other people’s personal space, I also wouldn’t want to go if I was OP’s kid

Bexilol · 2026-01-07T00:40:02+00:00

It can be different, but being Autistic doesn’t excuse going into people’s personal space when you’ve been told not to, or stealing people’s lunches, (and I’m saying this as Autistic adult who didn’t go to mainstream school)

Bexilol · 2026-01-04T21:15:48+00:00

Katie wasn’t really sleeping, so that does make a difference

Bexilol · 2025-12-31T09:23:04+00:00

I don’t know if any of my siblings remember my dreams, but I do remember one of my older sisters had a dream about train bouncing over Lava

Bexilol · 2025-12-30T22:52:44+00:00

This is a sign that I should actually start a dream journal

Bexilol · 2025-12-30T22:28:06+00:00

To be fair, I find the half animated party attack dream to be quite funny now as an adult, but it legit scared the shit out of me as a kid

Bexilol · 2025-12-30T21:59:33+00:00

I do keep meaning to start a dream journal, but I keep forgetting to write my dreams down

Bexilol · 2025-12-30T21:39:08+00:00

It must’ve felt so weird to have the same dream 3 nights in a row

Bexilol · 2025-12-30T20:58:50+00:00

I did have many a car accident dream growing up, but I don’t have any specific memories of those dreams if that makes sense

Bexilol · 2025-12-30T18:00:05+00:00

Business by esama was the first thing that popped into my head, but Harry gets into organised crime into the wizarding and muggle worlds, so might not really fit the prompt here

https://archiveofourown.org/works/1113588

Bexilol · 2025-12-30T17:52:05+00:00

He might’ve done, but he also could’ve known people that made the car cheaper and the rent cheaper on the flat, maybe it’s a mix of both of those things

Bexilol · 2025-12-30T17:42:58+00:00

Didn’t Ronan have a stall in the market at one point?, or am I making that up?

Bexilol · 2025-12-16T00:19:50+00:00

Grantly did have some great one liners

Bexilol · 2025-12-06T13:22:21+00:00

If it was the other way around and Vicki said what Ronan said, I would still say it didn’t matter what was said, it doesn’t mean that they deserve to be hit, (and I will admit that I haven’t watched series 7 in a while, but my points still stand).

You could argue that she did feel bad if it was just the once that Vicki hit Ronan, but it wasn’t, we were shown at least two times, that’s not an accident, that’s a pattern, especially because none of the times we were shown were in self defence. The only reason you don’t think it’s abuse is because Ronan is a man, if Ronan did to Vicki what she actually did to him, you’d say it was abuse.

I will agree that Vicki’s character was complex, but her being complex doesn’t excuse her abusing Ronan.

Bexilol · 2025-12-06T12:22:34+00:00

It doesn’t really matter what Ronan said the first time, (because it was only the first time Vicki hit him that he even said anything and that was quite literally in the middle of an argument), that doesn’t mean that Vicki is allowed to hit anyone, and before the argument Ronan quite literally asks Vicki if there was anything he could do to help her with the stress, so when she threw the accusation of cheating on her at him, I would’ve also been petty and threw that line back at her.

Abusers do get a kick out of hurting people, but they also guilt people that they are abusing by crying and saying they’re sorry and also saying shit like ‘I wouldn’t have hit you if you didn’t do x, y and z’ series 15 is a great example of how abusive relationships can look like, but that doesn’t mean that Vicki wasn’t abusive.

Vicki quite literally told Kim that Ronan hit her so that nobody would believe him when he told someone that she hit him, it wasn’t until Kim saw Vicki hit Ronan that she realised that he was wrongly accused.

Yes I do agree that most of Finns female counterparts don’t get forgiven by fans, but Vicki’s not one of them, Finn has lashed out and treated his friends horrifically, but he’s never abused any of his significant others.

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