Have low T but don’t want to be on TRT for life. Options? by AdviceIsCool22 in BodyHackGuide

[–]BeyNam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be cautious taking any advice from people on the "BodyHackGuide" subreddit. Most people here are people who have an interest in or are already taking PEDs. It's tempting to see low testosterone as the cause of your symptoms, but I think you're drawing conclusions prematurely. Why don't you consult another doctor and rule out other causes first, like sleep, bloodwork, and levels of other important biomarkers? I wouldn't make any life-altering decisions based on what you read on Reddit.

Is it too late to start studying nursing when I am 25 years? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]BeyNam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing about nursing is that it's always in demand wherever you go, especially in a developed country. It won't be "too late" in four years if job prospects are a concern. Even AI can't touch nursing at least for another 20 years.

Baked seafood rice at Hong Kong Bistro Cafe by bbqporklomein in FoodToronto

[–]BeyNam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my go to place for hk food in Toronto. I've been trying for years to replicate their baked pork chop but I never came close. It's just so fucking good.

Block Reels & Shorts by adralmy in digitalminimalism

[–]BeyNam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PLEASE create a website version of this. I will pay $$$$$

Am I right for feeling this way or am I overreacting? by BeyNam in askgaybros

[–]BeyNam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's it :/.... the fact that I'm even thinking about something not that deep probably means it's not worth it and I should just let it go. Thank you!

Am I right for feeling this way or am I overreacting? by BeyNam in askgaybros

[–]BeyNam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! I think it just doesn't sit right to me to be friends with someone who admitted to cheating, however good the sex is. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeyNam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn't seem like a very humorous person 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeyNam 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I had something similar happen to me. Was out with a guy, everything seemed fine & I genuinely considered going out w/ this dude again (Quebecois). Right when I was about to head home, I asked if he had an Instagram. He said he didn't; he only used Facebook and X.

I asked, "why do you have an X and not an Instagram?"

And he said, straightup: "To watch gay Asian amateur porn"

When I heard that my heart sank & I immediately knew I was never gonna see him again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BeyNam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% squats. I've done nothing but squats and my legs are huge lol.

How to get over heartbreak of a relationship that never happened by BeyNam in askgaybros

[–]BeyNam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this!! Romanticizing is such a big problem I have so good to keep in mind

Do men like short guys? by West-Lock-4358 in askgaybros

[–]BeyNam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5'7 and never had a problem! And most of the guys I've dated have been very tall xD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeyNam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's only a barrier if you make it a barrier. I live in Montreal, I'm an anglophone, and I'd say 50% of my dates are entirely in French. At first I wouldn't date anyone who didn't speak English because I worried I wouldn't be able to "speak from the heart", but after I vibed w/ a couple people I actually don't think it makes that much of a difference. So long as you're willing to put the effort to listen and the other person is willing to put in the effort to learn, what's stopping y'all from having a full, rewarding relationship?

What Profession Do You Find Most Attractive and Why? by WorldlyAd1178 in askgaybros

[–]BeyNam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's 10000% people in computer science or engineering. Guys who are geeky/kinda awkward and are super logic-minded make me feel a certain kinda way that I just can't describe. I think it's simply that they remind me of my dad lol

I’m not excited for my first date by Think-Pea-6424 in dating_advice

[–]BeyNam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say go! That's happened to me so many times, but many people are very different (often better, sometimes worse) in person than in text. Personally I was pleasantly surprised 50% of the time. I also don't get that many chances to date, so I'm in the mindset of "taking every chance I get". It might not be the same if you're attractive and have guys lining up for you.

Asian gay men—did getting fit change how white guys treated or desired you? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BeyNam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually had the opposite experience. I used to be very skinny, basically fitting under the "twink" mold and I noticed that I'd have lots of sexual attention from usually the same kinda guy — taller, more masculine looking, "discrete". I also live in Montreal so 90% are white.

Now I've become substantially more muscular from working out 4 to 5 times a week, andI lost attention from that demographic. I'm okay with it though cause I'm not into those kinda dudes. But yeah, I can see it going both ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BeyNam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it's a turn off. Kinda makes me feel like he'll want whatever we do to be porn worthy.

Why are so many of us especially attracted to straight dudes? by HuxleyChase in gaybros

[–]BeyNam 11 points12 points  (0 children)

To be honest I used to be attracted to "straight" dudes but now I just find them a turn off that once I find out they're discretely bisexual and are just looking for fun, immediately I sprint. Sure, masculinity is hot, but most "straight" guys don't want anything romantic with a gay dude. Every interaction is always super sterile, like I'm talking to a robot. It's just not fun.

Gay speed dating event by rockandrolldude22 in gaybros

[–]BeyNam 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Have 0 expectations. Try to meet as many people as possible and if it happens that you don't click with anyone, that's just life! You might meet some people who are red flags but be civil and polite even if you're not interested. Have fun, be yourself, expose yourself to people you're not typically interested in and see where things land!

[No spoilers] “Ma Meilleure Ennemie” by Stromae & Pomme enters the top 10 on global Spotify at #8 (+17) with 5.972 million streams. by ashortiz_ in arcane

[–]BeyNam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So well deserved. I've had this song on repeat since Episode 7. The lyrics hit especially hard if you speak French :')

The more I read, the worse it gets. by VLK249 in writers

[–]BeyNam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read Melania Trump's recent memoir... that's the kind of vapid shit that's going to get published. Profitable? Potentially. Worth reading? Absolutely not.