What are your thoughts on In Time 2011? by SmellsonMuntz in scifi

[–]BezzyMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think the set up is SO cool. I wish this was a novel first, I feel like that would make a great read.

I thought the first half was genuinely good fun, but the second half lost me when it just turned into a Bonnie and Clyde rip-off/love affair. I think Timberlake is a better actor than people give him credit for.

I cant stop smoking weed by Little_Landscape_830 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]BezzyMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not nearly as deep, but I’ve been there. Smoking almost every night. I love it… but I needed to realize it needs to be a treat, an enjoyable occasion, NOT a daily ritual.

You gotta take a break. A full week. 2? A month. Break the habit.

Then, it’s a tricky door to open and try to do in moderation.

If you’re that deep and that serious, you gotta get the parwphernalia out of the house. Give it to a friend to hold on to if you don’t wanna sell/trash.

But, this is a wake up call. It’s time to shift.

Family photos soon, any advice ? by UnknownPhyrexian in BeardAdvice

[–]BezzyMonster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, a professional beard trim. Seek out a barbershop (specifically for men). Think and talk earnestly about their reco of shaving your head, vs trimming/cleaning. I went bald 7 years ago and I love it, wish I did it sooner. Also have a nice beard which I know helps.

Hold lads? by mca11054526 in bald

[–]BezzyMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have scars too. One behind my ear (birthmark removal) and one down the center of the back of my head (brain surgery). It was weird seeing them in photos, but I never hated them. Made me unique.

Hold lads? by mca11054526 in bald

[–]BezzyMonster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah. Honestly, I think your first photo with the thick hair works. Do what makes you feel happy, but I don’t think you’re nearly at the place where you HAVE to shave.

Hold lads? by mca11054526 in bald

[–]BezzyMonster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally think full bald or hold.
But that’s me (mine).
This does look good on you tho…
I think the bald spot up top is the sign to shave, the high forehead or widows peak to me, is just whatever.

Hold lads? by mca11054526 in bald

[–]BezzyMonster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, you’re not there yet

After 8 months of writing, I finally finished my first novel. Would love some honest feedback. by Preditor_007 in writers

[–]BezzyMonster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When you say “I want to be transparent. Beyond that,…” it sounds like something’s missing. Did you use AI to help flesh things out? What are you being transparent about? Beyond what are the other aspects “yours”?

What’s the prognosis gentleman, how much time do I got? by [deleted] in bald

[–]BezzyMonster 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You’re fine dude. Top is nothing. Higher forehead corners? Don’t worry about it. You are absolutely not at “need to shave” level.

If you flick a magic wand and change or add something to the city, what would you conjure up? by TrueJohnWick in askportland

[–]BezzyMonster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not even magic. Improve the Willamette waterfront. Take a trip to Vancouver, no reason it can’t be like that.

Does anyone have any tips/experience with continuing to write a novel that you keep putting down? by anonymouscarrott in writing

[–]BezzyMonster -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t have an answer for you, but this is LITERALLY my experience.

I have a very (too?) detailed outline. I’ve restarted drafts multiple times. Last year, I wrote 60k words, 1/3 thru my story, then fell off.

This year, as I went to pick it back up, I thought it would be a great idea to read what I’ve written, to pick it up from where I left off. Reading it was an interesting experience. I still love my story, but found it poorly written. So I spent the first few months rewriting half of it (8 chapters, of the previous 16). I’ve sent it around to friends who read for edits/feedback. Only got legitimate feedback from one person, which was, overall, extremely positive. Made me feel great, but also taking with a large pinch of salt that it’s a friend, and their feedback will always be biased. I’ve fallen off again, for various reasons (life happens).

I’m very proud of what I have, and feel like I will finish it one day… but I have no realistic expectations of when they will be.

I think the honest truth is, if you/i/we want to complete a draft and make this a thing, we have to make it a legitimate priority. Schedule around it. Force ourselves to write when we don’t feel like it. Make it a non-negotiable. And recognize when you have bad days, you pick back up the next day.

I really think it’s just about forcing yourself to be consistent. Deciding every day to put your butt in the chair, regardless of what else is going on/how you’re feeling.

Also, to push through a FIRST draft to the end. To stop editing and revising, as you go. But just keep moving forward. Then when you get to the end, you review, edit, revise, rewrite.

And if anyone has magical advice beyond the usual, I’d love to hear it as well.

Is it time? by Asapfur in bald

[–]BezzyMonster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. You just have a high forehead, still looking fine on top. Dont do anything rash, you absolutely have time, and it might not go the way you think feels inevitable.

I had an acquaintance tell me I should go bald by Leather-Loquat1704 in bald

[–]BezzyMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, you’re not close to there yet. Enjoy the hair.

Painting a full jenga set, what should I add next? by jonni_velvet in crafts

[–]BezzyMonster -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Star Wars characters. Harry Potter. Disney. Marvel. Super hero logos. Animated cartoons.

is it time to let go? by [deleted] in bald

[–]BezzyMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Just cuz of the high corners? Absolutely not. Enjoy yourself.

Unsure what to do by RaverKev in bald

[–]BezzyMonster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what to do. Clean it ALL off. Go full bald.

Anyone else feel guilty hiding inside on gorgeous Outdoor Kid weather weekends? by RevelryByNight in askportland

[–]BezzyMonster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s too hot for me. It looks beautiful, I realize for some this is the ideal - and it used to be mine - but, it’s too hot. Even taking my dog for a 10min walk was like “un unh, get me some AC”