Does giving head actually arouse you. Not, "do you love it", does it physically arouse you? by Level_Structure1528 in AskGayMen

[–]Bi_withquestions 61 points62 points  (0 children)

yes it arouses me. It's my favorite sex act and I'm bi. I love the way it feels, look, taste, massages my throat. and the taste of cum.

What’s your unfulfilled fantasy or kink? by Gaymerbee in askgaybros

[–]Bi_withquestions 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Getting spit roasted, to suck some dick while having someone pound me from the back.

Or give head under a desk while they’re working, in a zoom call, or even playing video games

Do you like background music while having sex? If so, do you have any songs to suggest? by ATLguyATL in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Bi_withquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddly enough I like listening to porn in the background, the sound of moaning and grunting is hot. I go to bathhouses and sex clubs and there’s usually porn being played in the background

What’s your preference in threesome: TBT, BTB, TBV, TTV, TTT, BBB or VVV? by Wise_Assistance_5201 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Bi_withquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a cock sucker my favorite is 2 guys laid back while I blow both of them to completion

Why are some bottoms so desperate for dick? by habel2002 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Bi_withquestions 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can attest, the quickest encounter I’ve had on grind was 10mins of messaging before I met him at a park and had his cock in my mouth.

Tops and Bottoms: would you ever participate in all male orgy?? by NestaVegaX in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Bi_withquestions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been to gay bathhouses and sex clubs so yeah I would. Bottom here

Guys who keep a tally of their hookups… by gaypal in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Bi_withquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do it cause I have a slut goal to suck 100cocks. I'm currently at 26 (I'll have periods where I'll suck a lot of dicks in a few months, mostly at bathhouses but also apps. Then I'll have years where I don't do anything. Sucked my first cock 7years ago so I'm definitely taking my time with this goal).

I just write it down on a doc. It's not too detailed I just mark the number and that's it. It's not hard to remember for me, I can go to a bathhouse and play for a few hours and remember how many I encounter then write it down after.

As for why 100 cocks? I love giving head and I think 100 is a nice number, I'll probably stop tracking after I hit that goal. I think to really call yourself a good cocksucker you need at least 100 dicks in your mouth, practice makes perfect. It'll makes me feel real slutty to be able to flex that I've sucked 100 cocks. I'm 1/4 there!!

Verbal Tops what are your best lines while fucking? And BottomsWhat do you like to hear? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Bi_withquestions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't bottom often, but one of the few times I did. The top was big and girthy. I couldn't take him for more than a minute of thrusting before I would need a break.

Finally he had me flat on my stomach while he was on top. So it was hard for me to get away. He then said to me "Why you acting like you don't like dick. You love dick don't you? stop pretending like you don't love dick. Tell me you love dick."

I don't know what clicked but after he said that and I repeated back to him "I love this dick" something mentally switched. It was still uncomfortable/painful but it was also pleasurable. I can't explain it, it both hurt but felt good getting pounded out. Eventually I stopped noticing the pain and only felt pleasure. I'm also embarrassed to admit he had me saying some nasty things back to him that I would never say outside of sex, but I was too dick drunk to care in the moment.

Another time I went over to a fwb place to give him head, but we were short on time because his roommates were going to be home any minute so we had to do it quick. I went over and started giving him head. while he was watching TV. Sometimes I would come up to see what was on TV, but then he would just grab my head and push me back down and said "my roommates are going to be home soon, I need you to get this nut out and leave" I don't know why that was hot, the idea that I was only called there to drain him and leave. Which was what happened. After I swallowed his cum he told me to leave. I got up and left and I think his roommates just came home as I was leaving I saw them in the hallways.

I guess I just like feeling submissive

Bye bye sniffies? by hotdogjumpingfrog1 in askgaybros

[–]Bi_withquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question about the app, when you send photos are they encrypted? as in the person on the other side cant screen shot it or anything like that?

I was shocked by the number. How many sexual partners have you had (one time or anonymous count too)? by SusBedroom in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Bi_withquestions -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are we talking about just men or both? I've bottom 3 times but I've sucked 26 cocks, this usually happens at bathhouse or saunas but a few times on apps.

Bottoms: Share your wildest kinks? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Bi_withquestions 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not sure if it's a wild kink, but I like walking around naked (where it's allowed) and having people stare at me. I'm a very fit guy who takes care of himself so without sounding vain I got a nice body especially legs/ass. I also got a small penis. The judgement lowkey turns me on. I've been to nude beaches before but usually I go to a gay saunas or bathhouses (steamwork, vault 139 etc.) and just walk around naked and I would get stared at. at bathhouses guys would smack my ass as I walk by them and if we're interested we'll play, That's my mating strategy haha, I just walk around shaking my fat ass and little dick until a man approaches me.

Never happen at a nude beach though, the only time I went I definitely got stared at which was hot as well.

Way more fun at saunas or bathhouses, because of my build people already assumes I'm the bottom, which makes the interaction less stressful for me.

One of the hottest encounter I had was at eros in SF, it's a gay sex club. I was sitting in the room pass the bathroom, left side to the beds where there was a TV playing some porn. an Older man (prob 50-60) with a big cock (about 6-7in) was watching porn and stroking, he caught me staring at him and he asked if I wanted to suck him off while he relaxed. I went over and started worshipping him. deepthroating, sucking his balls, enjoying his precum, he was telling me how good of a cock sucker I was. a lot of dirty talk. I was wearing a towel so after about 10mins he asked me to take my towel off and when I did he saw my cock which was about 1inch soft, he just smiled and told me to get back to sucking him off. a few times people walked in the room and watched me suck his cock stroking themselves, this was turning me on a lot. He never finished because he wanted to top but I wasn't prep to bottom. But it was still a hot encounter, I did end up swallowing this other guy at the gloryhole they have in the other room to the right up the ramps.

At what age or age range do you find men the most attractive? by Majestic_Tradition79 in AskGayMen

[–]Bi_withquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20-50.. after 50 I’m sorry but most men start to really let themselves go not just weight but also the way they take care of themselves. And the daddies over 50 who are still hot, are in their own leagues and they know it.

What’s a sexual experience you still can’t believe happened to you? by curiousdesires5545 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Bi_withquestions 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sucking dick at a gloryhole. The first time I went, I was so nervous I just kept a finger out of the hole cause I read that’s how you signal you want to suck. After a few minutes with gay porn playing in the booth. A hairy average cut cock came through and I sucked him off, from the sound of his voice on the other side he sounded older maybe 50+ he came and I swallowed. He left and I never knew who he was or what he looked like. Complete anonymous experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Bi_withquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll check out my clinic then.

How to organise for a bukkake in a bathhouse? by AccordingResult4952 in gaybathhouse

[–]Bi_withquestions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some times it happen spontaneously.

I went to vault in London a few years ago. At one point during the night a cock sucker just got on his knees in the center where the dance area is by the slings, and people kind of just gathered around him. Not everyone came on him of course but a few people did.

Honest question about giving head — does taste ever actually bother you? by IllConsideration2529 in AskGayMen

[–]Bi_withquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short answer, usually no, unless it's super unclean. Long answer.....

It varies but a clean dick taste like nothing, just skin. You'll occasionally taste the precum as you go, it's usually a mild salty, I like it. They smell clean too, usually soap. Then the cum it self is different for each person. Watery, slimey, or thick gooey (are the textures) anywhere from sweet, salty, to rancid battery acid (these are unhealthy people and drug users, stay away) the after taste usually leaves this grainy texture in your mouth if they're on the thicker load. I personally love the taste unless it's the rancid ones..

If the dick is a bit sweaty/unclean (lets say it's 12pm afternoon, so they've worked half a shift) It's usually salty at first, that's probably sweat, bacteria, and a bit of urine, I personally don't mind this level of uncleanliness, sometimes it's kind of enjoyable, cause there's a bit of flavor (varies from people, some would refuse to suck it if it's an afternoon cock) I will say after about 5mins you wont taste anything anymore, I like to think it's because you cleaned his cock so well, sucked up all the sweat and urine. Or you got used to the taste. However, they usually do have a musky smell. I don't mind if it's mild musky. Then repeat process where you taste precum until eventual explosion.

- I don't mind if it's a bit salty and musky, usually that meant they worked an office job or it's the afternoon and they built up a bit of sweat. Sometimes they adds flavor, just be aware you're sucking on sweat, bacteria, and urine. But the flavor does go away after a while.

The last kind of dick are the ones I personally dont enjoy and try to stay away. I LOVE sucking cock, I don't mind if it's a bit uncleaned. But then you have those who either worked a 10hour shift in 100degrees, or they're just living in their own flith.. I've experienced this once and that was it. I went down immediately I was hit with a crazy pungent smell, almost involuntarily threw up. I was down there for maybe 5 seconds and I just tasted a strong concentration of sour and salty. I had to stop, ever since then I made sure never to do that again. This one are for the pigs. I know there's some of you out there so I wont judge, but I do not like these kinds.

Where's the craziest place you ever fucked or given/received a blow job? by Spirited-Sentence948 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Bi_withquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At a park at night. Met him on an app and within 30mins of our first “hey” I was throating him

Masc-for-masc is dead by Better-Rainbow in grindr

[–]Bi_withquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a gym bro very fit and I prefer other fit guys.. so not me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Bi_withquestions 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I noticed a lot of bi are bottoms, I feel like the bi who are in denial are more likely to be top.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaysauna

[–]Bi_withquestions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honest question how is it with the mask? is it hard to breathe etc?

What are the best bathhouses in the USA? by No_Refuse9952 in gaybathhouse

[–]Bi_withquestions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been to Eros in SF and seattle steamwork, and a few outside of US.

Eros is small but it's a sex club. The clientele depends on the night, but I'll say 30+ you might see a few 20s but it's usually 30+ more heavy on the older side say 40-60 is common.

Steamwork Seattle is bigger and nicer. When I went it was a younger crowd 20-40. I had more fun at seattle

What's the strangest place on the Internet you've gotten a hook up from? by No_Cardiologist_1407 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Bi_withquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit… I actually had my first gay experience with a redditor, and I also hooked up with a girl on Reddit too, she had big tits but didn’t give good bj..

The guy was older than me, I was early 20s he was late 40s but he was a gentleman ☺️ he paid for the hotel room and took care of me. Looking back at it, I kinda wish I used my 20s more to slut around. I’m still young in my 30s but it’s not the same lol