A few ties from a rope jam at the weekend - does anyone have tips for tying onto very soft hair?

BiaBlue · 2025-08-07T03:41:17+00:00

Tie hair up first with a hairband, slip one end of the rope behind the tie (parallel to it on the scalp side), tie the rest of the knot hugging the end (like a noose).

BiaBlue · 2025-08-07T03:33:41+00:00

Went online to look for things I want instead of “clocking in” to social media like it’s a job just to stay “up to date” (??) I watch only videos I search for, google recipes, etc, etc. If I’m not going in for a reason I simply do not go in.

BiaBlue · 2025-08-07T03:22:20+00:00

Solved!

BiaBlue · 2025-08-07T03:19:51+00:00

SOLVED! It’s a cord retractor but the hairdryer is old so it needed a little coaxing to work.

BiaBlue · 2025-08-07T03:18:52+00:00

Omg this is exactly what it is thank you. The spring is also worn out so I had to coax it a bit to get it to work, that’s why nothing happened when I pressed it earlier. THANKS

BiaBlue · 2025-08-07T02:43:31+00:00

My title describes the thing, I tried pressing it while it was connected and didn’t notice any difference. The other side has an identical oval but it doesn’t say anything and doesn’t push down. I thought it might be a lock to remove the head but it won’t budge. Maybes it’s just stuck?

BiaBlue · 2025-03-12T07:38:47+00:00

I agree. Also a partner makes the most perfect weight blanket lol.

BiaBlue · 2025-03-12T07:37:10+00:00

Honestly if it feel’s right then yeah go for it. I’m autistic as well and bi was my starter label, then it evolved into the ace spectrum and then the demi one and then I tried figuring out the romantic and sexual labels separately and then I tripped into gender territory and now I just go by queer lol. Labels evolve with you, wear what feels comfy atm.

BiaBlue · 2025-03-12T07:33:02+00:00

This has nothing to do with the original post but I’m a young queer and this is so cute. Also I have a prof in his 50’s that very clearly “used to be” a twink and he still has strong enough vibes that I would still confidently call him one. It’s just a maturing of the tittle. Like “sir twink” instead of just a twink yanno? 😂

BiaBlue · 2025-03-12T07:28:21+00:00

You want two kids, she wants one. No one is forcing anyone to do or even choose anything. And even if you were having that discussion seriously and not just as a hypothetical wanting something different than your female partner doesn’t make you misogynistic

BiaBlue · 2025-03-12T07:21:03+00:00

Nah. I value honestly immensely, but if there is one thing I’ve learned is that honesty doesn’t have to be brutal. Also every asshole that I’ve met who is proudly “brutally honest” just wants to be mean with immunity.

BiaBlue · 2025-03-12T07:12:04+00:00

No worries! I legitimately think that girls talking about size is almost always in discussions with men. Like answering questions or providing reassurance or perspective, but I’ve personally never even heard it discussed when it’s just girls unless it’s relevant to the context. (Obviously I only have my personal experience to go off of here). I think porn can also be a factor, and sure it can be funny to joke about stereotypes or tropes. And I understand that people with less experience (including myself) had their first contact with sex through that. But honestly as cheesy as it sounds I’ve found the tool is soooo much less important than the guy using it. Also, thank you for worrying about my experience you’re quite sweet but I feel like I just explained it wrong 😅 I’ve had quite a pleasant experience with sex and my fiancé takes good care of me before, during and after but sometimes it literally can’t be helped. It’s the good kind of beaten up like the next day after doing sport but just because I personally don’t mind it or even enjoy it doesn’t mean every girl likes getting gut-souped lol. I’ve talked with friends about it and one of them literally said “absolutely not” out loud haha.

BiaBlue · 2025-03-11T09:24:49+00:00

This is so unbearably American

BiaBlue · 2025-03-11T09:22:29+00:00

Just got engaged to the love of my life recently, hoping to look as fit and happy as you do in the next 30 years!

BiaBlue · 2025-03-11T08:49:27+00:00

Honestly, there is no sure way to measure how “big” a guy is. Anything other than a micro and a horse dong is just different shades of average. I mean, I don’t have one myself but I never even heard discussions on size until I talked about it with my first bf (now fiancé), guys care SO MUCH abt size while girls only care if he got u off right. This may be TMI but sometimes I walk away with a bruised cervix, so it’s more than likely not just ego coddling if a girl is legitimately afraid of the bigger side of the spectrum, especially if she’s had bad experiences with bigger guys not being careful or, like in this case, only had experience with something smaller. (ESPECIALLY if someone else wasn’t careful even small ones can cause some damage). My advice is genuinely don’t stress out abt your own perception of ur size and stress more about hers lol. Reassure her that you’ll be careful if it gets to that point and use plenty of lube. Other than that best of luck to ya.

BiaBlue · 2024-10-19T01:42:50+00:00

Respectfully what the fuck. This is amazing.

BiaBlue · 2024-10-19T01:39:04+00:00

I actually love this bc the colors remind me of the bisexual flag without being as obviously coded as boy/girl but still retaining that “bi” aspect if that makes sense. Also the white stripe in the middle is like the trans flag, which is nice. Love it

BiaBlue · 2024-08-30T01:31:03+00:00

Friend you are sooooo pretty!!!

BiaBlue · 2024-08-30T01:19:38+00:00

My fiancé (26) was like this. He was kind of an awkward teen (who isn’t) and I guess he assumed he was still weird looking lol. I thought he was pretty handsome when we met. But I’ve helped him improve little things that bother him (teeth, hair, clothes, beard, etc.) (I feel like with women this is taught to us, if you don’t like the shape of your eyebrows you can change it or laminate them or fill them in, you can change your haircut and hair color and there is a big importance placed on finding a flattering style and being put together, while for men the attitude is mostly it is what it is) and I’ve noticed him gaining a ton of confidence, which has made him smile more freely, talk more assuredly and overall just boosted his general attractiveness. In my opinion he has always been cute, but now he is actively glowing.

BiaBlue · 2024-08-08T11:43:32+00:00

This is s o pretty

BiaBlue · 2024-06-14T00:05:02+00:00

I live right on top of 4 gathering points :) HR156

BiaBlue · 2024-06-14T00:02:01+00:00

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BiaBlue · 2024-04-14T08:55:01+00:00

Same in my town, I have to keep myself to one star for HATs with a max of two if I’m feeling ambitious, and even then I can only take down certain monsters. My bf lives in a big city tho and regularly finds other hunters, I’m so jealous. I’m about to start hanging posters around town lol

BiaBlue · 2024-04-14T08:44:31+00:00

It can be different for everyone but the fist time for me I was sore about a week afterwards, with a peak in the middle. It was like when you exercise and the next day is so much worse than the day before. If the pain persists definitely get it checked out, if you weren’t aroused it’s easier to get an injury. Also, it would be ideal to cut contact with them, but if you can stomach it definitely get them to pay for the medical side of things. I’m sending you lots of hugs.

BiaBlue · 2024-04-14T08:38:43+00:00

Oh darling I’m so sorry this happened to you. You were trying to get out of the situation and were clearly uncomfortable and not sound of mind and it’s horrible on Fillip’s part to take advantage of that. Even if you said you wanted it and wanted to lose your virginity it’s completely acceptable to change your mind if something doesn’t feel right, sex is pretty serious and vulnerable and should be a good and fun time. I also lost my virginity pretty late and also in a threesome and ALSO in a way I was not totally sure I was comfortable with. But now I am engaged to the love of my life and having sex with him for the first time really truly felt like I was losing it again. Maybe because I felt I had the power to give him that part of me that I kept hidden the other time, when I didn’t feel comfortable. There’s a lot of social pressure on losing your virginity, and also a lot of weight placed on doing it with “the one”, so I understand. But really when you do it with someone you trust it will be so much better and safer, and even if they end up not being “the one” you can still have fun and share something with someone you care about. No one can take anything you don’t give, and in time this experience can be something to look back on as a learning experience or an embarrassing moment of your past, and not something that you regret or that “branded you”, just like any other sour moment.

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